{"id":9329,"date":"2015-05-20T15:00:36","date_gmt":"2015-05-20T13:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9329"},"modified":"2015-05-20T11:21:45","modified_gmt":"2015-05-20T09:21:45","slug":"e-tradhtova-burrin-pasi-ika-ne-amerike","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/05\/e-tradhtova-burrin-pasi-ika-ne-amerike\/","title":{"rendered":"E tradhtova burrin pasi ika n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>E nderuar redaksi e gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! S\u00eb pari, dua t\u2019ju uroj suksese e pun\u00eb t\u00eb mbar\u00eb n\u00eb misionin tuaj fisnik. E lexoj me kureshtje t\u00eb gjith\u00ebn gazet\u00ebn dhe vazhdimisht, m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje rr\u00ebfimet e shum\u00eb personave si puna ime, q\u00eb duan t\u00eb ndajn\u00eb breng\u00ebn e tyre me shpres\u00eb se mos leht\u00ebsohemi.<\/p>\n<p>Jam pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb e kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7e dhe jetoj n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb. Sigurisht, kam lindur dhe jam rritur n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, n\u00eb qytetin e Lezh\u00ebs. Ne ishim gjasht\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb familjen ton\u00eb. Jam rritur e lumtur pavar\u00ebsisht v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive t\u00eb shumta ekonomike si dhe problemeve q\u00eb kishte familja jon\u00eb me biografin\u00eb. Neve na ka rritur gjyshja. Ajo na ka mbajtur, na ka p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb e marr\u00eb nga shkolla t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve me radh\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa prind\u00ebrit e mi punonin p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar jetes\u00ebn. Gjyshja nuk kishte pension, sepse nuk kishte punuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, por ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb plak\u00eb trupvog\u00ebl p\u00ebr nga natyra dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrrusur e b\u00ebr\u00eb dysh nga hallet e jo nga mosha. Gjyshes nj\u00eb djal\u00eb ia pushkatuan komunist\u00ebt, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb bashk\u00eb me gjyshin u arratis dhe nuk arrit\u00ebn asnj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb kontaktojn\u00eb me familjen p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb izolimit. E vetmja pjes\u00eb e familjes q\u00eb kishte krijuar vet\u00eb ishte ajo e babait tim.<\/p>\n<p>Babai im nuk mbaj mend t\u2019i kthej\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb fjal\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb kishte p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por edhe sepse ishte mir\u00ebfilli sojnike si\u00e7 themi ne dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb soj e tregonte n\u00eb gjith\u00eb mir\u00ebrritjen ton\u00eb. Mamaja ime ka qen\u00eb grua shum\u00eb e paqt\u00eb, shum\u00eb e drejt\u00eb, por shum\u00eb e urt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, ka vuajtur me ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Babai ishte natyr\u00eb e rrept\u00eb dhe jo vet\u00ebm kaq, por edhe problemet e vazhdueshme p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb biografis\u00eb e b\u00ebnin q\u00eb t\u00eb ishte gjithmon\u00eb i m\u00ebrzitur. Gjyshja, duke qen\u00eb se e kishte rritur djalin vet\u00ebm, ishte p\u00ebrplasur n\u00ebp\u00ebr kampe p\u00ebrqendrimi dhe ishte transformuar si burr\u00eb. E vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebnte t\u00eb qeshte apo ta donte jet\u00ebn, kemi qen\u00eb ne, nip\u00ebrit e mbesat. E thoshte vazhdimisht se \u201ck\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb m\u00eb mbajn\u00eb gjall\u00eb\u201d. Mamaja ime, p\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb ajo na donte neve aq shum\u00eb, kurr\u00eb nuk ka shk\u00ebmbyer fjal\u00eb me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Edhe ne, ashtu u rrit\u00ebm, me nj\u00ebqind halle. Nga natyra ishim t\u00eb but\u00eb si mamaja jon\u00eb, por v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs na b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ktheheshim edhe ne dy vajzat n\u00eb burrnesha e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit