{"id":9911,"date":"2015-07-07T16:30:56","date_gmt":"2015-07-07T14:30:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9911"},"modified":"2015-07-07T13:40:48","modified_gmt":"2015-07-07T11:40:48","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-77","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/07\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-77\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

E veshur me vello<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha veshur fustan t\u00eb bardh\u00eb dhe po nus\u00ebroja, por nuk shikoja ndonj\u00eb burr\u00eb rreth meje. Mbaj mend vet\u00ebm vellon, por vet\u00eb isha e qet\u00eb. Kam d\u00ebgjuar se velloja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sjell fatkeq\u00ebsi. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Populli k\u00ebshtu thot\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, por n\u00eb fakt, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim i gabuar, sidomos kur e shikoni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb ju, sepse parashikimi varet edhe nga veprimet brenda \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se jeni beqare, nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze martesore. N\u00ebse jeni e martuar, kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Ajo tregon se duhet t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e kujdesshme n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me bashk\u00ebshortin, pasi jo \u00e7do gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb rregull dhe duhet t\u00eb jeni e p\u00ebrgjegjshme. N\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, tregon gjithashtu se duhet t\u00eb jeni e durueshme, t\u00eb arrini t\u00eb kuptoni edhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja dhe t\u00eb mos kaloni kufirin e ca gj\u00ebrave, qoft\u00eb nga ajo \u00e7far\u00eb prisni nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, qoft\u00eb nga \u00e7far\u00eb presin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt prej jush. Gjithsesi, velloja \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb fati.<\/p>\n

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Plane<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shokun tim t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb lart\u00eb. Pash\u00eb sikur u takuam dhe q\u00ebndronim duke b\u00ebr\u00eb muhabet n\u00eb nj\u00eb kafe t\u00eb rehatshme dhe t\u00eb ndri\u00e7uar. Pas pak, aty erdhi nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb dhe ne t\u00eb dy u larguam, duke qen\u00eb se nuk po ndiheshim rehat. Ecnim bashk\u00eb rrug\u00ebs dhe diskutonim. Q\u00ebndronim shum\u00eb pran\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit dhe un\u00eb i vendosa dor\u00ebn te beli, pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i gjat\u00eb dhe ai nuk tha gj\u00eb, por m\u00eb tregonte planet p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar masterin. Un\u00eb e pyeta n\u00ebse ishte i lumtur p\u00ebr diplomimin dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb ishte gj\u00ebja q\u00eb kishte dashur m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, sidomos q\u00eb kishte takuar njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e b\u00ebnin t\u00eb lumtur. Un\u00eb e kam takuar at\u00eb dit\u00eb se ai ishte mbet\u00ebs me shoqen time. Kur e pyeta p\u00ebr planet, mendoja q\u00eb ai kishte plan t\u00eb vazhdonte shkoll\u00ebn dhe nj\u00eb e ardhme bashk\u00eb ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por pastaj mendova q\u00eb nuk kishte r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. E pyeta pse s\u2019m\u00eb kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb shoqe n\u00eb Facebook dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb nuk kishte dashur…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur lexuese, \u00ebndrra juaj tregon q\u00eb keni nj\u00ebfar\u00eb afeksioni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb, ndjeni p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb e kuptoni se ai nuk ka t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn ndjenj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju dhe kjo gj\u00eb ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni keq, edhe pse nuk e pranoni dot. Nuk dua t\u00eb zgjatem sepse s\u2019ka asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u shpjeguar p\u00ebrve\u00e7 faktit q\u00eb \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u2019i ktheni shpin\u00ebn k\u00ebtij djali. Jepini pak koh\u00eb vetes dhe atij. N\u00ebse ai v\u00ebrtet ndjen di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ju, do t\u00eb vij\u00eb pas jush. Po i shkuat ju mbrapa, ai nuk do t\u00eb vij\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb drejt jush. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi q\u00eb t\u00eb jep \u00ebndrra n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet sjelljes s\u00eb tij n\u00eb t\u00eb. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

E veshur me vello – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha veshur fustan t\u00eb bardh\u00eb dhe po nus\u00ebroja, por nuk shikoja ndonj\u00eb burr\u00eb rreth meje. Mbaj mend vet\u00ebm vellon, por vet\u00eb isha e qet\u00eb. Kam d\u00ebgjuar se velloja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sjell fatkeq\u00ebsi. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? – Populli k\u00ebshtu thot\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, por n\u00eb fakt, kjo […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9911","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9911"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9911\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9911"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9911"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9911"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}