{"id":9705,"date":"2015-06-19T17:00:34","date_gmt":"2015-06-19T15:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9705"},"modified":"2015-06-19T11:56:12","modified_gmt":"2015-06-19T09:56:12","slug":"seks-ne-pune-ja-rregullat-qe-duhet-te-ndiqni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/seks-ne-pune-ja-rregullat-qe-duhet-te-ndiqni\/","title":{"rendered":"Seks n\u00eb pun\u00eb? Ja, rregullat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndiqni"},"content":{"rendered":"

Disa njer\u00ebz e respektojn\u00eb me fanatiz\u00ebm rregullin “Jo seks n\u00eb pun\u00eb”, por ka edhe nga ata q\u00eb preferojn\u00eb t’i b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb pikante or\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. N\u00ebse i p\u00ebrkisni grupit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, kemi ca k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr ju… Megjith\u00ebse nuk ka ligj q\u00eb e ndalon seksin n\u00eb zyr\u00eb, k\u00ebshillohet nj\u00eb minimum rezervimi, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos b\u00ebheni lolo e gjith\u00eb kolektivit…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Gjeni vendin e duhur<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jan\u00eb me fat ata q\u00eb zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb mbyllur, me nj\u00eb port\u00eb! Ata mund t\u00eb t\u00ebrheqin aty partnerin\/en e tyre p\u00ebr nj\u00eb seanc\u00eb t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb seksi. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, viktima t\u00eb tendenc\u00ebs “sip\u00ebrfaqe t\u00eb hapura”, duhet t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb tjera…<\/p>\n

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Shfryt\u00ebzoni nd\u00ebrtes\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb rrotull jush (gjat\u00eb drek\u00ebs, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, etj), mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni edhe pa komoditetin e nj\u00eb shtrati p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar nga nj\u00eb pauz\u00eb seksi. <\/em><\/p>\n

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– Tavolina e pun\u00ebs<\/em><\/p>\n

Pasi t\u00eb keni hequr dokumentet e pun\u00ebs (nuk keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb zhubrosni dosjen filan), mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoni nga k\u00ebndi i penetrimit q\u00eb ofron lart\u00ebsia e tavolin\u00ebs…<\/p>\n

– Karrigia<\/em><\/p>\n

Ulur rehat n\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoni nga k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e seksit oral dhe t’ia ktheni edhe atij me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn monedh\u00eb. Ju gjithashtu mund t\u00eb “kal\u00ebroni” partnerin e ulur n\u00eb nj\u00eb karrige pune, sidomos n\u00ebse ajo rrotullohet.<\/p>\n

– N\u00eb dysheme<\/em><\/p>\n

Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vend klasik, q\u00eb lejon t\u00eb gjitha pozicionet. Megjithat\u00eb, kujdes nga f\u00ebrkimi i tepruar i gjunj\u00ebve me tapetin. P\u00ebrdorni nj\u00eb pallto apo nj\u00eb coh\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u mbrojtur nga k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pap\u00eblqyera.<\/p>\n

– Makina fotokopjuese<\/em><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb klishe e madhe! N\u00eb fund, t\u00eb fundit, pse jo? Kjo mobilje, n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb jo seksi, paraqet t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi si tavolina e zyr\u00ebs. Tregohuni t\u00eb pjekur dhe rezistojini tundimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb fotokopjuar pjes\u00ebt tuaja intime.<\/p>\n

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Vende t\u00eb pazakonta<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb momenti t\u00eb vini n\u00eb pun\u00eb imagjinat\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb largoni frik\u00ebn. Ju do ta shihni se k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia do t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e madhe…<\/em><\/p>\n

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– Shkall\u00ebt e sh\u00ebrbimit\/e daljes n\u00eb rast rreziku<\/em><\/p>\n

K\u00ebto shkall\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorshme, por p\u00ebrdoren rrall\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb nj\u00eb vend ideal p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb s’pret. P\u00ebrgatituni p\u00ebr shum\u00eb akrobaci.<\/p>\n

– Ashensori<\/em><\/p>\n

Vendi i ngusht\u00eb, frika se mos t\u00eb kapin n\u00eb flagranc\u00eb dhe detyrimi q\u00eb t\u00eb veproni shpejt, marrin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb suksesin e k\u00ebsaj fantazie. Evitoni pozicionet e Kamasutr\u00ebs, preferoni efikasitetin e nj\u00eb seksi t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb. Kujdes, mos b\u00ebni shum\u00eb l\u00ebvizje! Nuk besojm\u00eb se keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebzoni ashensorin…<\/p>\n

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Zgjidhni partnerin e duhur<\/strong><\/p>\n

I bukur, inteligjent, xhentil, zbavit\u00ebs, i pasur dhe shum\u00eb i dashuruar… Kujdes, i dashuri q\u00eb keni zgjedhur n\u00eb pun\u00eb, nuk duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb vet\u00ebm k\u00ebto kritere. Mund\u00ebsit\u00eb e zgjedhjeve jan\u00eb pa fund.<\/p>\n

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Partneri zyrtar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Partnerin e keni edhe koleg pune? At\u00ebher\u00eb mos hezitoni t\u00eb ndryshoni rutin\u00ebn, duke i l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit takime t\u00eb nxehta brenda nd\u00ebrmarrjes.<\/p>\n

