{"id":9877,"date":"2015-07-02T17:30:06","date_gmt":"2015-07-02T15:30:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9877"},"modified":"2015-07-02T11:50:15","modified_gmt":"2015-07-02T09:50:15","slug":"mos-ndoshta-lidhja-juaj-eshte-percaktuar-nga-karma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/07\/mos-ndoshta-lidhja-juaj-eshte-percaktuar-nga-karma\/","title":{"rendered":"Mos ndoshta lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar nga karma?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje e p\u00ebrcaktuar nga karma? Ajo q\u00eb karakterizohet nga nj\u00eb joshje e fort\u00eb ndaj nj\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr, qoft\u00eb edhe sikur sapo ta keni njohur. K\u00ebshtu pra, koha nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me karm\u00ebn. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fenomen q\u00eb ende nuk jemi n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019ia shpjegojm\u00eb, bile as vetes son\u00eb. Problemi q\u00ebndron n\u00eb faktin se, n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, lidhja karmike zgjat vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr kohe. Si ta kuptojm\u00eb n\u00ebse lidhja jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb karmike? Le t\u00eb \u201clexojm\u00eb\u201d dhe studiojm\u00eb shenjat e saj. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Joshje e menj\u00ebhershme dhe e fort\u00eb<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Kur ndjejm\u00eb nj\u00eb joshje t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme dhe t\u00eb fuqishme ndaj nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb sapo e kemi takuar, at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr dashuri karmike. Pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse joshja \u00ebsht\u00eb e karakterit romantik, ose e nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsie t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb, k\u00ebto shenja t\u00eb komunikimit t\u00eb menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm sugjerojn\u00eb se di\u00e7ka karmike po ndodh.<\/p>\n

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    1. Familjaritet i pashpjeguesh\u00ebm<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Sapo keni takuar nj\u00eb njeri, por ndjeheni shum\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt me t\u00eb, sa t\u2019ju duket sikur keni vite q\u00eb e njihni. Ju e filloni bised\u00ebn me t\u00eb sikur t\u00eb ishte shoku juaj i ngusht\u00eb q\u00eb e kishit humbur prej koh\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n

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      1. Nuk ekzistojn\u00eb masa dhe arsye<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Lidhja karmike shpesh ndodh mes njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb absolutisht asgj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, prandaj edhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashpjegueshme. Jemi t\u00eb paaft\u00eb t\u00eb shpjegojm\u00eb sa dhe pse ndjehemi kaq af\u00ebr, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb thelb jemi t\u00eb panjohur, bile me karaktere t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta.<\/p>\n

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        1. Shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          N\u00ebse ndjeni se po harxhoni shum\u00eb energji dhe p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur gjysm\u00ebn tuaj karmike, me t\u00eb cilin ndjeheni kaq af\u00ebr, at\u00ebher\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr dashuri karmike. \u00c7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni, personi tjet\u00ebr nuk do t\u00eb mbetet i k\u00ebnaqur dhe ju thjesht nuk mund t\u00eb ndalni p\u00ebrpjekjet.<\/p>\n

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          1. Karmike, por e nj\u00ebanshme<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            P\u00ebrve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerave, ja edhe nj\u00eb lajm tjet\u00ebr i keq: Lidhjet karmike jan\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb nj\u00ebanshme. Vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebri prej ju t\u00eb dyve do t\u00eb ndjeje nj\u00eb joshje ta pap\u00ebrballueshme ndaj tjetrit, nd\u00ebrsa personi tjet\u00ebr, thjesht do t\u2019i injoroj\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht ndjenjat e t\u00eb parit.<\/p>\n

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            1. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb largohesh<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje kaq t\u00eb fuqishme ju mund t\u00eb ndjeni, t\u00eb dini se tjetri nuk interesohet, megjithat\u00eb, nuk keni fuqin\u00eb t\u00eb largoheni prej tij, pavar\u00ebsisht nga \u00e7mimi q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb paguani; qoft\u00eb edhe sikur t\u00eb jeni b\u00ebr\u00eb thjesht vrojtues t\u00eb ndjenjave tuaja.<\/p>\n

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              1. Ndjenja si n\u00eb malet ruse<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Nj\u00eb lidhje karmike ngjan me nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtitje n\u00eb malet ruse. Ndjenjat ngjiten n\u00eb maj\u00eb dhe pas nj\u00eb sekonde, bien posht\u00eb n\u00eb humner\u00eb. Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb sjell paqen dhe lumturin\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn tuaj, nd\u00ebrsa dashuria karmike ushqehet me fatkeq\u00ebsin\u00eb, z\u00ebnkat dhe zhg\u00ebnjimin tuaj,<\/p>\n

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                1. \u00c7el\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebr ta \u00e7liruar veten nga nj\u00eb lidhje karmike \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb pranoni se jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb till\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb ta shihni tjetrin ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb thyeni hallkat e zinxhirit q\u00eb ju lidhin me t\u00eb dhe t\u00eb \u00e7lironi veten nga nj\u00eb lidhje e fuqishme, por edhe vet\u00ebshkat\u00ebrruese.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                    \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje e p\u00ebrcaktuar nga karma? Ajo q\u00eb karakterizohet nga nj\u00eb joshje e fort\u00eb ndaj nj\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr, qoft\u00eb edhe sikur sapo ta keni njohur. K\u00ebshtu pra, koha nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me karm\u00ebn. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fenomen q\u00eb ende nuk jemi n\u00eb gjendje t\u2019ia shpjegojm\u00eb, bile as vetes son\u00eb. Problemi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9877","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9877","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9877"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9877\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9877"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9877"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9877"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}