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Vjehrri q\u00eb nuk jeton<\/strong><\/p>\n – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr vjehrrin tim i cili nuk jeton m\u00eb. Ishim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe kishim shum\u00eb debate, dikush po thoshte \u201cjo \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yt, jo po i atij tjetrit q\u00eb ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb\u201d. Kishte lindur nj\u00eb debat shum\u00eb i madh dhe nj\u00eb moment u shfaq vjehrri im, i cili po na shikonte v\u00ebng\u00ebr. Jam shum\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar, ndaj do t\u2019jua dija shum\u00eb p\u00ebr nder sikur t\u00eb ma shpjegonit k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. <\/strong><\/p>\n – Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb ka lidhje m\u00eb shum\u00eb me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tuaj si familje; jan\u00eb debate, pishmane dhe diskutime q\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb ende sot e k\u00ebsaj dite, ose jan\u00eb disa pengje q\u00eb ju kan\u00eb ngelur n\u00eb shpirt dhe do t\u00eb donit t\u2019i rihapnit si diskutim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Pastaj, sigurisht q\u00eb mungesa e vjehrrit n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ka sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj shqet\u00ebsimi. Nga \u00ebndrra kuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb mbledhje familjare, por kjo do t\u2019ju shqet\u00ebsoj\u00eb. Shfaqja e vjehrrit tregon n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre q\u00eb ndihet i shqet\u00ebsuar n\u00eb at\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr ato \u00e7far\u00eb diskutoni ende n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Mos vall\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb q\u00eb ju ta lini t\u00eb prehet n\u00eb paqe vjehrrin tuaj dhe t\u00eb mos hapni tema q\u00eb i p\u00ebrkasin t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs, sepse vet\u00ebm sa do t\u00eb l\u00ebndoheni? Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Fundi i bot\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n – Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb shoh shum\u00eb shpesh \u00ebndrra sikur vjen fundi i bot\u00ebs? Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shoh cunami, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00ebrmet, por gjithnj\u00eb flitet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar. Un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj dhe dukem sikur kam rilindur, pavar\u00ebsisht se shoh p\u00ebrmbytje. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, sepse m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb merak? <\/strong><\/p>\n – P\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, \u00ebndrrat q\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb fundin e bot\u00ebs kan\u00eb kuptimin e nj\u00eb rilindjeje t\u00eb brendshme, ashtu si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb ju veten. \u00c7far\u00ebdolloj ngjarjeje t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoni, qoft\u00eb ajo edhe e keqe, n\u00eb fund ju do t\u00eb dilni t\u00eb fituar. Ndoshta si fillim e p\u00ebrjetoni \u00e7do gj\u00eb keq, por n\u00eb fund kuptoni se keni b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebn\u00eb e duhur. Jeni person q\u00eb p\u00ebrballoni \u00e7do problem dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi me kurajo dhe nuk keni frik\u00eb nga asgj\u00eb. Nuk i shmangeni problemit, por e p\u00ebrballoni me guxim dhe kjo gj\u00eb ju ndihmon q\u00eb t\u00eb dilni t\u00eb fituar, qoft\u00eb dhe t\u00eb \u00e7liruar nga \u00e7do barr\u00eb mendimesh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Vjehrri q\u00eb nuk jeton – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr vjehrrin tim i cili nuk jeton m\u00eb. Ishim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe kishim shum\u00eb debate, dikush po thoshte \u201cjo \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yt, jo po i atij tjetrit q\u00eb ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb\u201d. Kishte lindur nj\u00eb debat shum\u00eb i madh dhe nj\u00eb moment u shfaq vjehrri im, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9778","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9778","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9778"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9778\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9778"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9778"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9778"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}