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Nj\u00eb partner kalimtar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stazhieri (m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb), q\u00eb ka ardhur nga nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrje tjet\u00ebr dhe q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb gjat\u00eb aty \u00ebsht\u00eb kandidati ideal. Me siguri ai nuk do t’ua tregoj\u00eb ngjyr\u00ebn e mbathjeve tuaja koleg\u00ebve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb kur t\u00eb keni pushimin e drek\u00ebs, disa jav\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb…<\/p>\n

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Kolegu<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ju bashk\u00ebpunoni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe, duke q\u00ebndruar me t\u00eb tet\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, sigurisht q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni indiferente. At\u00ebher\u00eb, pse t\u00eb mos e hidhni k\u00ebt\u00eb hap? N\u00ebse doni nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, pse jo? Por, n\u00ebse b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb kalimtare, mendohuni mir\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Kjo mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tuaja profesionale dhe nj\u00ebri nga ju mund t\u00eb ushqej\u00eb ndjenja t\u00eb nj\u00ebanshme p\u00ebr tjetrin… N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, situata do t\u00eb ishte dramatike!<\/p>\n

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Shefi ose n\u00ebpun\u00ebsi i varur prej jush<\/strong><\/p>\n

Terren i rreziksh\u00ebm. Raportet hierarkike zakonisht nuk p\u00ebrputhen me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale. Megjith\u00ebse eksitimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh kur mendon se do t\u00eb thyesh di\u00e7ka t\u00eb ndaluar, apo kur ushtron pushtetin t\u00ebnd, \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb evitohet seksi me k\u00ebta persona. Akuzat p\u00ebr ngacmim seksual ose se ke shkuar me shefin p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur p\u00ebrfitime, mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb karrier\u00ebn dhe besueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n

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Rregullat e arta t\u00eb seksit n\u00eb zyr\u00eb <\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Tregohuni t\u00eb rezervuar.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    E kot\u00eb t\u00eb hyni n\u00eb goj\u00ebn e thashethemexhinjve t\u00eb zyr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

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    1. Evitoni shk\u00ebmbimin e emaileve t\u00eb nxehta me “seks-kolegun”.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Nj\u00eb gabim dhe emaili juaj mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb tek emaili i nd\u00ebrmarrjes.<\/p>\n

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      1. Q\u00ebndrojini larg alkoolit. <\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Shpesh, festat e organizuara n\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrje apo seminaret shoq\u00ebrohen me pije alkoolike dhe mund t\u00eb degjenerojn\u00eb shpejt. T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen, rrezikon t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh m\u00eb keq me dhimbje koke kur t\u00eb zgjohesh pran\u00eb X-it, djalit m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrjes!<\/p>\n

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        1. Mos u zhvishni krejt\u00ebsisht gjat\u00eb seksit.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb e nevojshme n\u00eb rastin kur ndonj\u00eb i paftuar mund t\u00eb vinte papritur n\u00eb vendin ku po b\u00ebni seks.<\/p>\n

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          1. Fikni dritat. <\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Jo sepse ju vjen turp, por p\u00ebr t\u2019u evituar fqinj\u00ebve nj\u00eb pamje tridimensionale t\u00eb anatomis\u00eb suaj.<\/p>\n

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            1. Mos lini asnj\u00eb gjurm\u00eb t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Merreni prezervativin dhe hidheni.<\/p>\n

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              1. Tregohuni e denj\u00eb.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Edhe sikur partneri juaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyes, apo budalla, nuk keni pse ua thoni k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. Kujtoni rregullin: Mos i b\u00ebj tjetrit at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk do q\u00eb t\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb ty!<\/p>\n

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                Disa shifra<\/strong><\/p>\n

                – Sipas nj\u00eb studimi britanik, t\u00eb publikuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb sit interneti, 61% e grave britanike mendonin se kolegu i tyre ishte seksi dhe kishin pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                – Ka nj\u00eb sit pornografik amerikan q\u00eb u \u00ebsht\u00eb dedikuar krejt\u00ebsisht videove t\u00eb nxehta ku ngjarjet zhvillohen n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs http:\/\/naughtyoffice.com<\/a><\/u>.<\/p>\n

                – Nj\u00eb sit australian tregon se nj\u00eb australian n\u00eb pes\u00eb ka pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                – Seksi n\u00eb zyr\u00eb z\u00eb vendin e dyt\u00eb nd\u00ebr fantazit\u00eb e preferuara t\u00eb francez\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

                – Sipas Loik Rosh, doktor n\u00eb psikologji dhe autor librash, duhen mesatarisht 4 muaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb partner seksual n\u00eb zyr\u00eb, kundrejt 6-12 muaj n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                Disa njer\u00ebz e respektojn\u00eb me fanatiz\u00ebm rregullin “Jo seks n\u00eb pun\u00eb”, por ka edhe nga ata q\u00eb preferojn\u00eb t’i b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb pikante or\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. N\u00ebse i p\u00ebrkisni grupit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, kemi ca k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr ju… Megjith\u00ebse nuk ka ligj q\u00eb e ndalon seksin n\u00eb zyr\u00eb, k\u00ebshillohet nj\u00eb minimum rezervimi, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9705\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}