{"id":9503,"date":"2015-06-03T12:09:01","date_gmt":"2015-06-03T10:09:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9503"},"modified":"2015-06-03T12:09:01","modified_gmt":"2015-06-03T10:09:01","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-70","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/06\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-70\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Xhaxhai po jepte shpirt<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr xhaxhain tim q\u00eb po jepte shpirt. Ishte nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb e trishtueshme, saq\u00eb nga tmerri q\u00eb provoja, nuk qaja dot, edhe pse doja t\u00eb nxirrja z\u00ebrin. Jam shum\u00eb e lidhur pas xhaxhait, se babain nuk e kam. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– S\u00eb pari, \u00ebndrra tregon lidhjen tuaj t\u00eb fort\u00eb me xhaxhain dhe frik\u00ebn se mos e humbisni. Nuk keni pse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni sepse ai vet\u00eb ka jet\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. N\u00ebse keni frik\u00eb se e humbisni nga ana shpirt\u00ebrore, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb situate apo veprimi q\u00eb mund t\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb, at\u00eb situat\u00eb mund ta rregulloni vet\u00ebm ju. \u00cbndrra tregon se ju po fshihni di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju ka ndodhur ose q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb. Duke patur frik\u00eb se mos e marrin vesh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, po p\u00ebrpiqeni me shpirt q\u00eb ta mbani p\u00ebr vete. Sidomos nga xhaxhai ruheni shum\u00eb, ama kjo gj\u00eb duket sikur po ju l\u00ebndon juve m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ndoshta duhet ta bisedoni me dik\u00eb, jo me xhaxhain, por me nje shoqe apo shok tek i cili keni besim. \u00c7far\u00ebdo t\u00eb jet\u00eb, keni nevoj\u00eb ta ndani me dik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me \u00e7do lloj gjykimi. M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7liroheni nj\u00eb her\u00eb e mir\u00eb sesa t\u00eb ndjeni sikur po mbyteni.<\/p>\n

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Mora dy plumba<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb park dhe nj\u00eb shoku im m\u00eb tha: \u201cPse nuk shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb gjueti?\u201d. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ishim duke folur, un\u00eb sikur mora dy plumba, nj\u00eb n\u00eb kraharor dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, pas shpine. M\u00eb d\u00ebrguan n\u00eb spital, ku m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb operacion dhe un\u00eb e shikoja gjith\u00e7ka me vet\u00ebdije. U thoja doktorave: \u201cJu lutem, mos i tregoni familjes sime sepse do t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen shum\u00eb\u201d. Ashtu, u zgjova. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Plumbat tregojn\u00eb se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me nj\u00eb situat\u00eb ose nj\u00eb person. Ndiheni pak t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzuar ose t\u00eb viktimizuar nga situata ose personi q\u00eb keni m\u00eb af\u00ebr apo me t\u00eb cilin keni debatuar koh\u00ebt e fundit. Plumbat jan\u00eb durimi q\u00eb keni ju ndaj \u00e7do gj\u00ebje. Keni marr\u00eb plag\u00eb, l\u00ebndoheni dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri duroni. Spitali tregon q\u00eb ka ardhur koha t\u00eb sh\u00ebroni plag\u00ebt tuaja dhe ta ndani \u00e7do shqet\u00ebsim me familjen. Nuk keni pse t\u00eb fshiheni dhe ta mbani \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr veten tuaj, ndryshe do t\u00eb l\u00ebndoheni akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb vetmuar. Do ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonit mb\u00ebshtetjen e familjes ose t\u00eb ndonj\u00eb personi q\u00eb e konsideroni shum\u00eb familjar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Ju uroj sh\u00ebndet!<\/p>\n

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Merimang\u00eb e madhe<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nj\u00eb nat\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb merimang\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn time. Doja ta mbysja, por m\u00eb vinte shum\u00eb keq sepse ajo l\u00ebvizte, por nuk m\u00eb b\u00ebnte gj\u00eb. Thjesht\u00eb e kisha shum\u00eb bezdi dhe thoja me vete: \u201cKjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sht\u00ebpia ime, nuk duhet t\u00eb jem k\u00ebtu\u201d. Jam n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb nj\u00eb shpjegimi. Bona. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Merimangat p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb intrigat, ngat\u00ebrres\u00ebn, kontrollin, por edhe krijimtarin\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. N\u00eb rastin tuaj, \u00ebndrra tregon se si ndiheni ju n\u00eb vendin ku jetoni. Ju duket vend me intriga dhe me shum\u00eb ngat\u00ebrresa. Edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb sht\u00ebpia juaj, nuk e ndjeni t\u00eb till\u00eb. Fakti q\u00eb nuk e vrisni merimang\u00ebn n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon se pavar\u00ebsisht d\u00ebshir\u00ebs q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga ai ambient, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk e gjeni forc\u00ebn brenda vetes q\u00eb t\u00eb dilni. Gjith\u00eb ankthi juaj do t\u00eb marr\u00eb fund kur t\u00eb b\u00ebheni m\u00eb e guximshme. Ju uroj guxim!<\/p>\n

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I dashuri dhe zjarri<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova t\u00eb merrja motr\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet shum\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt dhe u kthyem m\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr. M\u00eb pas, vajt\u00ebm t\u00eb flinim te sht\u00ebpia e t\u00eb dashurit tim. Kur u zgjova n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, sikur isha me shokun e ngusht\u00eb. Aty ishin shum\u00eb burra e nj\u00ebri prej tyre, donte t\u00eb m\u00eb vriste. Ai m\u00eb plagosi me thik\u00eb, por nd\u00ebrhyri i dashuri im dhe un\u00eb shp\u00ebtova. M\u00eb pas ra zjarr. Ne u p\u00ebrpoq\u00ebm t\u00eb largoheshim drejt sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tij dhe i shp\u00ebtuam zjarrit. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbndrra juaj tregon se keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb rigjeneroheni plot\u00ebsisht si person, sepse ndiheni pak t\u00eb ngarkuar psikologjikisht. Motra jeni po ju, n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme. Sht\u00ebpia e t\u00eb dashurit tregon nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje dhe ngroht\u00ebsi. Shoku i ngusht\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nj\u00eb aspekt tuajin n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Plagosja \u00ebsht\u00eb rigjenerimi juaj, q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt. Edhe mbrojtja e t\u00eb dashurit \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia e tij ndaj jush t\u00eb cil\u00ebn, n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, ia impononi ju m\u00eb shum\u00eb, por gjithsesi, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb pozitiv ndaj jush.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Xhaxhai po jepte shpirt – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr xhaxhain tim q\u00eb po jepte shpirt. Ishte nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb e trishtueshme, saq\u00eb nga tmerri q\u00eb provoja, nuk qaja dot, edhe pse doja t\u00eb nxirrja z\u00ebrin. Jam shum\u00eb e lidhur pas xhaxhait, se babain nuk e kam. – S\u00eb pari, \u00ebndrra tregon lidhjen tuaj t\u00eb fort\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9503"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9503\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}