{"id":9133,"date":"2015-05-07T16:00:31","date_gmt":"2015-05-07T14:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9133"},"modified":"2015-05-07T12:25:34","modified_gmt":"2015-05-07T10:25:34","slug":"vajza-e-burrit-me-shpetoi-nga-vjehrra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/05\/vajza-e-burrit-me-shpetoi-nga-vjehrra\/","title":{"rendered":"Vajza e burrit m\u00eb shp\u00ebtoi nga vjehrra"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, e nderuar redaksi e gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! Dua t\u00eb tregoj historin\u00eb time, e cila megjith\u00ebse fillon shum\u00eb e trishtuar, mendoj se fundin e ka t\u00eb bukur, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn deri tani.<br \/>\nKam lindur n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytez\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, por n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb madhe. Gjysh\u00ebrit ishin n\u00eb pension dhe kan\u00eb jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me ne, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb na kan\u00eb rritur ne t\u00eb pest\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Babai im punonte n\u00eb zdrukthtari e mamaja n\u00eb ferm\u00eb, por si\u00e7 ka qen\u00eb ajo koh\u00eb q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishin nurs\u00ebz\u00eb edhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, mamaja na puthte e p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelte, nd\u00ebrsa babain s\u2019e mbaj mend t\u00eb na puth\u00eb, por as t\u00eb na b\u00ebrtas\u00eb. Gjyshi pastaj na llastonte gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn. Kujtime t\u00eb bukura ato t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb! Ashtu u rrit\u00ebm e u martuan v\u00ebllai e dy motrat e m\u00ebdha. Un\u00eb isha f\u00ebmija i kat\u00ebrt. Mbarova shkoll\u00ebn e mesme dhe m\u00eb ra rasti t\u00eb punoja n\u00eb ferm\u00eb p\u00ebr 5 vjet. Pastaj ndryshoi sistemi dhe mbeta e papun\u00eb si fillim. Me ndryshimin e gj\u00ebrave, familja vendosi q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb kurs p\u00ebr rrobaqep\u00ebse se mendohej q\u00eb do t\u00eb kishte pun\u00eb dhe ishte nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia.<br \/>\nMe kursin m\u00eb eci mir\u00eb, ia mora dor\u00ebn shum\u00eb mir\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Hapa nj\u00eb rrobaqep\u00ebsi n\u00eb lagjen time dhe kisha goxha pun\u00eb. Kaloja koh\u00ebn, fitoja goxha me pun\u00ebn, por edhe takohesha me njer\u00ebz, por vitet po ecnin e nuk po m\u00eb dilte fati. Prind\u00ebrit e mi mezi prisnin q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja e t\u2019u thoja se m\u00eb p\u00eblqente ndokush, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb as kisha t\u00eb dashur (atje ku jetoja un\u00eb s\u2019b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb). E th\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shkoqur, prisnin se mos nd\u00ebrhynte ndonj\u00eb nga ata t\u00eb lagjes sepse m\u00eb njihnin si vajz\u00eb t\u00eb urt\u00eb e pun\u00ebtore. Edhe nga pamja isha goxha mir\u00eb, por fati vjen kur do vet\u00eb. U martua edhe v\u00ebllai im q\u00eb ishte m\u00eb i vogli, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb isha beqare.<br \/>\nMeqen\u00ebse u b\u00ebm\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi vendos\u00ebn q\u00eb gjysh\u00ebrit, prind\u00ebrit e mi dhe un\u00eb t\u00eb jetonim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr, nd\u00ebrsa v\u00ebllai i tret\u00eb q\u00eb u martua t\u00eb dilte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e re q\u00eb po nd\u00ebrtohej. H\u00eb p\u00ebr h\u00eb kishin nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb, aneks e nj\u00eb banjo.<br \/>\n&#8211; Biri im, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk t\u00eb dua, &#8211; i tha babai, &#8211; por ju duhet t\u2019i vini shpatullat pun\u00ebs. Jeni t\u00eb dy t\u00eb rinj dhe me koh\u00ebn q\u00eb ka ardhur tani ne nuk do t\u00eb rrojm\u00eb si kope.