{"id":9685,"date":"2015-06-18T15:30:16","date_gmt":"2015-06-18T13:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9685"},"modified":"2015-06-18T12:39:10","modified_gmt":"2015-06-18T10:39:10","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-73","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-73\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dele <\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur familja ime m\u00eb bleu dele dhe po lexoja n\u00eb let\u00ebr q\u00eb ishin 30 krer\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tjet\u00ebr pash\u00eb sikur v\u00ebllai solli n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb dele. Pastaj aty erdhi vet\u00eb nj\u00eb dash. K\u00ebt\u00eb delen ne e ther\u00ebm. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– S\u00eb pari, \u00e7do kafsh\u00eb q\u00eb shikoni n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb personalitetit tuaj. Ju jeni natyr\u00eb e brisht\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebsakrifikoheni p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, jeni e ndrojtur dhe shpesh, tip vetmitar. N\u00eb rastin konkret, \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes, t\u00eb mos b\u00ebni m\u00eb shum\u00eb se\u00e7 duhet p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, sepse n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ju do t\u00eb ndiheni e l\u00ebnduar. \u00cbndrra tregon nj\u00eb lloj sakrifice nga ana juaj.<\/p>\n

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Ika n\u00eb Itali<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur isha te toka e xhaxhait me babain dhe se\u00e7 po b\u00ebnim atje. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment, un\u00eb e d\u00ebgjova xhaxhain q\u00eb thoshte: \u201cAjo s\u2019do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb kurr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb se i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb un\u00eb magji\u201d. Un\u00eb debatova me t\u00eb dhe babai m\u00eb b\u00ebrtiti mua. Ika n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, mora rrobat dhe u largova nga sht\u00ebpia, duke p\u00ebrfunduar n\u00eb Itali, e martuar me nj\u00eb italian. Jetova e lumtur p\u00ebr 7 vjet dhe kisha dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Me familjen time nuk kisha asnj\u00eb lloj komunikimi. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb vendosa t\u00eb vija n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe kur erdha, nuk kisha guxim t\u00eb takoja prind\u00ebrit, por shkova te tezja, bisedova me t\u00eb dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cShko takoje\u201d. Shkuam t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bashk\u00eb dhe kur zbrit\u00ebm nga makina, djali im, q\u00eb ishte 5 vje\u00e7, vrapoi t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafonte babain dhe i th\u00ebrriti \u201cgjyshi\u201d, ku un\u00eb s\u2019i kisha folur kurr\u00eb shqip. Ju lutem, m\u00eb sqaroni, \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar zonj\u00eb, \u00ebndrra juaj ka lidhje edhe me disa biseda n\u00eb familje n\u00eb lidhje me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, me magjin\u00eb. Kujtoni me veten tuaj \u00e7far\u00eb keni biseduar k\u00ebto dit\u00eb me njer\u00ebzit tuaj, sepse shpesh \u00ebndrrat jan\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb e atyre \u00e7far\u00eb thuhen gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs apo mendohen n\u00eb n\u00ebnd\u00ebrgjegjen ton\u00eb. Debati juaj me babain, ka lidhje me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn ose me nj\u00eb hat\u00ebrmbetje tuaj\u00ebn. Ikja n\u00eb Itali, etj. ka lidhje me shmangien tuaj ndaj \u00e7do problemi. Nuk jeni tip q\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni, por largoheni dhe kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. \u00cbndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju del p\u00ebrpara, qoft\u00eb ky nj\u00eb debat, nj\u00eb situat\u00eb, nj\u00eb kritik\u00eb etj. Ikja nga problemet nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhje, n\u00eb rastin tuaj. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n

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U bashkuam p\u00ebrs\u00ebri<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur u ndava nga i dashuri me t\u00eb cilin jam e lidhur tani dhe babai im kishte marr\u00eb vesh gjith\u00e7ka. Ne, sikur shkuam t\u00eb flisnim me ish-t\u00eb dashurin, q\u00eb e kam dashur shum\u00eb, por familjet na kan\u00eb ndar\u00eb dhe sikur ne u bashkuam. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju her\u00eb pas here e mbani mendjen tek e kaluara juaj dhe kjo gj\u00eb ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb vuani, gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e shfaqni te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ama duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes, sepse mund t\u2019i bini n\u00eb sy t\u00eb dashurit dhe mund t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb diskutim jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Pra, kini kujdes, duhet t\u00eb dini t\u00eb ndani ca gj\u00ebra me veten tuaj; ose t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni me k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb keni, ose t\u00eb ktheheni pas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dele – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur familja ime m\u00eb bleu dele dhe po lexoja n\u00eb let\u00ebr q\u00eb ishin 30 krer\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tjet\u00ebr pash\u00eb sikur v\u00ebllai solli n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb dele. Pastaj aty erdhi vet\u00eb nj\u00eb dash. K\u00ebt\u00eb delen ne e ther\u00ebm. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? – S\u00eb pari, \u00e7do kafsh\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9685","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9685","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9685"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9685\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9685"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9685"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9685"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}