{"id":9529,"date":"2015-06-04T15:30:31","date_gmt":"2015-06-04T13:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9529"},"modified":"2015-06-04T13:16:16","modified_gmt":"2015-06-04T11:16:16","slug":"kujdes-nga-djali-i-mamase","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/kujdes-nga-djali-i-mamase\/","title":{"rendered":"Kujdes, nga djali… i mamas\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kur dashuria e nj\u00eb burri p\u00ebr maman\u00eb e tij i kalon kufijt\u00eb e normalitetit, n\u00ebp\u00ebr cilat stade kalon dhe deri ku mund t\u00eb arrij\u00eb? S\u00eb pari, duam t\u00eb themi se dashuria q\u00eb ka \u00e7do burr\u00eb p\u00ebr maman\u00eb e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ogur i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr lidhjen me nj\u00eb grua, sepse tregon pjekuri dhe nj\u00eb nivel t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb ekuilibrit emocional. Kur lidhja \u00ebsht\u00eb e ngroht\u00eb, por e ekuilibruar, kjo tregon se ajo ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr rritjen e t\u00eb birit dhe i ka ngulitur t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin respekt p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsueset e seksit t\u00eb saj. N\u00eb vazhdim, ju mund t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb lidhje po aq t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe pa probleme, e cila i ka t\u00eb gjitha shanset t\u00eb zhvillohet dhe t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb lidhje afatgjat\u00eb. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Megjithat\u00eb, ka disa shenja q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se dashuria e nj\u00eb burri p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn i kalon kufijt\u00eb dhe z\u00eb gjith\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij, aq sa nuk l\u00eb m\u00eb vend p\u00ebr grua tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. At\u00ebher\u00eb, mund t\u00eb themi me plot goj\u00ebn q\u00eb ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb mamaje, nj\u00eb lloj \u201cs\u00ebmundjeje\u201d q\u00eb e kan\u00eb shum\u00eb burra sot dhe q\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb prish\u00eb lidhjet e tij, por edhe ta \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7mendin\u00eb, ose n\u00eb burg, n\u00eb rastet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda. Por, para se t\u00eb arrihet deri k\u00ebtu, ka disa shenja t\u00eb qarta q\u00eb t\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb se ky person vuan nga kjo \u201cs\u00ebmundje\u201d dhe n\u00eb cilin stad ndodhet n\u00eb \u00e7do rast. Je gati t\u2019i njoh\u00ebsh? <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Djal\u00eb mamaje stadi 1<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Nuk ka baba. <\/strong>N\u00ebse partneri yt ka kaluar nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb dhe adoleshenc\u00ebs vet\u00ebm m\u00eb maman\u00eb, pa pranin\u00eb e p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb ndonj\u00eb prototipi mashkullor rreth e rrotull, ka gjasa t\u00eb ket\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb fort\u00eb me maman\u00eb e vet dhe ajo luan (e do t\u00eb luaj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb) nj\u00eb rol qendror n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij.<\/li>\n
  2. E sheh si per\u00ebndi. <\/strong>Kur ai flet p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn, t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mendosh se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkryer dhe \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb vjen prej saj \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrtej kritikave dhe polemikave.<\/li>\n