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr dhjet\u00eb vite rresht i kam ndihmuar sepse edhe nusen e doja po aq shum\u00eb sa v\u00ebllain tim. Ishte shum\u00eb e mir\u00eb. V\u00ebllai tjet\u00ebr ishte jasht\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb e nuk kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00ebn time. K\u00ebshtu vitet kalonin, mua po ikte freskia e mosh\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb edhe ato dy-tri k\u00ebrkesa q\u00eb pata i kund\u00ebrshtova vet\u00eb se nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqyen. K\u00ebshtu, po b\u00ebhesha dyzet vje\u00e7e beqare.<br \/>\n&#8211; Vet\u00eb e ke fajin, &#8211; m\u00eb thoshte shpesh mamaja ime, &#8211; bishtin p\u00ebrpjet\u00eb. Nuk je Helena e Troj\u00ebs ti q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon Akilin a Paridin si e kishte ai, q\u00eb u martua me t\u00eb.<br \/>\nNj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb bukur komshija q\u00eb kisha af\u00ebr m\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb pun\u00eb e po rrinte jo si gjithmon\u00eb.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00c7\u2019ke Lumi? &#8211; i thash\u00eb. &#8211; Nuk po m\u00eb dukesh rehat.<br \/>\n\u2013Desha t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb muhabet, por t\u00eb lutem mos ma merr p\u00ebr ters&#8230;<br \/>\nE kuptova q\u00eb ndonj\u00eb shkuesi do b\u00ebnte, por nga m\u00ebnyra si ma tha, mendova se do t\u00eb ishte ndonj\u00eb me ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb met\u00eb t\u00eb madhe.<br \/>\n\u2013 Po fol, \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00eb kaq n\u00eb siklet?<br \/>\n\u2013 E ke parasysh djalin e hall\u00ebs time, &#8211; m\u00eb tha, &#8211; at\u00eb bjondin q\u00eb vinte dikur tek un\u00eb?<br \/>\n\u2013 Me th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn s\u2019m\u00eb kujtohet, &#8211; i thash\u00eb.<br \/>\n\u2013 Epo, ai q\u00eb e ka patur sht\u00ebpin\u00eb n\u00eb lagjen tjet\u00ebr, te rrugica e Mond\u00ebs.<br \/>\n\u2013 U po, tani m\u00eb kujtohet si n\u00ebp\u00ebr tym, &#8211; i thash\u00eb, &#8211; Uuu, ai q\u00eb ka patur at\u00eb gruan e bukur q\u00eb ti thoshe se \u00ebsht\u00eb fisnike?<br \/>\n\u2013 Po taman ai. Epo, at\u00ebher\u00eb do m\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh gjat\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ti e mban mend kur ishte goxha m\u00eb i ri ai, para pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vitesh? Ishte i ri, i bukur, elegant&#8230; Kur ai shiti sht\u00ebpin\u00eb k\u00ebtu, iku n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb af\u00ebr prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij. Vet\u00eb punonte me hope dhe Zoti i dhuroi tri vajza, nj\u00ebra m\u00eb e bukur se tjetra. Pasi shkuan n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, e shoqja shiste me nj\u00eb tend\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl para der\u00ebs s\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i shtuar sadopak rrog\u00ebs s\u00eb burrit t\u00eb saj dhe filluan t\u00eb rregulloheshin goxha mir\u00eb, por sht\u00ebpia q\u00eb blen\u00eb nuk ishte ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb e hajrit. Ishte sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos qen\u00eb jasht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i lagte shiu e t\u00eb mos i rrihte era e dielli. Ti e ke parasysh gruan e tij, sa sed\u00ebrlije ka qen\u00eb! I futi vetes nj\u00eb stres t\u00eb papar\u00eb q\u00eb jetonte n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe, sa her\u00eb shkonim, na thoshte: \u201cJu faleminderit q\u00eb ma gjet\u00ebt kasollen time\u201d. Nga stresi e turpi s\u00eb bashku, erdhi duke u mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete e filloi t\u00eb shuhej n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb. Kush\u00ebriri