{"id":9621,"date":"2015-06-15T13:00:35","date_gmt":"2015-06-15T11:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9621"},"modified":"2015-06-15T12:03:51","modified_gmt":"2015-06-15T10:03:51","slug":"burrat-e-grate-kane-ndryshuar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/burrat-e-grate-kane-ndryshuar\/","title":{"rendered":"Burrat e grat\u00eb kan\u00eb ndryshuar!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Harroji klishet\u00eb e vjetra: \u201cShpirti binjak\u201d, \u201cgjysma jote\u201d, \u201cburrat tradhtojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se grat\u00eb\u201d e t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto. Shifrat e reja tregojn\u00eb ndryshimet q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e martes\u00ebs, \u00e7iftit, dashuris\u00eb apo seksit. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Me ndihm\u00ebn e disa sociolog\u00ebve dhe nj\u00eb siti interneti, shkrimtarja Krisiana Northrap b\u00ebri nj\u00eb sondazh me m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 80 mij\u00eb njer\u00ebz nga e gjith\u00eb bota, duke i ftuar ata t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjeshin pyetjeve n\u00eb lidhje me martes\u00ebn, dashurin\u00eb, seksin dhe besimin. Ja, cilat kan\u00eb qen\u00eb rezultatet e k\u00ebtij sondazhi:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Burrat bien n\u00eb dashuri m\u00eb shpejt se grat\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    48% e burrave dhe 28% e grave binin n\u00eb dashuri me shikim t\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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    1. Burrat, ndryshe nga \u00e7\u2019mendojn\u00eb grat\u00eb, k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb romantizmin. 33% e burrave n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn, sipas sondazhit, m\u00ebrziten kur partnerja e tyre nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb romantike.<\/li>\n
    2. Mund t\u00eb mendoni se parat\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, por njer\u00ebzit e pasur q\u00eb u mor\u00ebn n\u00eb pyetje, mendonin t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn. Sipas t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave statistikore, ata q\u00eb e kan\u00eb jet\u00ebn \u201ct\u00eb siguruar ekonomikisht\u201d jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb lumtur se ata q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb shum\u00eb para. N\u00eb realitet, \u00e7iftet me t\u00eb ardhura afro 20 mij\u00eb euro n\u00eb vit, ose m\u00eb pak, nuk grinden aq shpesh sa ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb 250 mij\u00eb-500 mij\u00eb t\u00eb ardhura n\u00eb vit. E pabesueshme, por k\u00ebshtu thon\u00eb shifrat.<\/li>\n
    3. Nj\u00eb \u00e7ift mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb i lumtur, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb automatikisht se pasioni mes tyre ka marr\u00eb fund. 57% e \u00e7ifteve t\u00eb palumtur vazhdojn\u00eb ta konsiderojn\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht josh\u00ebs\/e partnerin\/en e tyre.<\/li>\n
    4. Komedit\u00eb romantike nxisin ndarjen. Mbi 33% e burrave dhe grave t\u00eb marr\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje than\u00eb se, n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, kan\u00eb ndjekur ndonj\u00eb serial apo film q\u00eb i ka prekur aq shum\u00eb, sa t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb bile edhe ndarjen me partnerin\/en e tyre.<\/li>\n
    5. Fakti q\u00eb shkoni mir\u00eb me at\u00eb q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai\/ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe partner i\/e mir\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, ata\/o q\u00eb e kan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb partnerin\/en n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kategori, e p\u00ebrshkruan lidhjen e tyre si \u201cleht\u00ebsisht t\u00eb palumtur\u201d.<\/li>\n
    6. N\u00eb fund, vlen ajo shprehja \u201cderisa vdekja t\u00eb na ndaj\u00eb\u201d. G\u00ebzohuni pra ju romantik\u00ebt e pandreqsh\u00ebm sepse, afro 60% e burrave dhe grave q\u00eb nuk ishin edhe aq t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb lidhjen e tyre, prap\u00ebseprap\u00eb mbrojt\u00ebn teorin\u00eb se, edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte, do t\u00eb rrinin gjithmon\u00eb me partnerin\/en e tyre.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      8 m\u00ebsime q\u00eb t\u00eb gjeni dashurin\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

      N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin studim, \u00e7iftet e lumtur kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla:<\/p>\n

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      1. Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb ndani gjith\u00e7ka me tjetrin!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Afro \u00e7ereku i \u00e7ifteve t\u00eb lumtur than\u00eb se mbajn\u00eb sekrete nga partner\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n

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        1. Z\u00ebnkat, shpesh, jan\u00eb t\u00eb dobishme n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          78% e \u00e7ifteve q\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u patur zili, p\u00ebrmend\u00ebn se grinden, bile mjaft shpesh. P\u00ebrfundimi: \u00c7iftet q\u00eb nuk grinden kurr\u00eb, e b\u00ebjn\u00eb mbase me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb evitojn\u00eb disa diskutime, t\u00eb cilat, n\u00eb fakt, duhen b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb forcuar lidhjen.<\/p>\n

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          1. 45% e \u00e7ifteve propozojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni aktivitete t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta me partnerin\/en tuaj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            95% e k\u00ebtyre, e p\u00ebrshkruajn\u00eb lidhjen e tyre si jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb lumtur.<\/p>\n

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            1. Respektoni krevatin bashk\u00ebshortor.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Vet\u00ebm 1% e \u00e7ifteve t\u00eb lumtur thon\u00eb se kan\u00eb fjetur n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb rast n\u00eb divan.<\/p>\n

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              1. Komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb baza e nj\u00eb lidhjeje harmonioze.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                40% e t\u00eb anketuarve t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb \u00e7ift kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se kjo gj\u00eb, shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se miq\u00ebsia, af\u00ebrsia, bile edhe seksi, \u00ebsht\u00eb pjesa m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb plot\u00ebson lidhjen e tyre.<\/p>\n

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                1. \u00c7el\u00ebsi i lumturis\u00eb, fshihet te prekja.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  74% e atyre q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb lidhje, i kushtojn\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi prekjes.<\/p>\n

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                  1. Joshja \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    Vet\u00ebm 20% e atyre \u00e7ifteve q\u00eb kan\u00eb gjetur lumturin\u00eb thon\u00eb se nuk ndihen m\u00eb t\u00eb joshur nga partneri\/ja i\/e tyre. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulin se, megjith\u00ebse koha kalon, tjetri duhet t\u2019ju duket ende josh\u00ebs\/e.<\/p>\n

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                    1. B\u00ebni seks<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      60% e \u00e7ifteve t\u00eb lumtur e konsiderojn\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm intimitetin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre. Edhe ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb bashk\u00eb q\u00eb prej m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy dhjet\u00ebvje\u00e7ar\u00ebsh, deklarojn\u00eb se b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks tre ose kat\u00ebr her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                      Harroji klishet\u00eb e vjetra: \u201cShpirti binjak\u201d, \u201cgjysma jote\u201d, \u201cburrat tradhtojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se grat\u00eb\u201d e t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto. Shifrat e reja tregojn\u00eb ndryshimet q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e martes\u00ebs, \u00e7iftit, dashuris\u00eb apo seksit. Me ndihm\u00ebn e disa sociolog\u00ebve dhe nj\u00eb siti interneti, shkrimtarja Krisiana Northrap b\u00ebri nj\u00eb sondazh me m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 80 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9621","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9621","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9621"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9621\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9621"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9621"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9621"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}