  3. Sillet ndaj saj si t\u00eb ishte per\u00ebndesh\u00eb. <\/strong>Djali i mamas\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb medoemos partner i keq. P\u00ebrkundrazi, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb leht\u00ebsisht i ngjitur pas s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, ai do t\u00eb sillet edhe ndaj teje me respekt, edhe kur t\u00eb grindeni. Ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i sjellsh\u00ebm dhe i but\u00eb me ty… bile edhe n\u00eb shtrat.<\/li>\n
  4. Krahason gatimet e tua me t\u00eb sajat. <\/strong>Mbase ti mendon se p\u00ebrgatit biskotat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe miqt\u00eb tuaj ju lavd\u00ebrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, por aft\u00ebsia jote n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb nuk i arrin as gjer te ky\u00e7i i k\u00ebmb\u00ebs, asaj t\u00eb mamas\u00eb… Le t\u00eb mos flasim pastaj p\u00ebr musakat\u00eb, byreqet, etj.<\/li>\n
  5. Ajo ia b\u00ebn t\u00eb gjitha pun\u00ebt. <\/strong>Kur u njoh\u00ebt n\u00eb fillim, ti u entuziazmove kur vure sa t\u00eb rregullt e kishte sht\u00ebpin\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, shum\u00eb shpejt zbulove sekretin e tij: Mamaja e tij kujdeset p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka, larje, hekurosje, shpluhurosje, fshirje, deri te gjell\u00ebt e ngrohta; t\u00eb gjitha kalojn\u00eb nga dora e saj. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7udi pra q\u00eb ai nuk di t\u00eb ziej\u00eb as edhe nj\u00eb kok\u00ebrr vez\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  6. Shfaqet papritur para jush<\/strong>… sikur t\u00eb kishte mbir\u00eb nga dheu! Trokitja e der\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb e tep\u00ebrt mes atyre t\u00eb dyve, ashtu si edhe nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb, para se t\u00eb vij\u00eb. Bile, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, zor t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur nevoj\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb…<\/li>\n
  7. Jetojn\u00eb bashk\u00eb<\/strong>. Mbase ai i ka kaluar me koh\u00eb t\u00eb 30-tat, por vazhdon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit. Ku tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb sht\u00ebpi falas, ushqim dhe sh\u00ebrbim dhome, pa l\u00ebvizur as qerpikun p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb? Nuk ke arsye t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh veten pse heziton kaq shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetoj\u00eb me ty…<\/li>\n
  8. Flasin shpesh me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin<\/strong>… dhe jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb telefon. Komunikimi mes tyre nuk njeh kufij, as orar. Kuptohet q\u00eb jan\u00eb miq n\u00eb Facebook, ndjekin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00eb Tvviter dhe Instagram, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb shk\u00ebmbejn\u00eb edhe sms. Nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb mos ia ngrej\u00eb telefonin, edhe sikur t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaluar mesnata. N\u00ebse n\u00eb fillim mendoje se kishte tjet\u00ebr, tani e more vesh t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e hidhur: Tjetra \u00ebsht\u00eb Mamaja!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    \u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

