{"id":9758,"date":"2015-06-24T16:00:32","date_gmt":"2015-06-24T14:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9758"},"modified":"2015-06-24T12:28:04","modified_gmt":"2015-06-24T10:28:04","slug":"interviste-me-vajzen-qe-ben-seks-nepermjet-internetit-do-bej-kete-pune-derisa-te-gjej-nje-burre-me-lek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/interviste-me-vajzen-qe-ben-seks-nepermjet-internetit-do-bej-kete-pune-derisa-te-gjej-nje-burre-me-lek\/","title":{"rendered":"Intervist\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebn seks n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet internetit Do b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb gjej nj\u00eb burr\u00eb me lek!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bota e internetit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e madhe dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk ofron… Ne sot do t\u00eb flasim me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet internetit, ofron… seks! Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e forumeve dhe \u00e7ateve t\u00eb bisedimit virtual nga ku m\u00eb pas, gjith\u00e7ka e konkretizon n\u00eb bot\u00ebn reale, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb seks n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet pages\u00ebs. Shum\u00eb e trisht\u00eb kur e lexon, por koh\u00ebt e fundit \u00e7far\u00eb nuk na d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb vesh\u00ebt! Vajza ka d\u00ebshiruar t\u00eb mbetet anonime dhe ne, sigurisht, e kemi respektuar d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e saj, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb intervist\u00ebn anonime, p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur fenomenin e koh\u00ebrave \u201cmoderne\u201d. Ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerash, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn p\u00ebrshtypje fakti q\u00eb, n\u00ebse i flet p\u00ebr \u201cmbrojtje n\u00eb seks\u201d, ajo p\u00ebrmend vet\u00ebm kontraceptiv\u00ebt (edhe prezervativ\u00ebt, ajo i quan kontraceptiv\u00eb!), me pak fjal\u00eb, me mbrojtje, n\u00ebnkupton vet\u00ebm mbrojtjen nga shtatzanit\u00eb. Ajo, as q\u00eb e mendon se duhet t\u00eb mbrohet edhe nga s\u00ebmundjet seksualisht t\u00eb transmetueshme e jo m\u00eb ta praktikoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb… N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7at, ne njoh\u00ebm virtualisht Tean…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Tea! Sa koh\u00eb ke q\u00eb b\u00ebn seks n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet rezervimeve k\u00ebtu n\u00eb \u00e7at? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta \u201cIntervista\u201d! K\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb tani e kam kthyer n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe nuk e kujtoj mir\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb, por andej nga viti i dyt\u00eb bachelor kam nisur…<\/p>\n

– Mund t\u00eb na e shpjegosh me m\u00eb shum\u00eb detaje se si funksionon seksi online? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Un\u00eb hap adres\u00ebn vvvvvv.parajsachat.com<\/a> dhe aty zgjedh opsionin e \u00e7atit. M\u00eb del nj\u00eb tabel\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb \u00e7at dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb pseudonim. Un\u00eb hyj me pseudonime t\u00eb ndyshme, p\u00ebr shembull, \u201cVajzXsex\u201d ose \u201cCamarrokeHot\u201d etj. Aty shkruaj n\u00eb dritaren kryesore, aty ku shkruajn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e pasi m\u00eb lexojn\u00eb, m\u00eb vijn\u00eb mesazhe n\u00eb privat. Nga biseda un\u00eb pastaj zgjedh se me k\u00eb dua t\u00eb flas dhe i vler\u00ebsoj.<\/p>\n

– Por si e provojn\u00eb ata q\u00eb ti je fem\u00ebr?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Un\u00eb zgjedh se me k\u00eb prej tyre dua t\u00eb flas. Pasi i pyes p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb t\u00eb shoh edhe se cili prej tyre ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb paguaj\u00eb, t\u00eb mos m\u00eb ik\u00eb edhe mua koha kot. Un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb adres\u00eb Skype, me pseudonimin tim dhe aty p\u00ebrzgjedh e u tregoj veten dhe pjes\u00ebt e trupit. U l\u00eb edhe numrin tim t\u00eb telefonit.<\/p>\n

– Dhe…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u00eb pas mbajm\u00eb kontakte 2-3 dit\u00eb, flasim n\u00eb Skype, telefon ose Facebook. N\u00eb rast se ma lypin, u k\u00ebrkoj t\u00eb m\u00eb tregojn\u00eb lek\u00ebt direkt n\u00eb skype dhe t\u2019u b\u00ebjn\u00eb fotografi. Shumica jan\u00eb nga rrethet. Kur vijn\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, zgjedh gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb vend publik p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb kafen, ku shoh n\u00ebse i ka marr\u00eb lek\u00ebt me vete. M\u00eb pas shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb hotel.<\/p>\n

