{"id":9865,"date":"2015-07-01T17:00:43","date_gmt":"2015-07-01T15:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9865"},"modified":"2015-07-01T13:14:01","modified_gmt":"2015-07-01T11:14:01","slug":"dua-te-kem-shoqerine-qe-kam-pasur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/07\/dua-te-kem-shoqerine-qe-kam-pasur\/","title":{"rendered":"Dua t\u00eb kem shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb q\u00eb kam pasur"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; Un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb lexues i rregullt i k\u00ebsaj gazete. Jam i shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka n\u00eb lidhje me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. Gjithmon\u00eb kam patur imazh t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e kudo, por koh\u00ebt e fundit ndihem shum\u00eb i vetmuar, sepse jam prishur me shoqen time m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe jemi z\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr kot gj\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka m\u00ebrzitur shum\u00eb. Tani, edhe shoq\u00ebria q\u00eb kishim t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar, nuk jan\u00eb me mua, por me at\u00eb. Un\u00eb dua t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoj falje, m\u00eb duket \u00e7do gj\u00eb e err\u00ebt koh\u00ebt e fundit, dua t\u00eb kem shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb q\u00eb kam pasur dhe nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; <\/strong>I nderuar, me ato q\u00eb m\u00eb shkruan, m\u00eb l\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj se \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebson \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur me problemin q\u00eb ke pasur me shoqen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. Mendoj se duhet ta analizosh mir\u00eb situat\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhesh e, n\u00ebse t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh mir\u00eb shoq\u00ebria e m\u00ebparshme, s`ka gj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb sesa t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh falje kur ke gabuar, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb me an\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, mund t\u00eb fitosh ti vet\u00eb; shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e m\u00ebparshme s\u00eb bashku me aktivitetet q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb shum\u00eb. Pra, si\u00e7 thot\u00eb shprehja \u201cT\u00eb gabosh \u00ebsht\u00eb njer\u00ebzore, t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb hyjnore\u201d. K\u00ebt\u00eb mund t\u2019ia kujtosh shoqes, pasi ta kesh b\u00ebr\u00eb ti hapin i pari. Jepi zem\u00ebr vetes, shko drejt saj dhe k\u00ebrkoji falje duke biseduar si dy shok\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Do t\u00eb kuptoni q\u00eb pas k\u00ebtij veprimi do t\u00eb ndiheni p\u00ebrve\u00e7se i \u00e7liruar, edhe shum\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb me veten dhe jeta do t\u2019ju duket m\u00eb e bukur. Ju jeni shum\u00eb i ri q\u00eb ta shikoni jet\u00ebn kaq t\u00eb zymt\u00eb. Mendoni se shum\u00eb veta kan\u00eb edhe fatkeq\u00ebsira n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri jetojn\u00eb e ecin p\u00ebrpara. Edhe n\u00ebse shoqja nuk ju fal, veprimi juaj do ta v\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb sed\u00ebr dhe me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, zem\u00ebrimi i saj do t\u00eb zbutet dhe do t\u00eb vij\u00eb vet\u00eb drejt jush. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb lexues i rregullt i k\u00ebsaj gazete. Jam i shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka n\u00eb lidhje me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. Gjithmon\u00eb kam patur imazh t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e kudo, por koh\u00ebt e fundit ndihem shum\u00eb i vetmuar, sepse jam prishur me shoqen time m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe jemi z\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9865","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9865","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9865"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9865\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}