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Humbja e virgj\u00ebris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb etap\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nj\u00eb vajze. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 \u00a0eksitimit t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm, humbja e saj shoq\u00ebrohet shpesh me frik\u00eb. Por, cila \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha ideale e humbjes s\u00eb saj, pra, e raportit t\u00eb par\u00eb seksual, 15, 18, apo 20 vje\u00e7e? Ja, disa k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb vogla p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se cili \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti i duhur. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh virgj\u00ebrin\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n Teknikisht, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ende e virgj\u00ebr kur himeni (cipa q\u00eb ndodhet n\u00eb hyrje t\u00eb vagin\u00ebs) \u00ebsht\u00eb ende e paprekur. Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb raporti seksual, kjo cip\u00eb \u00e7ahet nga penisi dhe nga ky proces mund t\u00eb dalin disa pika gjak. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti i zhvirgj\u00ebrimit. Ekzistojn\u00eb shum\u00eb ide n\u00eb lidhje me humbjen e virgj\u00ebris\u00eb. P\u00ebr shembull, kal\u00ebrimi mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shkak p\u00ebr humbjen e virgj\u00ebris\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, praktikimi i nj\u00eb sporti t\u00eb rregullt, si k\u00ebrcimi apo kal\u00ebrimi mund ta zbusin himenin, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kesh m\u00eb pak dhimbje gjat\u00eb penetrimit t\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n Mosha ideale<\/strong><\/p>\n Pjekuria seksuale e djemve dhe e vajzave mendohet se arrihet nga mosha 15 vje\u00e7are, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se, n\u00ebse je i\/e virgj\u00ebr n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 16 vje\u00e7, je jasht\u00eb normave! P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies s\u00eb par\u00eb seksuale, nuk ka \u201cmosh\u00eb normale\u201d, gjith\u00e7ka varet nga pjekuria fizike e psikologjike… dhe nga rrethanat.<\/p>\n E gatshme n\u00eb trup dhe mendje<\/strong><\/p>\n Raporti i par\u00eb seksual duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb kur keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ju duhet t\u00eb jeni mjaft t\u00eb pjekura seksualisht dhe t\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb ta b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka t\u00eb till\u00eb. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e adoleshenc\u00ebs trupi p\u00ebson nj\u00eb metamorfoz\u00eb, ai merr form\u00ebn e nj\u00eb trupi t\u00eb rritur dhe zgjohet d\u00ebshira. Ju keni zbuluar si t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqni veten dhe ndjeheni mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Ju, pra, keni arritur nj\u00eb pjekuri fizike relative, por p\u00ebr momentin, lidhja juaj me seksualitetin \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmuar dhe n\u00eb kufijt\u00eb e fantazis\u00eb. Jeni gati psikologjikisht t\u2019ia zbuloni intimitetin tuaj nj\u00eb djali dhe ta ndani k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb me t\u00eb? Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, trupi zhvillohet m\u00eb shpejt se truri, por q\u00eb t\u00eb kalosh n\u00eb veprim, duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja t\u00eb veprojn\u00eb n\u00eb unison.<\/p>\n Rrethanat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira<\/strong><\/p>\n Kur t\u00eb ndjeheni gati fizikisht dhe psikologjikisht, mbetet t\u00eb gjendet personi i duhur. Ai duhet t\u2019ju p\u00eblqej\u00eb v\u00ebrtet dhe t\u2019ju ngjall\u00eb besim t\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm, sa t\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni dashuri me t\u00eb. Edhe rrethanat kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Ju duhet t\u00eb ndjeheni mir\u00eb dhe e sigurt\u00eb n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e tij. Kjo ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, sidomos p\u00ebr her\u00ebn e par\u00eb. N\u00ebse ju jeni e tendosur, muskujt vaginal\u00eb do t\u00eb kontraktohen dhe penetrimi do t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet me dhimbje. Prisni t\u00eb takoni djalin me t\u00eb cilin ndjeheni mir\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb hap, megjith\u00ebse kjo mund t\u2019ju duket zhg\u00ebnjyese… Zhg\u00ebnjimi dhe pritja jan\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs dhe e b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb pikante jet\u00ebn seksuale!<\/p>\n Mos e dramatizoni situat\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n Disa vajza presin t\u00eb jen\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb dashuruara p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur virgj\u00ebrin\u00eb. Ato kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb etap\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nj\u00eb gruaje, q\u00eb nuk duhet prishur. Kjo eksperienc\u00eb e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vendimtare p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb ardhshme seksuale. N\u00ebse ajo p\u00ebrjetohet keq, mund t\u00eb shkaktoj\u00eb bllokime ose trauma. Merreni shtruar, asgj\u00eb nuk ju nxiton. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjat\u00eb dhe gj\u00ebrat ndodhin at\u00ebher\u00eb kur duhet t\u00eb ndodhin. Ka gjithashtu vajza q\u00eb zgjedhin nj\u00eb burr\u00eb me ekperienc\u00eb, q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen, por me t\u00eb cilin nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruara. Ato duan t\u00eb heqin qafe di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e konsiderojn\u00eb si nj\u00eb barr\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrparojn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre seksuale. N\u00ebse ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb sigurta p\u00ebr ta pranuar zgjedhjen e tyre, pra, t\u00eb jen\u00eb ndryshe nga t\u00eb tjerat, at\u00ebher\u00eb, pse jo? N\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rastet, m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeheni gati dhe t\u00eb mos e dramatizoni situat\u00ebn: hera e par\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb sensacionale, por ajo u hap rrug\u00eb t\u00eb tjerave, q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme!<\/p>\n Masat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb merrni <\/strong><\/p>\n Pas r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka mosha. N\u00ebse ju vendosni t\u00eb humbisni virgj\u00ebrin\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb konsultoheni me nj\u00eb gjinekolog p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur metod\u00ebn kontraceptive m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme. Mos harroni edhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni prezervativin, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi q\u00eb t\u00eb mbron nga s\u00ebmundjet seksualisht t\u00eb transmetueshme, po edhe nga infeksionet m\u00eb t\u00eb lehta dhe q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Humbja e virgj\u00ebris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb etap\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nj\u00eb vajze. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 \u00a0eksitimit t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm, humbja e saj shoq\u00ebrohet shpesh me frik\u00eb. Por, cila \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha ideale e humbjes s\u00eb saj, pra, e raportit t\u00eb par\u00eb seksual, 15, 18, apo 20 vje\u00e7e? 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