    Si t\u00eb veprosh dhe \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh prej tij<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

    Mund t\u00eb kalosh nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur me k\u00ebt\u00eb burr\u00eb, vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb kusht: T\u00eb duash maman\u00eb e tij! N\u00ebse nuk mund ta duash sa e do ai, duhet t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn ta simpatizosh spontanisht, ta respektosh n\u00eb maksimum dhe t\u00eb mos e shoh\u00ebsh si armike. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, p\u00ebrderisa ju t\u00eb dy jeni \u00e7ift, mund t\u00eb shpresosh t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitosh edhe ti nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb q\u00eb ajo ia dhuron kujtdo q\u00eb ia b\u00ebn djalin t\u00eb lumtur.<\/p>\n

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    Djali i mamas\u00eb, stadi 2<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    1. Mamaja e tij i fut hund\u00ebt kudo. <\/strong>Ajo e di para teje se ku dhe me k\u00eb do t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, do t\u00eb dij\u00eb n\u00ebse e \u00e7far\u00eb ke gatuar p\u00ebr drek\u00eb dhe nuk ngurron t\u00eb t\u00eb pyes\u00eb n\u00ebse je sh\u00ebruar nga myku… Asgj\u00eb nuk mbetet e fsheht\u00eb p\u00ebr maman\u00eb e tij! Edhe sikur ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb betuar se do ta mbaj\u00eb di\u00e7ka sekret, ajo do ta gjej\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019i marr\u00eb vesh t\u00eb gjitha.<\/li>\n
    2. Ai i blen edhe asaj. <\/strong>Edhe n\u00ebse keni dal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb p\u00ebr dit\u00eblindjen t\u00ebnde, ai do t\u00eb blej\u00eb edhe di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u201cq\u00eb t\u00eb mos mendoj\u00eb se e kemi harruar, t\u00eb shkret\u00ebn\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb justifikimi i tij. \u00c7far\u00eb mendon ti, \u00ebsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pun\u00eb…<\/li>\n
    3. Ankohet vazhdimisht. <\/strong>M\u00ebson t\u00eb gjitha problemet q\u00eb ajo ka… vazhdimisht… \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Fatkeq\u00ebsia e k\u00ebsaj gruaje \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakrahasueshme dhe nga kush do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ngush\u00ebllim, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se nga kanakari i saj?<\/li>\n
    4. T\u00eb fut xixat. <\/strong>K\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb ose fshehurazi. Asgj\u00eb te ti nuk e k\u00ebnaq, bile duket se gjith\u00e7ka e nervozon, duke filluar nga pesha jote, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e duhura (je shum\u00eb e dob\u00ebt apo shum\u00eb e sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb), prejardhja jote (e thjesht\u00eb apo jo) q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e papranueshme, shkolla q\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithashtu, puna q\u00eb b\u00ebn. Mos e merr personalisht sepse…<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      5 …mamaja ka mendimin e vet. <\/strong>Fraza \u201ce di mami\u201d, ose \u201cmami thot\u00eb q\u00eb\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e bised\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb partnerit t\u00ebnd… Mund t\u00eb flisni vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por mamaja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e pranishme dhe sigurisht q\u00eb ka mendimin e vet p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat nuk ka d\u00ebgjuar kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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      1. Ajo ka gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. <\/strong>N\u00ebse ndodh t\u00eb mosp\u00ebrputhesh n\u00eb mendim me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn, nuk ekziston as nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi n\u00eb nj\u00eb milion q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ty, sado fakte t\u00eb p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh. Nd\u00ebrmjet nesh, m\u00eb leht\u00eb mund t\u00eb fitosh nj\u00eb lloto…<\/li>\n
      2. Je e detyruar t\u2019ia b\u00ebsh qejfin. <\/strong>P\u00ebrndryshe ai do t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet shum\u00eb. Mamaja \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb njeriu m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb, as ai nuk ka si t\u00eb jet\u00eb mir\u00eb…<\/li>\n
      3. P\u00ebrndryshe do t\u00eb ndjehet n\u00eb faj. <\/strong>M\u00ebma e tij ka aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb zgjoj\u00eb tek ai sindrom\u00ebn e t\u00eb ndjerit n\u00eb faj. Ajo q\u00eb u mundua me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra p\u00ebr ta lindur… E kuptove? Kuptova, thuaj!<\/li>\n
      4. Ai do q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb ndjehet krenare p\u00ebr t\u00eb birin. <\/strong>I dashuri yt do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb realitet \u00ebndrrat dhe d\u00ebshirat e s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, edhe sikur t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mohoj\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e tij. P\u00ebrpjekja e tij p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar favoret e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eblloj, n\u00eb mos m\u00eb e madhe se p\u00ebrpjekja q\u00eb b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb edhe me ty. Vet\u00ebm se mamaja e tij nuk impresionohet aq leht\u00eb sa ti.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        \u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

        Si t\u00eb veprosh dhe \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh prej tij<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

        N\u00ebse nuk e ke kuptuar ende, jeta me djalin e mamas\u00eb t\u00eb stadit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e leht\u00eb. N\u00ebse p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb \u00e7mendur vazhdon ta durosh, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jesh e p\u00ebrgatitur t\u00eb jesh transparente dhe t\u00eb tkurr\u00ebsh respektin dhe dinjitetin t\u00ebnd, derisa t\u00eb mund t\u00eb krahasohesh me qilimin q\u00eb keni para port\u00ebs. Vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb mund pranosh pa b\u00ebr\u00eb z\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb shkelin me k\u00ebmb\u00eb, mamaja dhe i biri i saj.<\/p>\n

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        Djal\u00eb mamaje stadi 3 (i mbaruar) <\/strong><\/p>\n

