Paradat e joshjes s\u00eb kafsh\u00ebve jan\u00eb objekt i vrojtimeve shkencore dhe dokumentar\u00ebve t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, por edhe ato t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorura nga njer\u00ebzit ia vlejn\u00eb t\u00eb studiohen. Homo sapiens\u00ebt, pra, njer\u00ebzit, jan\u00eb nj\u00eb specie si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjerat. N\u00eb mjedisin e tij natyral njeriu ka zhvilluar nevoja dhe teknika q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetes\u00ebs, ose joshjes. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb disa specie fryjn\u00eb gjoksin, b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebrcime t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme, shpalosin krah\u00ebt, l\u00ebshojn\u00eb kudo hormone, bile tregojn\u00eb edhe t\u00eb pasmet, mashkulli njer\u00ebzor p\u00ebrdor disa nga k\u00ebto teknika, por p\u00ebrdor sidomos nj\u00eb organ t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb q\u00ebllimet dhe ndjenjat partneres s\u00eb tij potenciale. P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb? Jo p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb keni menduar ju, mendjembrapsht\u00eb! Ai v\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb z\u00ebrin e tij (nd\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb tjerave)…<\/p>\n
Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i flet nj\u00eb gruaje, ajo nuk duhet t\u2019u kushtoj\u00eb v\u00ebmendje fjal\u00ebve, n\u00ebse jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngath\u00ebta, poetike, zbavit\u00ebse apo t\u00eb parezistueshme, por tonit t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur. N\u00eb fakt, sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb kryer nga Universiteti i Stirlingut, burrat e ndryshojn\u00eb instiktivisht z\u00ebrin e tyre n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e nj\u00eb gruaje q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen, ashtu si\u00e7 e ndryshojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kur i flasim nj\u00eb bebeje.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb faz\u00ebn e \u00absulmit\u00bb, burrat e b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt tonin e z\u00ebrit t\u00eb tyre, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb ai t\u00eb duket m\u00eb burr\u00ebror, pastaj e vazhdojn\u00eb bised\u00ebn me tone m\u00eb t\u00eb larta, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb, \u00abpren\u00eb\u00bb e tyre. \u00abP\u00ebr burrat \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb ken\u00eb pamje burr\u00ebrore dhe kjo arrihet me nj\u00eb z\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb trash\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, burr\u00ebria ekstreme bashkangjitet me tipare karakteri negative, si tendenca ndaj agresivitetit dhe t\u00eb qenit i paq\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm. Burrat at\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me nj\u00eb dilem\u00eb, sepse ata duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb dy mesazhe kontradiktore: \u00abjam burr\u00ebror\u00bb dhe \u00abjam nj\u00eb partner dhe baba i mir\u00eb\u00bb. Zgjidhja, pra, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb tonin. Shtojini k\u00ebsaj humorin, fuqia josh\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit njihet tashm\u00eb dhe keni sekretin p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr vete femr\u00ebn q\u00eb keni p\u00ebrball\u00eb. Meq\u00eb natyra i b\u00ebn mir\u00eb gj\u00ebrat, kjo duket se funksionon, sepse grat\u00eb e vrojtuara, jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb pozitive ndaj k\u00ebtyre z\u00ebrave, kur ua kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i d\u00ebgjuar. Edhe ato vet\u00eb nuk i shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb k\u00ebsaj p\u00ebrshtatjeje zanore, megjith\u00ebse nuk e p\u00ebrdorin p\u00ebr t\u00eb joshur, por m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sy, kur jan\u00eb n\u00eb prani t\u00eb konkurrenteve. Sipas k\u00ebtij studimi, femrat p\u00ebrdorin v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb ton t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm kur ndjehen n\u00eb konkurrenc\u00eb, por shum\u00eb m\u00eb pak, kur kan\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Paradat e joshjes s\u00eb kafsh\u00ebve jan\u00eb objekt i vrojtimeve shkencore dhe dokumentar\u00ebve t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, por edhe ato t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorura nga njer\u00ebzit ia vlejn\u00eb t\u00eb studiohen. Homo sapiens\u00ebt, pra, njer\u00ebzit, jan\u00eb nj\u00eb specie si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjerat. N\u00eb mjedisin e tij natyral njeriu ka zhvilluar nevoja dhe teknika q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetes\u00ebs, ose joshjes. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50,86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9256"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9256\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}