– Sa jan\u00eb tarifat e tua?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po variojn\u00eb… nga 5000 lek\u00eb t\u00eb reja deri n\u00eb 15.000, se e kam trupin yll dhe vet\u00eb jam e mbajtur. Ka raste, kur jam n\u00eb sezon provimesh n\u00eb master ose kur dua t\u00eb blej di\u00e7ka, q\u00eb u k\u00ebrkoj edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Pastaj, varet edhe nga sa koh\u00eb kalojn\u00eb ata me mua. I llogaris edhe me or\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrdor masa mbrojt\u00ebse?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, po, gjithmon\u00eb me kontraceptiv\u00eb. Kur ka ndonj\u00eb bos q\u00eb e ka bezdi, edhe n\u00eb at\u00eb rast ka kontraceptiv\u00eb kokrra. Jam gjithnj\u00eb e kujdesshme, por edhe klient\u00ebt sot jan\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuar.<\/p>\n

– Me \u00e7far\u00eb moshash shkon p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mosha t\u00eb reja… Un\u00eb vet\u00eb jam 23 vje\u00e7e dhe tep\u00ebr t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr nuk i kam qejf. Me t\u00eb rinj b\u00ebhet qejfi m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe me energji. (Qesh)<\/p>\n

– Po me mosha t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, nuk shkon kategorikisht?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Tashi… mosha t\u00eb m\u00ebdha shum\u00eb shum\u00eb jo. M\u00eb i madhi m\u00eb ka q\u00eblluar 45 vje\u00e7, por ishte i paraqitsh\u00ebm. Ma prishi mendjen se pagoi shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Si i p\u00ebrzgjedh ti ata me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh seks?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E para e pun\u00ebs k\u00ebtu ka shum\u00eb kategori njer\u00ebzish, nga m\u00eb banal\u00ebt. Duhet t\u00eb jesh shum\u00eb e kujdesshme, por un\u00eb ngaq\u00eb jam zhg\u00ebnjyer shum\u00eb her\u00eb, i dalloj, i psikologjis tani. Menj\u00ebher\u00eb sapo shohin q\u00eb ke pseudonim femre, t\u00eb d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb mesazhe \u201ct\u00eb h\u00ebngsha p***in , t\u00eb b\u00ebfsha k\u00ebt\u00eb\u201d etj. Ka edhe shum\u00eb baballar\u00eb sing\u00ebll e t\u00eb ndar\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb bisha fare. Jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb uritur.<\/p>\n

– The q\u00eb je zhg\u00ebnjyer shum\u00eb her\u00eb…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>M\u00eb sakt\u00eb, jam g\u00ebnjyer se vinin lloj-lloj, prenotonin dhe nuk kishin lek\u00eb. Ndryshe hiqeshin e ndryshe dilnin, por q\u00ebkur i b\u00ebj takimet n\u00eb publik, me shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz v\u00ebrdall\u00eb, nuk kan\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Ose tani, p\u00ebr shembull, koh\u00ebt e fundit, u k\u00ebrkoj n\u00eb skype 2 or\u00eb para se t\u2019i takoj, q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb tregojn\u00eb lek\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

– Tea, ti p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb studion dhe a \u00ebsht\u00eb Tea emri yt i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– D\u00ebgjo! Ram\u00eb dakord q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thoja asgj\u00eb nga vetja, as edhe ku studioj! Jo, Tea nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb emri im i v\u00ebrt\u00ebt\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb them q\u00eb jam nga Berati, studente, por jetoj n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Ti e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr veten t\u00ebnde apo ke tutor?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Uuuu larg qoft\u00eb! Ka shum\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb tutor, por un\u00eb s\u2019jam nga ato. Un\u00eb jam mbi 18 vje\u00e7e dhe e b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Nuk e b\u00ebj shpesh sepse e hedh grepin te shtresat e larta e sa her\u00eb kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr lek\u00eb. Ka dhe nga ajo kategori q\u00eb ju thoni, por jo, nuk jam aq r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Minimumi n\u00eb 2 muaj mund t\u00eb kem 3 djem p\u00ebr seks, si\u00e7 i dua un\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Pse e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr lek?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, normale, ka raste q\u00eb jam tep\u00ebr holl\u00eb… Nuk do vdes p\u00ebr buk\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00ebn e shtrenjt\u00eb! K\u00ebshtu, blej gj\u00ebra t\u00eb shtrenjta. Ka pasur raste, si\u00e7 ishte p\u00ebr shembull nj\u00eb vlonjat, q\u00eb m\u00eb mori edhe me pushime. K\u00ebnaqesh. Kur je e bukur, pse t\u00eb mos e shfryt\u00ebzosh?! E di q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb paragjykojn\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebtu, pasi ta lexojn\u00eb…<\/p>\n