im i thoshte t\u00eb shkonte t\u00eb vizitohej dhe vet\u00ebm kur ai i vuri shamat\u00ebn, at\u00ebher\u00eb u bind, por kur u vizitua, mor\u00ebm vesh gj\u00ebm\u00ebn, se ajo ishte me kancer n\u00eb gji. Ishte shum\u00eb e re, tridhjet\u00eb e tet\u00eb vje\u00e7e kur u diagnostikua dhe vdiq pas pothuajse dy vitesh, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb para se t\u00eb mbushte dyzet vje\u00e7e. Na ka dhembur shpirti p\u00ebr t\u00eb sa nuk gjej fjal\u00eb t\u00eb them, po tashm\u00eb kush\u00ebriri im ka dy vjet q\u00eb jeton me tri vajzat e p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb, ka menduar t\u00eb martohet. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7. Vajza e madhe vjet ka mbaruar gjimnazin, e dyta e mbaron sivjet, nd\u00ebrsa e vogla \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e gjasht\u00eb. T\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, duhet ta kesh kuptuar pse po ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb muhabet. Them t\u00eb t\u00eb prezantoj nj\u00eb her\u00eb me t\u00eb&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8211; Epo, nuk di \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb t\u00eb them. Ai paska tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe dihet q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Vajzat do m\u00eb shohin si njerk\u00eb shtrig\u00eb. Pastaj, ti e di q\u00eb nuk dua t\u00eb marr burr\u00eb t\u00eb martuar&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8211; E di si \u00ebsht\u00eb puna? Ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i divorcuar, q\u00eb ti t\u00eb dyshosh tek ai, por i ka ndodhur nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi. Aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb ti ke shoqe nga lagjja tjet\u00ebr dhe mund t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh p\u00ebr t\u00eb. E vetmja k\u00ebshill\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb jap n\u00ebse pranon, \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i rrish sa m\u00eb larg hall\u00ebs time. \u00cbsht\u00eb plak\u00eb e tmerrshme. At\u00eb t\u00eb shkret\u00ebn edhe n\u00eb gryk\u00eb t\u00eb varrit e torturoi me budallall\u00ebqet e saj.<br \/>\n&#8211; Ta mendoj, &#8211; i thash\u00eb.<br \/>\nT\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen pasdite, Lida m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi djalin e saj t\u00eb vog\u00ebl: &#8211; Mami m\u00eb tha hajde pak se dua t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj di\u00e7ka, &#8211; m\u00eb tha djali e vazhdoi loj\u00ebn me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb. Shkova t\u00eb shihja e t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoja se \u00e7\u2019do m\u00eb thoshte, po nuk e dija se deri ku e kishte \u00e7uar ajo muhabetin.<br \/>\nSapo hyra brenda, pash\u00eb kush\u00ebririn e saj n\u00eb divan, nd\u00ebrsa pinte kafe. N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr ishte kafja ime q\u00eb nxirrte avull (ma merr mendja se edhe un\u00eb ashtu fillova t\u00eb nxjerr avull menj\u00ebher\u00eb), si dhe Lida, n\u00eb an\u00ebn e kush\u00ebririt t\u00eb saj.<br \/>\n&#8211; Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb kush\u00ebriri q\u00eb t\u00eb fola dje, &#8211; tha ajo. I dhash\u00eb dor\u00ebn dhe u ula.<br \/>\n&#8211; Ky duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb filxhani im, &#8211; i thash\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb hyri edhe burri i Lid\u00ebs. Ai m\u00eb dha dor\u00ebn, m\u00eb pyeti p\u00ebr familjen dhe nd\u00ebrruan vendet me Lid\u00ebn. Ajo erdhi nga ana ime. P\u00ebr pes\u00eb minuta biseda u gjall\u00ebrua nga ata t\u00eb tre e m\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin\u00eb edhe mua. Gjith\u00e7ka rrodhi lirsh\u00ebm. E pash\u00eb q\u00eb kisha ndenjur nj\u00eb or\u00eb e nj\u00eb \u00e7erek pa e kuptuar se si kaloi koha. U ngrita kur e pash\u00eb sa kisha ndenjur, jo vet\u00ebm se kisha shum\u00eb pun\u00eb. Mendova se zot\u00ebria q\u00eb m\u00eb prezantuan do mendonte se po vdisja p\u00ebr t\u00eb qysh aty.