t\u00eb b\u00ebnin si t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha m\u00eb e madhja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Shkoll\u00ebn e mesme e mbarova shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm, por as q\u00eb mendohej t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja t\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr burs\u00eb p\u00ebr universitet. Edhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, po t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pat\u00ebm t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin fat, vet\u00ebm arsimin e mes\u00ebm. Un\u00eb sapo mbarova shkoll\u00ebn e mesme, desha t\u00eb filloja pun\u00eb, por komshija q\u00eb kishim n\u00eb pallat, m\u00eb prezantoi me kush\u00ebririn e saj q\u00eb banonte n\u00eb La\u00e7. Edhe ai kishte probleme me biografin\u00eb, por m\u00eb pak se ne. K\u00ebshtu, u fejova. Titi ishte simpatik dhe i dashur. U martova dhe m\u2019u duk sikur m\u2019u hap\u00ebn syt\u00eb pas martese. Kishim sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe un\u00eb fillova pun\u00eb n\u00eb uzin\u00ebn e La\u00e7it, ku punonte edhe burri. Shkonim e vinim me turne bashk\u00eb e ishim t\u00eb lumtur. Zoti na g\u00ebzoi me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe pata fatin q\u00eb t\u00eb ma rriste vjehrra e t\u00eb mos e \u00e7oja n\u00eb \u00e7erdhe apo n\u00eb kopshte. Pas kat\u00ebr vitesh t\u00eb tjera, linda vajz\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb, por k\u00ebt\u00eb radh\u00eb, vjehrra ime jo thjesht nuk e mbajti, por edhe m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; T\u00eb ishte djal\u00eb, do ta mbaja me qejf, po ti vet\u00ebm vajza di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00e7oje n\u00eb \u00e7erdhe si gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>M\u2019u duk sikur m\u00eb rrahu dhe nuk ishte vet\u00ebm fjala e vjehrr\u00ebs, por ajo do t\u00eb pasohej edhe me fjal\u00ebt e problemet q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb hapte burri im. Pa mbaruar akoma lejen e lindjes, mora vesh se ai m\u00eb tradhtonte me nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb ne e kishim kolege n\u00eb pun\u00eb. E mora vesh se i gjeta n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Ai nuk e priste q\u00eb do t\u00eb kthehesha nga Lezha dhe e kishte marr\u00eb dashnoren e tij n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb u ktheva se vajza e dyt\u00eb m\u2019u s\u00ebmur te prind\u00ebrit e mi e un\u00eb, duke ditur problemet q\u00eb m\u00eb kishin filluar me burrin tim, pata frik\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja m\u00eb gjat\u00eb. Por, \u00e7\u2019mund t\u00eb b\u00ebja? T\u00eb ndahesha, nuk e p\u00ebrballoja dot jet\u00ebn e vetme. Pastaj, do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrgojonin aq shum\u00eb, si e bija e armikut t\u00eb popullit dhe babait tim do t\u2019i sillja edhe t\u00eb tjera probleme. K\u00ebshtu, vendosa t\u00eb duroja. Prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi u tregova sepse nuk dija me k\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb flisja. V\u00ebllai im i dyt\u00eb, kur e mori vesh, erdhi n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe gati u rrah me burrin tim p\u00ebr tradhtin\u00eb e tij, por kjo doli n\u00eb d\u00ebmin tim. Sapo burri u sigurua q\u00eb v\u00ebllai im iku, m\u2019u sul mua dhe m\u00eb rrahu n\u00eb sy t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe, sikur t\u00eb isha nj\u00eb cop\u00eb druri. Meqen\u00ebse isha me raportin e lindjes, munda t\u00eb rrija e mbyllur derisa m\u2019u sh\u00ebruan t\u00eb nxirat nga e rrahura. Vajzat po rriteshin dhe ai vazhdoi t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin avaz, sa me nj\u00eb grua me tjetr\u00ebn. Mua m\u00eb kishte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi sa p\u00ebr ta lar\u00eb e pastruar, shkurt, si sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtore. K\u00ebshtu vazhdova dhe p\u00ebr disa vite, q\u00eb mua m\u00eb jan\u00eb dukur shekuj, derisa ndryshoi sistemi.