{"id":9377,"date":"2015-05-25T11:19:54","date_gmt":"2015-05-25T09:19:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9377"},"modified":"2015-05-25T11:19:54","modified_gmt":"2015-05-25T09:19:54","slug":"maria-motoja-ime-pushtet-dhe-para","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/05\/maria-motoja-ime-pushtet-dhe-para\/","title":{"rendered":"Maria: Motoja ime: pushtet dhe para…"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Maria, m\u00eb the se askush atje brenda nuk t\u00eb ka njohur. Tani, un\u00eb kam ardhur t\u00eb t\u00eb njoh…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E di \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb kujtove, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb, \u201cNj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri kund\u00ebr 12 personave\u201d. Un\u00eb dua t\u00eb m\u00eb njoh\u00eb nj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe jo 12 persona. Mendoj se ata q\u00eb donin t\u00eb m\u00eb njihnin, m\u00eb kan\u00eb njohur, gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr publikun flas, jo p\u00ebr banor\u00ebt!<\/p>\n

– Pse, banor\u00ebt jo? Ti, kur ishe brenda, kishe q\u00ebllim t\u00eb t\u00eb njihnin apo mos t\u00eb t\u00eb njihnin?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– T\u00eb m\u00eb njihnin.<\/p>\n

– Dhe pse nuk ua dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Sepse njer\u00ebzit duan gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera… Banor\u00ebt nuk mund t\u00eb m\u00eb njohin jo mua, por as veten e tyre sepse merrem me gj\u00ebra shum\u00eb t\u00eb vogla, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb filetoja e pul\u00ebs, ose kosi, veza e t\u00ebrsh\u00ebra p\u00ebr Fabianin… Q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb njihnin, ata duhet t\u00eb merreshin me karakteret tona. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb njoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb njeri, hyn n\u00eb thelb, nuk q\u00ebndron n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe…<\/p>\n

– Mos ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo nj\u00eb taktik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i dh\u00ebn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi personit q\u00eb ke p\u00ebrball\u00eb, i cili n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, \u00ebsht\u00eb rivali yt?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ti jeton me ata persona, nuk mund t\u00eb mos u jap\u00ebsh r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Zgjedh m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si do ta marr\u00ebsh at\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, ta shoh\u00ebsh, ta analizosh. Un\u00eb u p\u00ebrpoqa t\u00eb njihja karakteret e tyre n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn time, t\u00eb heshtur, duke i d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb thonin ato budallall\u00ebqe q\u00eb thon\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Dhe, si t\u00eb del bilanci? Mendon se i ke njohur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, po, k\u00ebt\u00eb, si i thon\u00eb asaj fjal\u00ebs s\u00eb urt\u00eb, nuk e luan as topi i allamanit! (Buz\u00ebqesh) Ata kan\u00eb frik\u00eb nga vetja e tyre, tentojn\u00eb, por n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar. Duan t\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb famsh\u00ebm jo me intelektin e tyre, por duke marr\u00eb parat\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se p\u00ebr ato lek kan\u00eb shkuar, por mund t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb edhe ata jasht\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqen.<\/p>\n

– Ti, \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre zgjodhe?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– I analizoja… para se t\u00eb futesha, mendoja se do t\u00eb gjeja disa njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt do t\u00eb komunikoja gjat\u00eb, do t\u00eb krijonim debate t\u00eb bukura. Kur hyra brenda, pash\u00eb disa njer\u00ebz q\u00eb qanin p\u00ebr cigare, kush t\u00eb vishej m\u00eb bukur dhe t\u00eb gjuante, kush t\u00eb merrte m\u00eb shum\u00eb fileto dhe t\u2019i hante. Mua m\u00eb ka ardhur keq q\u00eb jam gjendur n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi aq luksoze, n\u00eb ato kushte aq t\u00eb mira q\u00eb nuk t\u2019i ofron kollaj njeri sot dhe t\u00eb kesh p\u00ebrball\u00eb 13 vet\u00eb q\u00eb hahen p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb cilat t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt vuajn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i ken\u00eb. Ti lufton p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ta japin, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jasht\u00eb ka edhe nga ata f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb flen\u00eb pa buk\u00eb…<\/p>\n

