{"id":9639,"date":"2015-06-16T18:30:53","date_gmt":"2015-06-16T16:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9639"},"modified":"2015-06-16T12:33:30","modified_gmt":"2015-06-16T10:33:30","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-72","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-72\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Gjyshja q\u00eb nuk jeton<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur gjyshja ime q\u00eb ka 4 muaj q\u00eb ka vdekur m\u00eb vuri unaz\u00eb n\u00eb gisht. Edhe pse i kam dy unaza te gishti i martes\u00ebs, ajo m\u00eb tha: \u201cMbaje k\u00ebt\u00eb unaz\u00eb floriri dhe v\u00ebrja mamit kur t\u00eb vdes\u00eb\u201d. M\u00eb pas, m\u00eb tha: \u201cL\u00ebre fare, ma jep se ia jap vet\u00eb\u201d. M\u00eb ka frik\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. N\u00ebn\u00ebn e shoh gati \u00e7do 3 dit\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ngaq\u00eb e kam dashur shum\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ju shpreheni vet\u00eb se keni qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e lidhur me n\u00ebn\u00ebn; kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga arsyet pse e keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr dhe vazhdoni ta shikoni kaq shpesh. Humbja e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma e fresk\u00ebt p\u00ebr ju, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos folur pastaj p\u00ebr kujtimet q\u00eb keni me t\u00eb. E mendoni shum\u00eb, ndaj \u00ebndrrat me t\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme. Ajo s\u00eb cil\u00ebs duhet t\u2019i kushtoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje tani \u00ebsht\u00eb mami juaj. Ajo i vuan gj\u00ebrat brenda saj dhe ndoshta ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju tani m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, nj\u00eb lloj k\u00ebshille q\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ndoshta jo t\u00eb zakonshme jua jep n\u00ebna juaj, ndjest\u00eb past\u00eb, n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Linda djal\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur linda nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe isha shum\u00eb e g\u00ebzuar, por nuk e dija kush ishte babai i tij.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; <\/strong>Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb realizim i nj\u00eb d\u00ebshire, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb profesionale, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn private ose kudo tjet\u00ebr, por \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pozitive.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u2019u thye unaza e fejes\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb t\u00eb frikshme para dy net\u00ebsh dhe jam b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb merak. Po kthehesha p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi dhe i rash\u00eb rrug\u00ebs gabim. Kisha dy mund\u00ebsi; ose t\u00eb kthehesha mbrapa ose t\u2019i bija shkurt. Un\u00eb i rash\u00eb shkurt dhe papritur, rash\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. Akoma pa r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb, unaza e fejes\u00ebs m\u2019u k\u00ebput n\u00eb dy vende, por nuk e humba, e futa n\u00eb xhep q\u00eb ta rregulloja. Kur rash\u00eb posht\u00eb, isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb rrethuar me nj\u00eb mur gjigand dhe nuk kaloja dot. Aty brenda ishte nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, q\u00eb kishte hapur nj\u00eb vrim\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe premtoi se do t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte, por kur u b\u00ebra gati t\u00eb kaloja, m\u00eb ngeli koka dhe nuk kalova dot. Atij djalit nuk ia pash\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; E dashur lexuese, uroj ta keni kaluar k\u00ebt\u00eb siklet, sepse \u00ebndrra tregon se do t\u00eb kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb ka lidhje me jet\u00ebn tuaj private, me partnerin tuaj ose nj\u00eb t\u00eb tret\u00eb, por m\u00eb shum\u00eb ka lidhje me jet\u00ebn tuaj private. Thyerja e unaz\u00ebs, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj zhg\u00ebnjimi q\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebsoni n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien q\u00eb keni, por ju do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni ta rregulloni k\u00ebt\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. R\u00ebnia posht\u00eb, tregon r\u00ebnien tuaj psikologjike shpirt\u00ebrore dhe shqet\u00ebsimet q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni brenda vetes. Edhe muri paraqet penges\u00ebn tuaj. Dikush do t\u2019ju gjendet pran\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do ta keni paksa t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. \u00cbndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u2019i b\u00ebni paraprit\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00ebje, t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e personave m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt ose nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb, apo thjesht fare, t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb diplomate n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj, t\u00eb mos nxitoheni n\u00eb asgj\u00eb. Ju uroj fat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gjyshja q\u00eb nuk jeton &#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur gjyshja ime q\u00eb ka 4 muaj q\u00eb ka vdekur m\u00eb vuri unaz\u00eb n\u00eb gisht. Edhe pse i kam dy unaza te gishti i martes\u00ebs, ajo m\u00eb tha: \u201cMbaje k\u00ebt\u00eb unaz\u00eb floriri dhe v\u00ebrja mamit kur t\u00eb vdes\u00eb\u201d. M\u00eb pas, m\u00eb tha: \u201cL\u00ebre fare, ma jep [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9639","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9639","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9639"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9639\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9639"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9639"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9639"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}