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        1. Nxiton t\u00eb t\u00eb njoh\u00eb me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn. <\/strong>N\u00ebse u g\u00ebzove n\u00eb fillim se donte t\u00eb t\u00eb prezantonte me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb takimin e tret\u00eb, do t\u00eb t\u00eb mbetet g\u00ebzimi n\u00eb fyt. Ai, thjesht, nuk mund t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet me dik\u00eb pa marr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb mendimin e mamas\u00eb.<\/li>\n
        2. Mamaja e tij entuziazmohet menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas teje. <\/strong>N\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe, kuptohet. N\u00ebse fillon t\u00eb t\u00eb quaj\u00eb \u201cvajza ime\u201d dhe t\u00eb dhuron unaz\u00ebn e fejes\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, fillo t\u00eb largohesh nga dera, dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb dhe pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re. Sigurisht, k\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebn n\u00eb sy t\u00eb t\u00eb birit, sepse do t\u2019i hedh\u00eb atij hi syve, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb pastaj t\u00eb t\u00eb \u201chaj\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb\u201d me qet\u00ebsin\u00eb e vet…<\/li>\n
        3. B\u00ebn konkurrenc\u00eb me ty. <\/strong>Kur jeni bashk\u00eb, ajo nuk rri pa e p\u00ebrqafuar dhe puthur n\u00eb \u00e7do rast q\u00eb i jepet, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ti nuk kap as edhe nj\u00eb shikim t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar prej tij. P\u00ebrkundrazi, duket sikur atij i p\u00eblqen.<\/li>\n
        4. Para saj, ai b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri f\u00ebmij\u00eb. <\/strong>N\u00eb kuptimin e keq t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs. Ai burri dinamik, i vendosur dhe i dashuruar, zhduket menj\u00ebher\u00eb dhe vendin e tij e z\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 5-vje\u00e7ar i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur, q\u00eb ka teka n\u00eb t\u00eb ushqyer dhe q\u00eb mban inat p\u00ebr hi\u00e7gj\u00eb.<\/li>\n
        5. Mamaja i ka t\u00eb gjitha n\u00ebn kontroll. <\/strong>Ajo i mban korrespondenc\u00ebn, u p\u00ebrgjigjet telefonatave t\u00eb bezdishme dhe rregullon takime me doktor\u00ebt. K\u00ebshtu, sigurohet se djali i saj nuk do ta marr\u00eb kurr\u00eb nism\u00ebn vet\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb rritet kurr\u00eb n\u00eb realitet.<\/li>\n
        6. \u00cbsht\u00eb gati t\u00eb grindet p\u00ebr t\u00eb<\/strong>. Nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr maman\u00eb mund ta xhindos\u00eb. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se kush e ka fajin, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u00eb hidhet n\u00eb zjarr p\u00ebr ta mbrojtur. Mamaja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb dhe askush nuk mund ta l\u00ebndoj\u00eb. As ti, kuptohet.<\/li>\n
        7. T\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u2019i p\u00ebrshtatesh asaj<\/strong>. Mund ta magjeps\u00ebsh me pamjen t\u00ebnde n\u00eb fillim, por n\u00ebse di\u00e7ka jotja nuk i p\u00eblqen mamas\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ta ndryshosh… menj\u00ebher\u00eb! Duke filluar q\u00eb nga flok\u00ebt, grimi, divani i ri q\u00eb blet\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00ebdolloj gj\u00ebje q\u00eb nuk i p\u00eblqen mamas\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb ndryshohet pa shum\u00eb diskutime.<\/li>\n
        8. Ti m\u00ebson prej saj se \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen atij<\/strong>. Mendon se t\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb vesh\u00ebt? Sigurisht q\u00eb jo. Mamaja e tij do t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha sekretet q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb djalin e saj t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje dhe seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e lidhjes, apo jo? Sigurisht, ajo do t\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr seksin (n\u00ebse je futur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje psikopat\u00ebsh).<\/li>\n
        9. Shkojn\u00eb bashk\u00eb me pushime<\/strong>. Pa baban\u00eb… dhe pa ty (kuptohet). E tepruar? Ka edhe raste t\u00eb tilla!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          Si t\u00eb veprosh dhe \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh prej tij<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

          N\u00eb fillim, ia vlen t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb pyetjen se si partneri yt ka mundur t\u2019ia hedh\u00eb syt\u00eb nj\u00eb gruaje tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 mamas\u00eb dhe si arrite t\u00eb z\u00ebsh nj\u00ebfar\u00eb vendi n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij? Por, pasi t\u00eb kesh r\u00ebn\u00eb nga reja roz\u00eb ku t\u00eb kishte v\u00ebn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh veten nga r\u00ebnia, do ta kuptosh se nuk ka vend p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e nj\u00eb djali mamaje t\u00eb mbaruar dhe nuk ke mund\u00ebsi tjet\u00ebr zgjidhjeje p\u00ebrve\u00e7se ta l\u00ebsh. Vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebtij grupi t\u00eb \u00e7mendurish, ose n\u00ebse je e d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar. Megjithat\u00eb, m\u00eb mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019ia mbath\u00ebsh me t\u00eb katra dhe t\u2019i l\u00ebsh vet\u00ebm t\u00eb dy p\u00ebllumbat.<\/p>\n

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          E gjen veten n\u00eb ndonj\u00ebrin nga k\u00ebta tre raste? At\u00ebher\u00eb, cili \u00ebsht\u00eb mendimi yt?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

          Kur dashuria e nj\u00eb burri p\u00ebr maman\u00eb e tij i kalon kufijt\u00eb e normalitetit, n\u00ebp\u00ebr cilat stade kalon dhe deri ku mund t\u00eb arrij\u00eb? S\u00eb pari, duam t\u00eb themi se dashuria q\u00eb ka \u00e7do burr\u00eb p\u00ebr maman\u00eb e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ogur i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr lidhjen me nj\u00eb grua, sepse tregon pjekuri dhe nj\u00eb nivel […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9529","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9529"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9529\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}