{"id":9438,"date":"2015-05-28T14:30:13","date_gmt":"2015-05-28T12:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9438"},"modified":"2015-05-28T11:28:52","modified_gmt":"2015-05-28T09:28:52","slug":"8-shenja-qe-tregojne-se-nuk-jeni-me-nje-cift","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/05\/8-shenja-qe-tregojne-se-nuk-jeni-me-nje-cift\/","title":{"rendered":"8 shenja q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se nuk jeni m\u00eb nj\u00eb… \u00e7ift!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Di\u00e7ka ka ndryshuar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj dhe nuk jeni m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb. A ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb situata t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet apo lidhjes i ka ardhur fundi dhe nuk ka m\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb jetoni n\u00ebn nj\u00eb \u00e7ati? N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kjo e fundit, ja cilat jan\u00eb shenjat:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Flini ve\u00e7mas gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Sigurisht, nuk themi k\u00ebtu thjesht q\u00eb flini n\u00eb krevate t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, por q\u00eb keni orare gjumi t\u00eb ndryshme. Nj\u00ebrin e merr gjumi n\u00eb divan, tjetri fle n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, nj\u00ebri k\u00ebtej, tjetri andej \u00e7do nat\u00eb. Dhe, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht fakti se flini ve\u00e7 e ve\u00e7. Juve ju mungon p\u00ebrqafimi dhe bisedat q\u00eb i afrojn\u00eb dy njer\u00ebz n\u00eb shtrat para se t\u00eb flen\u00eb. Kjo tregon ftohjen mes jush.<\/p>\n

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    1. B\u00ebni rrall\u00eb seks <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm se nuk b\u00ebni seks, por as q\u00eb e mendoni, as e vini n\u00eb program, ose n\u00eb plan, as bisedoni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, bile-bile as nuk ju mungon…<\/p>\n

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      1. Kaloni mjaft koh\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb brenda s\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs sht\u00ebpi<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk p\u00ebrputhen programet tuaja, ose nuk gjendeni shpesh bashk\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por edhe kur jeni bashk\u00eb, secili b\u00ebn pun\u00ebt e veta dhe nuk kaloni koh\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Nj\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb ulur para kompjuterit, tjetri para televizorit, nj\u00ebri n\u00eb sallon, tjetri n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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        1. Nuk keni qejf as t\u00eb grindeni!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Kur vjen ai stadi q\u00eb t\u00eb mos keni asnj\u00eb interes p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb sa t\u00eb mos ju nervozoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb q\u00eb ai\/ajo b\u00ebn, aq sa t\u00eb mos keni m\u00eb nerva as t\u00eb ziheni, jo thjesht keni humbur pasionin p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por ndodheni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb keqe.<\/p>\n

          N\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, z\u00ebnkat mbajn\u00eb gjall\u00eb flak\u00ebn, duke n\u00ebnkuptuar se “m\u00eb nervozon, por vazhdoj t\u00eb t\u00eb dua”.<\/p>\n

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          1. Mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni gj\u00ebra joromantike pa teklif para nj\u00ebri-tjetrit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Edhe kur ndjeheni rehat me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb nj\u00eb vij\u00eb e kuqe, q\u00eb nuk duhet kap\u00ebrcyer. T\u00eb b\u00ebsh p… para tjetrit pa teklif, t\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00eb me qimet e b\u00ebra litar, t\u00eb urinoj\u00eb para teje ose t\u00eb kruash hund\u00ebn para tij\/saj, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb shenja t\u00eb qarta se e keni kap\u00ebrcyer kufirin e dashuris\u00eb dhe jeni thjesht dy njer\u00ebz (t\u00eb shpifur) q\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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            1. Bisedat q\u00eb b\u00ebni, nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Ke koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e pyet si ia kaloi n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb pyet n\u00ebse je mir\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebson ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb. Bisedat tuaja t\u00eb zakonshme kufizohen te fakti n\u00ebse keni ushqim p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr dhe se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb hani.<\/p>\n

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              1. Nuk komunikoni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                N\u00eb lidhjet e mira, \u00e7iftet flasin gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs dhe pyesin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin si jan\u00eb e \u00e7far\u00eb u ndodh. Nuk themi t\u00eb flisni nj\u00ebqind her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, si at\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb lidhjes, por n\u00ebse e kaloni gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn pa komunikuar me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, at\u00ebher\u00eb gj\u00ebrat jan\u00eb serioze.<\/p>\n

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                1. Nuk jeni m\u00eb prioriteti i nj\u00ebri-tjetrit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  N\u00ebse lidhja mes jush vjen gjithmon\u00eb pas f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, pun\u00ebs, sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, pasioneve e prind\u00ebrve, mbase lidhja nuk ekziston m\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                  Di\u00e7ka ka ndryshuar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj dhe nuk jeni m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb. A ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb situata t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet apo lidhjes i ka ardhur fundi dhe nuk ka m\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb jetoni n\u00ebn nj\u00eb \u00e7ati? N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kjo e fundit, ja cilat jan\u00eb shenjat:   Flini ve\u00e7mas gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn Sigurisht, nuk themi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9438","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9438","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9438"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9438\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9438"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9438"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9438"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}