<\/p>\n<p>Sapo ndryshoi sistemi, vendosa t\u00eb b\u00ebja nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe fillova fakultetin me korrespondenc\u00eb. Burri im tallej gjithmon\u00eb me mua, por s\u2019m\u00eb b\u00ebnte asgj\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje p\u00ebr \u00e7ka i p\u00ebrket atij dhe familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb tij. Nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb vazhdova shkoll\u00ebn, uzina e La\u00e7it pothuajse u mbyll dhe ai mbeti pa pun\u00eb. Un\u00eb, meqen\u00ebse mbarova dy vite shkoll\u00eb, fillova pun\u00eb si m\u00ebsuese n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb fillore n\u00eb af\u00ebrsi t\u00eb La\u00e7it. Tashm\u00eb, gj\u00ebrat ishin kthyer n\u00eb krahun tim, por un\u00eb i kisha ngjar\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs sime; nuk mund t\u00eb sillesha n\u00eb t\u00eb n\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb me t\u00eb. Vendos\u00ebm t\u00eb provonim t\u00eb kishim dhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tret\u00eb se mos do kishim shans t\u00eb lindnim djal\u00eb dhe me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb Zoti e d\u00ebgjoi lutjen time. Pasi linda djalin, kisha mbaruar shkoll\u00ebn dhe fillova pun\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb, por rroga p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe dy t\u00eb rritur, ishte shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl. M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, burri im e mblodhi mendjen q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb punonte e jo t\u00eb num\u00ebronte fustanet e grave t\u00eb qytetit. Babai im kishte nj\u00eb mik n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb q\u00eb na ndihmoi dhe k\u00ebtu, jeta ime m\u00eb n\u00eb fund mori kthes\u00ebn p\u00ebrfundimtare. Titi filloi pun\u00eb shofer n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambasad\u00eb n\u00eb Europ\u00eb dhe pasi punoi atje p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vit, arriti t\u00eb na merrte edhe neve me vete. Por \u201clufta\u201d e \u201997-t\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri b\u00ebri q\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoheshin ambasador\u00ebt dhe sigurisht, edhe shoferi ikte bashk\u00eb m\u00eb ambasadorin.<\/p>\n<p>Ne n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri nuk donim t\u00eb ktheheshim, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ishin p\u00ebrshtatur shum\u00eb shpejt me gjuh\u00ebn dhe vendin, por nuk kishim asnj\u00eb shans t\u00eb q\u00ebndronim. At\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e fundit n\u00eb ambasad\u00eb, ambasadori na ndihmoi t\u00eb iknim p\u00ebr Amerik\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb par\u00ebt, u nis\u00ebm un\u00eb, me vajz\u00ebn e madhe dhe me djalin. Kaluam p\u00ebr mrekulli pa probleme dhe atje shkuam te nj\u00eb shok i v\u00ebllait, q\u00eb na premtoi t\u00eb na ndihmonte. Pas nja dhjet\u00eb dit\u00ebsh, erdhi dhe burri im, me vajz\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Fillimi n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb kalvar i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb vuajtjesh, por me gjith\u00eb kusht\u00ebzimin se ishim pa dokumente, burri im nuk e kishte me qejf pun\u00ebn dhe gjendjen ekonomike e kishim keq. Megjithat\u00eb, un\u00eb prap\u00eb isha m\u00eb mir\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb isha n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p>Vajzat filluan t\u00eb ambientoheshin me shkoll\u00ebn. Gjasht\u00eb muajt e par\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Vajzat filluan t\u00eb ambientoheshin me shkoll\u00ebn. Gjasht\u00eb muajt e par\u00eb i lija f\u00ebmij\u00ebt gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn para televizorit q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsonin t\u00eb flisnin. Burri im flinte gjum\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb punoja n\u00eb tre sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb ndryshme si pastruese.