– E mban mend her\u00ebn e par\u00eb kur e b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet internetit?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbh\u00eb, her\u00ebt e para kisha ende komplekse e \u201cturp\u201d, por tani kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka kaluar. Si fillim, mua ma tregoi nj\u00eb shoqja ime q\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb. Ajo m\u00eb tregoi p\u00ebr Tinderin, nj\u00eb rrjet social ku njihesh n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet fotove. M\u00eb pas, lidhesh me djalin e preferuar. Shum\u00eb t\u00eb virgj\u00ebra e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb! (Qesh)<\/p>\n

– Cilat rrjete p\u00ebrdor ti p\u00ebr t\u2019u lidhur me dik\u00eb p\u00ebr seks?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Lidhen vet\u00eb ata… Shyqyr q\u00eb kemi trupin q\u00eb nuk na ka r\u00ebn\u00eb. Pastaj, edhe pak gjimnastik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo pun\u00eb… (Qesh) M\u00eb shpesh p\u00ebrdor Badoo dhe \u00e7atin Parajsa, si dhe vvvvvv.international-chat.org<\/a>. Aty zgjedh random, pastaj flamurin shqiptar dhe lidhem me kamera me djem direkt.<\/p>\n

– Ke frik\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Tani, normale q\u00eb kemi ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, por ndjenja e eksitimit e mposht frik\u00ebn!<\/p>\n

– Mendon se t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb shqiptar\u00eb e praktikojn\u00eb shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb metod\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Normale q\u00eb po. Pastaj m\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, sesa t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb nam rrug\u00ebve. Ju keni koh\u00ebt e fundit edhe rastin e atij gazetarit t\u00eb Top Channelit, q\u00eb ta m\u00ebsoni se sa n\u00eb mod\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb. Un\u00eb kam pasur shum\u00eb VIP-a, por absolutisht nuk i tregoj me emra se jam e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb do pyes\u00ebsh. Dua t\u00eb ruaj anonimatin. Un\u00eb n\u00eb internet b\u00ebj edhe seks virtual, e praktikoj shpesh. Ata q\u00eb duan t\u00eb m\u00eb shohin, m\u00eb transferojn\u00eb lek\u00eb ose m\u00eb japin numrat e kartave t\u00eb telefonit q\u00eb m\u00eb blejn\u00eb, ose m\u00eb mbushin llogarin\u00eb time bankare etj.<\/p>\n

– Cil\u00ebt paguajn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto lloj njohjesh?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Mua m\u00eb kan\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb disa t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm q\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb kosovar\u00eb, por q\u00eb ishin emigrant\u00eb n\u00eb Angli, Zvic\u00ebr, e n\u00ebp\u00ebr Suedira e Gjermanira e k\u00ebshtu shtetesh. Madje ka pasur edhe nga ata q\u00eb e kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb treshe. N\u00eb internet ka shum\u00eb vend edhe p\u00ebr fantazi. M\u00eb kan\u00eb pagujt edhe hotele t\u00eb shtrenjta. K\u00ebta kan\u00eb paguar m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Po t\u00eb drejtohem me pseudonimin Tea, si ti m\u2019u prezantove… T\u00eb uroj shum\u00eb siguri n\u00eb k\u00ebto q\u00eb b\u00ebn dhe faleminderit q\u00eb e ndave me ne k\u00ebt\u00eb trend t\u00eb ri. Nuk po u hyjm\u00eb an\u00ebve t\u00eb shumta negative, pasi ti nuk doje t\u00eb flisje p\u00ebr to, ndaj dua t\u00eb t\u00eb pyes vet\u00ebm se deri kur do ta ushtrosh ti k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Sa t\u00eb mbaroj shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb. T\u00eb mbledh edhe lek\u00ebt p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb mik p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vend pune ose sa t\u00eb ngecemi te ndonj\u00eb burr\u00eb me lek\u00eb. Faleminderit dhe, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb ka shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra negative, por un\u00eb jam n\u00eb mosh\u00eb madhore dhe nuk jam minorene ose dhe si raste t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb jan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr televizione. Un\u00eb e b\u00ebj kur t\u00eb m\u00eb teket. Ju uroj edhe juve gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bota e internetit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e madhe dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk ofron… Ne sot do t\u00eb flasim me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet internetit, ofron… seks! Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e forumeve dhe \u00e7ateve t\u00eb bisedimit virtual nga ku m\u00eb pas, gjith\u00e7ka e konkretizon n\u00eb bot\u00ebn reale, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb seks n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet pages\u00ebs. Shum\u00eb e trisht\u00eb kur e lexon, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92,95],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle","category-rrefime-mekatesh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9758","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9758"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9758\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9758"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9758"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9758"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}