– Ti u fute pas t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Nuk i kishe par\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara ata, q\u00eb t\u00eb kishe krijuar nj\u00eb ide se \u00e7far\u00eb apo kush t\u00eb priste aty brenda?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, i kisha par\u00eb nj\u00eb jav\u00eb, q\u00eb ishte java m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pasi kishin ikur dy vet\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb debat dhe thash\u00eb \u201cok, k\u00ebta kan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb mend\u201d, mir\u00ebpo un\u00eb i q\u00ebndroj besnike th\u00ebnies q\u00eb njeriu lind, nuk b\u00ebhet. Mundohet t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoj\u00eb difektet te vetja, kur i pranon, por ata njer\u00ebz nuk i kan\u00eb pranuar difektet e tyre.<\/p>\n

– Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur e kuptove se nuk do t\u00eb shkoje dot deri te \u00e7mimi i madh?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– At\u00eb nat\u00eb para se t\u00eb dilja e kam ndjer\u00eb se di\u00e7ka nuk po shkonte mir\u00eb. Doja t\u00eb dilte Zaida dhe doli, por prap\u00eb di\u00e7ka ndjeva… Gjith\u00eb java kishte qen\u00eb e imja dhe kush donte, do t\u00eb kishte marr\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga Maria, por ndoshta donin gj\u00ebra m\u00eb ekstreme…<\/p>\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb p\u00ebr shembull? \u00c7far\u00eb mendon se mund t\u00eb t\u00eb kishte mbajtur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ndoshta po t\u00eb kisha gatuar lakuriq, do t\u00eb isha akoma atje, por un\u00eb s\u2019e b\u00ebj dot k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Pastaj, nuk eci dot me taka dhe, lakuriq pa taka, nuk shkon… (Qesh) P\u00ebrtej shakas\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit besoj se e kan\u00eb marr\u00eb mesazhin tim, ndon\u00ebse do t\u00eb kisha dashur t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja edhe k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, sepse loja ime tani kishte filluar.<\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019kuptim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Marian nuk e kishin par\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb vet\u00ebm kund\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, gj\u00eb q\u00eb u pa jav\u00ebn e fundit. T\u00eb diel\u00ebn, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kisha q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, nuk do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb Maria e qeta, si\u00e7 e kishin par\u00eb banor\u00ebt. M\u00eb kishin dh\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb argumente gjat\u00eb jav\u00ebs, p\u00ebr ta ndryshuar loj\u00ebn time dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb merrnin at\u00eb q\u00eb meritonin.<\/p>\n

– Ti, ke treguar nj\u00eb durim t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm. A mendon se duhet t\u00eb kishe b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka ndryshe?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Durimin un\u00eb e kam p\u00ebr vete, jo p\u00ebr publikun! Durova aty brenda sepse k\u00ebshtu jam edhe jasht\u00eb, e kam m\u00eb t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb pun\u00eb vet\u00eb, sesa t\u00eb diskutoj gjys\u00ebm ore p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb imazh i bukur t\u00eb b\u00ebrtas\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n

– Maria, ti ke jetuar p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb Greqi dhe ke nj\u00eb vit e gjys\u00ebm q\u00eb jeton n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. M\u00eb thuaj, si e mendon, a jan\u00eb ata banor\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb shqiptare?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebr mendimin tim, po.<\/p>\n