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb tria sht\u00ebpit\u00eb ku punoja ishin af\u00ebr nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb zonjat e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmuan q\u00eb t\u00eb gjeja edhe pun\u00eb t\u00eb tjera. Nd\u00ebrmjet pun\u00ebve q\u00eb m\u00eb gjet\u00ebn, ishte edhe pastrimi i nj\u00eb klinike dentare. Dentisti ishte i divorcuar dhe jetonte i vet\u00ebm. Ai m\u00eb tha se kishte nevoj\u00eb t\u2019i pastroja edhe sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe un\u00eb, sigurisht, kisha nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00eb. Punova p\u00ebr rreth nj\u00eb vit n\u00eb pes\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e n\u00eb klinik\u00eb dhe realisht, lodhesha, por isha e lir\u00eb. Jav\u00ebt e para kur pastroja sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e dentistit ai punonte, por m\u00eb pas filloi t\u00eb rrinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Kjo nuk ndodhte shpesh, por kur ai q\u00ebndronte, kisha nj\u00eb lloj frike, dyshimi. \u201cMos i ka humbur gj\u00eb dhe dyshon tek un\u00eb?\u201d, mendoja. Edhe kjo m\u00eb duhej, t\u00eb m\u00eb iknin dy pun\u00eb dhe t\u00eb merrte fjala dhen\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kisha marr\u00eb asgj\u00eb. Mes gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre dyshimeve e frik\u00ebrave t\u00eb mia, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur po pastroja klinik\u00ebn, ai m\u00eb erdhi pas e m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; E dashur, mos ki frik\u00eb nga un\u00eb. Nuk kam asgj\u00eb me pun\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Thjesht, ti m\u00eb dukesh fem\u00ebr interesante, edhe pse je emigrante dhe punon si pastruese.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fillim u stepa e u t\u00ebrhoqa, por nuk pata koh\u00eb t\u00eb reagoja m\u00eb shum\u00eb sepse ai u largua. Dit\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, kur m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb pastroja sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, ai po m\u00eb priste n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Prita q\u00eb ta pi kafen e m\u00ebngjesit me ty. T\u00eb thash\u00eb, m\u00eb dukesh fem\u00ebr interesante dhe dua thjesht t\u00eb flas me ty. Kafet po i b\u00ebj un\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ai b\u00ebri kafet e filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb pyeste p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn time. I tregova p\u00ebr \u00e7ka m\u00eb pyeste e n\u00eb fund, ai m\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheli dor\u00ebn, tha \u201cmirupafshim\u201d e iku. K\u00ebshtu, filluam t\u00eb flisnim m\u00eb shum\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin si n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ashtu edhe n\u00eb klinik\u00eb. Kur i kisha treguar p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn time, nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, i tregova q\u00eb e kisha mbaruar shkoll\u00ebn shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; At\u00ebher\u00eb, pse nuk vazhdon nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dy vje\u00e7are k\u00ebtu dhe m\u00eb ndihmon mua n\u00eb laborator? Do t\u00eb jet\u00eb pun\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e paguar p\u00ebr ty.<\/p>\n<p>Qesha me t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr \u00e7ka m\u00eb tha dhe i thash\u00eb q\u00eb shkolla nuk ishte p\u00ebr mua tani q\u00eb isha dyzet e pes\u00eb vje\u00e7e. Pas dy dit\u00ebsh, m\u2019u desh t\u2019i merrja leje sepse djali im kishte dal\u00eb i pari n\u00eb nj\u00eb olimpiad\u00eb matematike q\u00eb ishte zhvilluar n\u00eb qytet dhe duhej t\u00eb isha edhe un\u00eb n\u00eb ceremonin\u00eb e shp\u00ebrndarjes s\u00eb \u00e7mimeve. Dentisti ma dha gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn pushim kur e mori vesh p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb duhej leja.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; E kam p\u00ebr nder t\u00eb kem n\u00eb pun\u00eb maman\u00eb e nj\u00eb djali kaq t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer dhe, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, tani t\u00eb jap urdh\u00ebr q\u00eb edhe ti t\u00eb vazhdosh at\u00eb kursin p\u00ebr laborante.