{"id":9704,"date":"2015-06-19T16:00:58","date_gmt":"2015-06-19T14:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9704"},"modified":"2015-06-19T11:53:59","modified_gmt":"2015-06-19T09:53:59","slug":"4-arsye-per-te-ikur-me-vrap-nga-burri-donzhuan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/4-arsye-per-te-ikur-me-vrap-nga-burri-donzhuan\/","title":{"rendered":"4 arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb ikur me vrap nga burri donzhuan"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ata lloje burrash q\u00eb s\u2019e kan\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb, t\u00eb thon\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra, apo t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh te \u201cNjer\u00ebzit e humbur\u201d. P\u00ebr at\u00eb, t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jan\u00eb normale; anormale p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Por, \u00e7\u2019ndodh me grat\u00eb? Ato kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u2019i \u201cngjiten\u201d pas k\u00ebtij lloj burri n\u00eb jet\u00eb. At\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb serioz, romantik e monogam duan ta shohin vet\u00ebm n\u00ebp\u00ebr filmat q\u00eb transmetohen p\u00ebr Krishtlindje…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Sa gabim e ke? Para se t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjesh, na l\u00ebr ta themi ne: Shum\u00eb gabim! Mbase mendon se n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi (shum\u00eb n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi), ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shpirtmir\u00eb, se do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb p\u00ebr hatrin t\u00ebnd, do t\u00eb t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebr s\u00eb mbari. Jo. Le t\u00eb flasim sinqerisht: Ti, po sheh p\u00ebrralla me sy hapur. Do mall\u00ebngjim, pasion dhe intensitet, por, t\u00eb lutemi t\u00eb zbres\u00ebsh me k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh m\u00eb n\u00eb fund se ai:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Nuk do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Jeta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrrall\u00eb, as film, as komedi romantike. Ishe e je fatkeqe dhe ai nuk e \u00e7an kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, ose t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, jo aq sa duhet. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yt, mos mendo se nuk je e mir\u00eb. Ti, thjesht, nuk je prioriteti i tij. Duhet t\u00eb kuptosh se, n\u00eb komedin\u00eb romantike q\u00eb ke par\u00eb mbi 20 her\u00eb, fundi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lumtur, por \u00ebsht\u00eb larg nga realiteti!<\/p>\n

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    1. Kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ndjesh siguri n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      K\u00ebshtu, nuk do t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehesh e sigurt\u00eb, kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb jesh e qet\u00eb dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, nuk do t\u2019i z\u00ebsh kurr\u00eb bes\u00eb. Ai nuk e kupton, ose b\u00ebn sikur nuk e kupton nevoj\u00ebn t\u00ebnde p\u00ebr siguri dhe ngroht\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

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      1. Nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Sigurisht q\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb momente t\u00eb lumtura, por po t\u00eb mos ishin as ato, nuk do t\u00eb rrije me t\u00eb! Nj\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb vetme ai t\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi nj\u00eb mesazh p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb pyetur si e kalove dit\u00ebn, kurse nj\u00eb her\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi t\u00eb shkonit bashk\u00eb n\u00eb restorant. Por k\u00ebto jan\u00eb gj\u00ebra normale t\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhjeje, nuk duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqesh sepse e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb. Eja n\u00eb vete dhe mendo si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, ose m\u00eb mir\u00eb, si do t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroje ti q\u00eb t\u00eb ishte.<\/p>\n

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        1. Do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur nuk do t\u2019u flas\u00ebsh as shoqeve p\u00ebr lidhjen t\u00ebnde<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          T\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr lidhjen e tyre me shoqet; kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb natyrale. Por, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb qash gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn dhe do t\u00eb jesh e palumtur, mos ushqe shpresa se ato do t\u00eb duan ta takojn\u00eb dhe ta p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb. Mbase nuk do t\u00eb duan as ta takojn\u00eb… Pastaj, n\u00ebse vazhdon t\u00eb ankohesh vazhdimisht, edhe ato do t\u00eb lodhen nj\u00eb dit\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

          Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ata lloje burrash q\u00eb s\u2019e kan\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb, t\u00eb thon\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra, apo t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh te \u201cNjer\u00ebzit e humbur\u201d. P\u00ebr at\u00eb, t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jan\u00eb normale; anormale p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb… Por, \u00e7\u2019ndodh me grat\u00eb? Ato kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u2019i \u201cngjiten\u201d pas k\u00ebtij lloj burri n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9704\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}