<br \/>\nT\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen, Lida m\u00eb erdhi prap\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb e m\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte miratimin tim, sepse kush\u00ebriri e kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cpo\u201d-n\u00eb e tij. Ai i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb kujtohet, tani q\u00eb e pash\u00eb si fytyr\u00eb. E mbaj mend kur kam banuar n\u00eb lagjen tjet\u00ebr dhe e mbaj mend p\u00ebr vajz\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb jam dakord. Pyet edhe at\u00eb n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb dakord. Por kam nj\u00eb problem. Dua ta prezantoj me vajzat m\u00eb par\u00eb e n\u00ebse vajzat e mia do t\u00eb thon\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d, at\u00ebher\u00eb edhe un\u00eb do t\u00eb them \u201cjo\u201d. Nuk mund t\u00eb marr dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn si fytyr\u00eb nuk e p\u00eblqejn\u00eb vajzat\u201d, i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb. M\u00eb shokoi kjo fjalia e tij e fundit. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb mendon m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr vajzat e tij! Zakonisht, njer\u00ebzit thon\u00eb se burrat shohin vet\u00ebm t\u00eb marrin nusen n\u00eb krevat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jetim\u00eb i rrit Zoti, por ai jo. Kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb ishte njeri me zem\u00ebr, jo thjesht nj\u00eb baba i mir\u00eb. Nj\u00eb baba i mir\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr to q\u00eb t\u2019i rris\u00eb me dashurin\u00eb e tij, t\u2019u plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb k\u00ebrkesat ekonomike, t\u2019i shkolloj\u00eb e edukoj\u00eb, por vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb njeri me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7ilt\u00ebr, mendon q\u00eb edhe vajzat duhet ta \u201czgjedhin\u201d njerk\u00ebn.<br \/>\nK\u00ebshtu, pranova t\u00eb takohesha me t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt. Pas disa dit\u00ebsh, shkova n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb p\u00ebr furnizim dhe e lam\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb takoheshim atje. M\u00eb prisnin t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt kur zbrita nga furgoni, se un\u00eb nuk dija t\u00eb sillesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr Tiran\u00eb. I vetmi vend q\u00eb dija ishte tregu ku kisha pun\u00eb.  Vajzat ishin si tre engj\u00ebj. E dyta ishte e bukur si e \u00ebma. Dy t\u00eb tjerat ishin nj\u00eb p\u00ebrzierje e k\u00ebndshme mes t\u00eb atit dhe s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs.<br \/>\n&#8211; N\u00eb cil\u00ebn kafe t\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ulemi, &#8211; m\u00eb tha ai, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb po u jepja dor\u00ebn vajzave. E b\u00ebnte gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb dukej kaq natyrsh\u00ebm, sa m\u2019u duk sikur e njihja prej koh\u00ebsh, jo sikur ishte hera e dyt\u00eb q\u00eb po e takoja.<br \/>\n\u2013 K\u00ebtu jemi n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, e un\u00eb nuk di t\u00eb zgjedh, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ulemi ku t\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb ju.<br \/>\nE vogla nd\u00ebrhyri, si m\u00eb e shkath\u00ebta dhe m\u00eb e llastuara e t\u00eb atit: \u2013 Di un\u00eb nj\u00eb kafe k\u00ebtu mbrapa. Jam ulur me daj\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb duket vend i bukur.