– E till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb e ndar\u00eb… nuk mund t\u00eb thuash 100 p\u00ebr qind. Nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje jan\u00eb k\u00ebshtu… si femrat q\u00eb duan makinat e bukura t\u00eb shtrenjta, apo \u00e7unat q\u00eb thon\u00eb \u201cun\u00eb jam m\u00eb i miri, m\u00eb i forti, un\u00eb i kam t\u00eb gjitha\u201d… si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb Tea nj\u00eb goc\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb di t\u00eb luaj\u00eb me \u00e7unat, ashtu si\u00e7 isha un\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha ato personalitete q\u00eb jan\u00eb atje brenda, jan\u00eb edhe jasht\u00eb, por m\u00ebnyra se si promovohen \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e gabuar. \u201cBig Brother\u201d t\u00eb jep nj\u00eb der\u00eb dhe ti e lustron vet\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb brenda. Duhet t\u00eb jesh ti q\u00eb do ta b\u00ebsh at\u00eb t\u00eb bukur. Jam shum\u00eb dakord me moton: \u201cpushtet dhe para\u201d; disa njer\u00ebz t\u00eb vrasin p\u00ebr k\u00ebto t\u00eb dyja, por ti e ke n\u00eb dor\u00eb vet\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e vetes t\u00ebnde. Edhe fjal\u00ebn e keqe kur e thua, mund ta thuash pak m\u00eb bukur, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ting\u00eblloj\u00eb keq jasht\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Si \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta jote tani?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Si\u00e7 ishte edhe m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, madje akoma m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua, pasi do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrngulem n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, ku do t\u00eb hap atelien\u00eb time. Lufta do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe. Vazhdoj pun\u00ebn me Debtors, nj\u00eb grup artistik me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt punoj prej koh\u00ebsh. Ata nuk jan\u00eb profesionist\u00eb, jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga 17-22 vje\u00e7. I quaj f\u00ebmij\u00eb se mua m\u00eb th\u00ebrrasin \u201cnona\u201d. Ata nuk ma kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb fjal\u00ebn dy asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. Do t\u00eb b\u00ebj gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ta vazhdoj pun\u00ebn me ta, me koreografi, aktrim, sfilata… Ua b\u00ebj vet\u00eb veshjet, muzik\u00ebn e zgjedh un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb. Debtors dhe Tailor made, firma ime e veshjeve, nuk kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb vdekur kurr\u00eb…<\/p>\n

– Q\u00ebllimi q\u00eb u fute n\u00eb \u201cBig Brother\u201d, ishte edhe ky, q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebheshe e njohur dhe t\u00eb kishe sukses n\u00eb pun\u00ebn t\u00ebnde?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Q\u00ebllimi ishte t\u00eb futesha q\u00eb t\u00eb merrja lek\u00ebt (buz\u00ebqesh), t\u00eb blija nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr nip\u00ebrit e mi dhe pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr do ta investoja te biznesi im.<\/p>\n

– Nd\u00ebrsa po flisnim, jasht\u00eb k\u00ebsaj interviste, m\u00eb the: \u201ckam dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur\u201d. Duket sikur flet p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tu dhe jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb motr\u00ebs…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Sepse un\u00eb ata i ndjej si f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. Kam qen\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me ta q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb ardhur n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe i kam par\u00eb t\u00eb rriteshin dit\u00eb p\u00ebr dit\u00eb, p\u00ebr shtat\u00eb vjet tashm\u00eb. Edhe forca q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb ata t\u00eb dy ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e madhe. Fal\u00eb tyre harroja gjith\u00e7ka, edhe s\u00ebmundjen, spitalin…<\/p>\n

– Aleksi tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shtat\u00eb vje\u00e7, kurse Joana, kat\u00ebr e gjys\u00ebm…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, dhe kur i takova, Joana m\u00eb tha: \u201cMore shum\u00eb lek ti? Jo? S\u2019ka gj\u00eb se do t\u2019i marrim lek\u00ebt p\u00ebrjashta ne…\u201d<\/p>\n

