{"id":9863,"date":"2015-07-01T15:00:58","date_gmt":"2015-07-01T13:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9863"},"modified":"2015-07-01T12:06:05","modified_gmt":"2015-07-01T10:06:05","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-76","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/07\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-76\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ish-burri<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksia! Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ngelur n\u00eb mendje. Pash\u00eb sikur erdhi n\u00ebna ime bashk\u00eb me daj\u00ebn tim dhe m\u00eb soll\u00ebn lajmin q\u00eb ish-burri im kishte vrar\u00eb veten. T\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, nuk ndjeva asgj\u00eb, as dhimbje, as pik\u00ebllim. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, a ka ndonj\u00eb shpjegim? Shum\u00eb faleminderit. Alketa. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur Alketa, duke qen\u00eb se ju keni p\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb divorc, \u00ebsht\u00eb normale t\u00eb shikoni nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb till\u00eb sepse n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit nuk e keni p\u00ebrjetuar mir\u00eb ndarjen. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb gjith\u00eb familja juaj dhe fisi. Vet\u00ebvrasja e tij n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nuk tregon gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb histori t\u00eb mbyllur. \u00c7do gj\u00eb ka marr\u00eb fund dhe tashm\u00eb ju do t\u00eb shikoni p\u00ebrpara, pavar\u00ebsisht zhg\u00ebnjimeve q\u00eb mund t\u00eb keni patur. P\u00ebr ju, po fillon periudha e qet\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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M\u00eb tradhtoi e dashura<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur e dashura ime u kthye nga nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim dhe un\u00eb po e prisja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Kur erdhi, m\u00eb tha q\u00eb m\u00eb kishte tradhtuar, por q\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb moment dob\u00ebsie dhe i vinte keq p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb i kishte ndodhur. M\u2019u duk e sinqert\u00eb. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson kjo gj\u00eb. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– I nderuar Bledi! Mes jush dhe t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs parashikohet nj\u00eb debat q\u00eb do t\u2019ju \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb ndarje. Shkak i ndarjes nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb tradhtia. Megjithat\u00eb, pas nj\u00eb periudhe t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr kohe, ju do t\u00eb riktheheni bashk\u00eb dhe akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar pas nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Ju e dini shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb shpirt e dashura juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb ndaj jush, prandaj edhe e keni p\u00ebr zem\u00ebr. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n

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E veshur me vello<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha veshur fustan t\u00eb bardh\u00eb dhe po nus\u00ebroja, por nuk shikoja ndonj\u00eb burr\u00eb rreth meje. Mbaj mend vet\u00ebm vellon, por vet\u00eb isha e qet\u00eb. Kam d\u00ebgjuar se velloja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sjell fatkeq\u00ebsi. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Populli k\u00ebshtu thot\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, por n\u00eb fakt, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim i gabuar, sidomos kur e shikoni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb ju, sepse parashikimi varet edhe nga veprimet brenda \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se jeni beqare, nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze martesore. N\u00ebse jeni e martuar, kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Ajo tregon se duhet t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e kujdesshme n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me bashk\u00ebshortin, pasi jo \u00e7do gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb rregull dhe duhet t\u00eb jeni e p\u00ebrgjegjshme. N\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, tregon gjithashtu se duhet t\u00eb jeni e durueshme, t\u00eb arrini t\u00eb kuptoni edhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja dhe t\u00eb mos kaloni kufirin e ca gj\u00ebrave, qoft\u00eb nga ajo \u00e7far\u00eb prisni nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, qoft\u00eb nga \u00e7far\u00eb presin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt prej jush. Gjithsesi, \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb fati.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ish-burri – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksia! Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ngelur n\u00eb mendje. Pash\u00eb sikur erdhi n\u00ebna ime bashk\u00eb me daj\u00ebn tim dhe m\u00eb soll\u00ebn lajmin q\u00eb ish-burri im kishte vrar\u00eb veten. T\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, nuk ndjeva asgj\u00eb, as dhimbje, as pik\u00ebllim. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, a ka ndonj\u00eb shpjegim? Shum\u00eb faleminderit. Alketa. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9863","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9863"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9863\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}