<br \/>\nVajza na priu dhe me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb oaz i vog\u00ebl me lule dhe i qet\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00ebve na ngjiti me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe mbaj mend q\u00eb m\u00eb dhimbnin edhe faqet nga t\u00eb qeshurat. E k\u00ebshtu, meq\u00eb t\u00eb pest\u00eb ishim dakord, un\u00eb u martova pas nj\u00eb muaji. Nuk b\u00ebm\u00eb das\u00ebm, nuk ftuam ask\u00ebnd. Me burrin dhe me vajzat shkuam p\u00ebr dark\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb restorant q\u00eb e kishin zgjedhur vajzat. Shkuam edhe tre dit\u00eb n\u00eb plazh n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs te sht\u00ebpia e kunatit. I mbaj mend si dit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukura fillimet e martes\u00ebs sime, edhe pse e von\u00eb. Vjehrra vazhdimisht k\u00ebrkonte t\u00eb vinte t\u00eb jetonte me ne, por im shoq i thoshte se ne ishim shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz dhe nuk kishte vend p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Un\u00eb e kuptoja se ai e shmangte dhe vazhdimisht m\u00eb kujtohej ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb tha Lumi, se mamaja e tij ishte shum\u00eb e keqe. Ajo jetonte me djalin tjet\u00ebr aty, af\u00ebr nesh&#8230; Dy vajzat e m\u00ebdha, sapo mbaruan shkoll\u00ebn e mesme, u martuan dhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ishim me vajz\u00ebn e vog\u00ebl. Pas gjasht\u00eb muajsh, un\u00eb mbeta shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Ishte nj\u00eb mrekulli se un\u00eb isha dyzet e nj\u00eb vje\u00e7e, ndaj n\u00eb fillim nuk i tham\u00eb askujt. T\u00eb dy burr\u00eb e grua i trembeshim reagimit t\u00eb vajzave, por ishte gj\u00eb q\u00eb duhej th\u00ebn\u00eb. Kur isha dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb jav\u00ebshe dhe b\u00ebm\u00eb ekon, im shoq vendosi t\u2019i thoshte vajz\u00ebs q\u00eb kishim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, m\u00eb t\u00eb vogl\u00ebs. Kur i treguam, ajo shp\u00ebrtheu si nj\u00eb vullkan i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe ky vullkan vazhdoi derisa djali u b\u00eb nj\u00eb vje\u00e7. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb shtatzanis\u00eb dhe sa djali ishte i vog\u00ebl, un\u00eb kam ndenjur e mbyllur n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit. Vajza thoshte q\u00eb kuzhina i p\u00ebrkiste asaj dhe se ne nuk duhej t\u00eb kalonim fare andej. Im shoq vendosi ta respektonte k\u00ebt\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs se ishte i sigurt q\u00eb ajo do t\u00eb ndryshonte. N\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zallamahi, kunati im ai q\u00eb kishte sht\u00ebpin\u00eb n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs dhe q\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb ekonomikisht, erdhi dhe i b\u00ebri nj\u00eb propozim vajz\u00ebs. I tha q\u00eb do b\u00ebnte nd\u00ebrhyrje n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb, do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte aneksin dhe ballkonin bashk\u00eb e do t\u00eb sajonte nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi garsonier\u00eb, q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb rrinte m\u00eb vete.<br \/>\n&#8211; Nga ana financiare, t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjem un\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb mbarosh shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb. Edhe punimet i b\u00ebj un\u00eb, edhe p\u00ebr ta mobiluar zgjidh \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb duash ti e t\u2019i blej un\u00eb. T\u00eb lutem vet\u00ebm t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhemi gazi i bot\u00ebs. \u00c7do fem\u00ebr lind q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebn\u00eb! &#8211; tha m\u00eb n\u00eb fund.<br \/>\n&#8211; Epo at\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebn\u00eb, &#8211; tha ajo. \u2013 T\u00eb premtoj q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb b\u00ebj m\u00eb sherr. Nuk do t\u00eb flas, por as nuk dua t\u00eb m\u00eb flasin.