– Ke th\u00ebn\u00eb se eksperienca q\u00eb ke kaluar, t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb njeri m\u00eb pozitiv… N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019kuptim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Dikur isha njeri hipokrit. Jam fem\u00ebr dhe e pranoj q\u00eb femrat jan\u00eb shum\u00eb hipokrite. Gjith\u00e7ka e b\u00ebja n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore, mundohesha t\u00eb isha p\u00ebrher\u00eb e para, duke shkelur apo duke mos i\u00a0 p\u00ebrfillur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, gj\u00eb q\u00eb i b\u00ebnte t\u00eb ndjeheshin keq. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto q\u00eb kam kaluar, m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb shikoja pak edhe veten time tek ata njer\u00ebz. Kam qen\u00eb dikur si k\u00ebta banor\u00eb, por k\u00ebta kat\u00ebr vjet q\u00eb nga burgu, nga s\u00ebmundja ime, derisa arrita t\u00eb ngrihesha n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb, kan\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb sk\u00ebterr\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe, pash\u00eb te vetja ime q\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrballosh njer\u00ebzit me hipokrizi. Aty lindi Maria…<\/p>\n

– Sa keq t\u00eb erdhi q\u00eb nuk e fitove \u00e7mimin?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Shum\u00eb keq, sepse p\u00ebr at\u00eb u futa. Besoj se m\u00eb duhen aq sa u duhen edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve ato para, por njer\u00ebzit duan di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb Maria.<\/p>\n

– Ke ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u th\u00ebn\u00eb atyre?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, n\u00ebse duan ta mbrojn\u00eb di\u00e7ka me fanatiz\u00ebm, duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb fort\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Banor\u00ebt <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

– A ka aty ndonj\u00eb person me t\u00eb cilin mendon se ia vlen ta ruash shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb jasht\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Fisniku! Ne u fut\u00ebm \u00e7ift dhe kuptoheshim me sy. Fisniku \u00ebsht\u00eb gjysma tjet\u00ebr e Maries dhe m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq q\u00eb nuk jam brenda k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb lider… Fisniku \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Vler\u00ebsoj gjithashtu edhe Eleonor\u00ebn dhe Diedonin.<\/p>\n

– Po me Marsuel\u00ebn, \u00e7far\u00eb ke ti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Asgj\u00eb s\u2019kam un\u00eb me Marsel\u00ebn, por nuk mund t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e vuajtur, e st\u00ebrvuajtur me shtat\u00ebqind halle, e cila b\u00ebrtet p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur me Diedonin! Marsuela \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kukull q\u00eb nuk ka buton \u201con\u201d, \u201coff\u201d, ka vet\u00ebm bateri… del n\u00eb diell e karikohet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. (Qesh)<\/p>\n

– Mendon se jan\u00eb reale \u00e7iftet brenda?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Dashurin\u00eb, nuk e programon me nj\u00eb jav\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb reality shovv. Jasht\u00eb ata do t\u00eb jen\u00eb s\u00ebrish vet\u00ebm, bile un\u00eb mendoj se edhe tani, ata puthen e ven\u00eb lahen pastaj… (Qesh)<\/p>\n

– M\u00eb acarues?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Fabiani dhe Veseli.<\/p>\n

– M\u00eb dembeli?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– T\u00eb gjith\u00eb dembel\u00eb jan\u00eb, vet\u00ebm b\u00ebjn\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb duken se jan\u00eb para kamerave.<\/p>\n

– Vet\u00ebm pamje dhe jo brendi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Xhensila.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Maria, m\u00eb the se askush atje brenda nuk t\u00eb ka njohur. Tani, un\u00eb kam ardhur t\u00eb t\u00eb njoh… – E di \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb kujtove, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb, \u201cNj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri kund\u00ebr 12 personave\u201d. Un\u00eb dua t\u00eb m\u00eb njoh\u00eb nj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe jo 12 persona. Mendoj se ata q\u00eb donin t\u00eb m\u00eb njihnin, m\u00eb kan\u00eb njohur, gjithmon\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spektakel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9377"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9377\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}