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe k\u00ebshtu, un\u00eb fillova t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja d\u00ebftesat e shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe dhash\u00eb provime pas provimesh derisa u regjistrova. Sigurisht, t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto i b\u00ebra me ndihm\u00ebn e dentistit. Pak nga pak, rash\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me t\u00eb. Edhe ai k\u00ebt\u00eb priste. Kisha dyshuar q\u00eb ai donte vet\u00ebm t\u00eb m\u00eb fuste n\u00eb shtrat e pastaj t\u00eb m\u00eb hidhte n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, por jo. Ishte ai personi q\u00eb m\u00eb nxiti t\u00eb vazhdoja shkoll\u00ebn edhe n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb, edhe pse n\u00eb mosh\u00eb goxha t\u00eb madhe dhe me nj\u00eb pun\u00eb vet\u00ebmohuese, sepse m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ushqeja edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe, burri im jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk punonte, por filloi t\u00eb bridhte pas fustaneve edhe n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo lloj sjelljeje m\u00eb shtyu akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit tim. Gjith\u00e7ka filloi aq natyrsh\u00ebm mes nesh sepse ne kishim koh\u00eb q\u00eb flisnim si shok\u00eb, por natyra ime e sinqert\u00eb dhe nuk mund t\u00eb duronte q\u00eb t\u00eb isha edhe e martuar, edhe me t\u00eb dashur tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb pun\u00eb, ndaj vendosa t\u2019ua thoja f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe burrit tim. Kur u thash\u00eb, vajzat e miratuan menj\u00ebher\u00eb sepse po rriteshin me mentalitet tjet\u00ebr dhe e kishin par\u00eb q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jon\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qar\u00eb hallin. Pastaj, fakti q\u00eb burri im nuk punonte fare, ua kishte nxir\u00eb jet\u00ebn edhe atyre. E k\u00ebshtu, mes histerizmave t\u00eb burrit tim, un\u00eb i k\u00ebrkova t\u00eb ndaheshim, por p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje dokumentesh, nuk kishim si t\u00eb ndaheshim ligj\u00ebrisht. At\u00ebher\u00eb zgjidhja ishte vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb jetonim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb ndryshme. T\u00eb tre f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ndenj\u00ebn me mua. Un\u00eb fillova t\u00eb dilja lirsh\u00ebm me t\u00eb dashurin tim t\u00eb ri dhe ai vinte shpesh n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Edhe un\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb t\u00eb tij\u00ebn, jo m\u00eb si pastruese, por si shoqja e krahut. M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, mor\u00ebm edhe dokumentet dhe filluam procedurat e divorcit me burrin. M\u00eb dukej sikur \u00e7do gj\u00eb po zvarritej, sepse realisht, nuk e duroja dot m\u00eb. M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, jam divorcuar prej tij dhe jam martuar me nj\u00eb amerikan. Kam martuar dhe t\u00eb dyja vajzat e jam b\u00ebr\u00eb gjyshe. Edhe burri im i dyt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i lumtur kur vajza ime e madhe na vjen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me vajz\u00ebn e vog\u00ebl. I thot\u00eb vetes gjysh gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs dhe duket i lumtur. M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, edhe un\u00eb, n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7are, gjeta paqe e lumturi. Por, n\u00ebse un\u00eb jam e lumtur, duhet t\u00eb pranoj me keqardhje q\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e mi divorci im ka qen\u00eb i tmerrsh\u00ebm. Ata jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe vuajn\u00eb paragjykimet e komshinjve. Ndaj, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb let\u00ebr, do t\u00eb doja t\u2019u thoja gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrve: Mos shikoni e d\u00ebgjoni komshinjt\u00eb, shikoni vet\u00ebm lumturin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E nderuar redaksi e gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! S\u00eb pari, dua t\u2019ju uroj suksese e pun\u00eb t\u00eb mbar\u00eb n\u00eb misionin tuaj fisnik. E lexoj me kureshtje t\u00eb gjith\u00ebn gazet\u00ebn dhe vazhdimisht, m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje rr\u00ebfimet e shum\u00eb personave si puna ime, q\u00eb duan t\u00eb ndajn\u00eb breng\u00ebn e tyre me shpres\u00eb se mos leht\u00ebsohemi. 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