<br \/>\nDhe k\u00ebshtu vazhduam p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vit t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb. M\u00eb ishte m\u00ebrzitur jeta t\u00eb jetoja si e burgosur n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, vajza m\u00eb thirri n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb dhe m\u00eb tha:<br \/>\n&#8211; E di pse nuk pranova q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebhej dhoma ime?<br \/>\n\u2013 Jo, &#8211; i thash\u00eb.<br \/>\n\u2013 Sepse n\u00ebse martohem un\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhom\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb sajohet, do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb gjyshja. Ajo ia ka nxir\u00eb jet\u00ebn mamas\u00eb sime deri dit\u00ebn q\u00eb vdiq dhe un\u00eb nuk dua q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe me ty, &#8211; tha dhe i rrodh\u00ebn lot\u00ebt \u00e7urg\u00eb.<br \/>\nIu afrova dhe i kapa dor\u00ebn. N\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ast, m\u2019u afrua dhe pyeti: &#8211; A mund t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoj?<br \/>\n\u2013 Sigurisht, &#8211; i thash\u00eb, dhe e mbajta ashtu n\u00eb gji nuk e di p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb. Na ndau vet\u00ebm di\u00e7ka q\u00eb na guduliste n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb. Im bir kishte ardhur k\u00ebmbadoras se ishte m\u00ebrzitur vet\u00ebm me lodrat. Nuk e kisha d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb qante, po vet\u00ebm e pash\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqte nga tutat q\u00eb ta merrja. Vajza u shk\u00ebput nga un\u00eb dhe e mori t\u00eb v\u00ebllain n\u00eb krah\u00eb.<br \/>\n&#8211; M\u00eb fal, yll i vog\u00ebl. Ti je aq i pafajsh\u00ebm sa edhe un\u00eb. Ti do maman\u00eb t\u00ebnde dhe ja ku e ke, un\u00eb dua maman\u00eb time, m\u00eb ka marr\u00eb malli po s\u2019kam ku e gjej. Po ne t\u00eb dy do t\u2019ia kalojm\u00eb mir\u00eb.<br \/>\nQ\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb, familja jon\u00eb mori emrin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb familje. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt rrin\u00eb bashk\u00eb, edhe vajzat e martuara e duan djalin dhe vijn\u00eb shpesh ta takojn\u00eb. Jam e lumtur q\u00eb kam jo vet\u00ebm djalin, por edhe vajzat, jam e lumtur q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuara dhe gjykojn\u00eb sikur t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb rritura. Nuk di si do t\u2019ia shp\u00ebrblej vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb vog\u00ebl&#8230; Megjith\u00ebse e zem\u00ebruar n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre me t\u00eb drejt\u00eb me mua, vendosi t\u00eb mos mendonte p\u00ebr rehatin\u00eb e saj, por p\u00ebr timen. Edhe sikur n\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb kishte, ndoshta nuk do t\u00eb mendonte aq shum\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. E dua shum\u00eb dhe fal\u00ebnderoj Zotin q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebri pjes\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb familjeje t\u00eb till\u00eb, kaq t\u00eb bukur!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, e nderuar redaksi e gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! Dua t\u00eb tregoj historin\u00eb time, e cila megjith\u00ebse fillon shum\u00eb e trishtuar, mendoj se fundin e ka t\u00eb bukur, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn deri tani. Kam lindur n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytez\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, por n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb madhe. Gjysh\u00ebrit ishin n\u00eb pension dhe kan\u00eb jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me ne, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9133"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9133\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}