{"id":9075,"date":"2015-05-04T12:20:45","date_gmt":"2015-05-04T10:20:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=9075"},"modified":"2015-05-04T12:20:45","modified_gmt":"2015-05-04T10:20:45","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-62","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/05\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-62\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>U fejova<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po fejohesha me djalin me t\u00eb cilin jam lidhur, por at\u00eb nuk e shikoja dhe fejesa b\u00ebhej n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb q\u00eb kam pasur. Pash\u00eb edhe mamin, sikur kishte bler\u00eb nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb t\u00eb re dhe shikoja njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb hidhnin lek. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem?<br \/>\n&#8211; Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se tregon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u2019u fejuar me k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb, parashikon edhe nj\u00eb diskutim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi rreth jush. Blerja e tavolin\u00ebs s\u00eb re e lek\u00ebt, jan\u00eb sfida t\u00eb reja, lajme t\u00eb reja, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb lidhje edhe me ju, por edhe diskutime rreth jush. N\u00ebse ju nuk d\u00ebshironi q\u00eb t\u00eb merret vesh historia juaj, duhet t\u00eb jeni sa m\u00eb diskret\u00eb. N\u00ebse doni q\u00eb t\u00eb merret vesh, m\u00eb par\u00eb sigurohuni nga djali q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah ka q\u00ebllime serioze ndaj jush. \u00cbsht\u00eb momenti t\u00eb hapni bised\u00eb m\u00eb serioze rreth marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies tuaj. Ju uroj fat!<\/p>\n<p>Familja e tij m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi dor\u00ebn<br \/>\n&#8211; Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur familja e shokut t\u00eb v\u00ebllait tim kishte ardhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar dor\u00ebn p\u00ebr fejes\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa mbr\u00ebm\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur babai dhe v\u00ebllai m\u00eb than\u00eb mua dhe atij: \u201cPo ju, pse nuk lidheni bashk\u00eb, meq\u00eb ai djali vjen shpesh te ne dhe kaloni shum\u00eb koh\u00eb bashk\u00eb?\u201d. Un\u00eb, n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, u ndjeva shum\u00eb me turp dhe nuk ktheja p\u00ebrgjigje as po, as jo. As ai djali nuk kthente p\u00ebrgjigje, edhe ai ndihej n\u00eb siklet nga situata. Dukej sikur un\u00eb prisja q\u00eb ai t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjej i pari dhe ai, sikur priste nga un\u00eb, por asnj\u00ebri nuk b\u00ebnte hapin e par\u00eb; vet\u00ebm shmangeshim dhe shikoheshim n\u00eb sy tin\u00ebzisht. Ju lutem, ma shpjegoni k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shoku i ngusht\u00eb i v\u00ebllait tim dhe kemi shum\u00eb muhabet.<br \/>\n&#8211; E dashur vajz\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e qart\u00eb q\u00eb mes jush dhe shokut t\u00eb v\u00ebllait tuaj ka nj\u00ebfar\u00eb simpatie, por keni p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb penges\u00eb e madhe, q\u00eb nuk ju l\u00eb t\u00eb afroheni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Ju n\u00eb fakt keni filluar ta doni at\u00eb djal\u00eb, por gjithsesi, keni frik\u00eb nga p\u00ebrgjigjja e tij, sepse keni dyshime n\u00ebse edhe ai ndjen t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, apo \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb simpati apo respekt. Edhe ai, si ju, ka frik\u00eb t\u00eb afrohet, edhe pse n\u00eb fakt nga \u00ebndrra duket q\u00eb ushqen simpati p\u00ebr ju. Duke qen\u00eb se ju jeni motra e shokut t\u00eb tij t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb pozit\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sepse duhet t\u00eb matet mir\u00eb, ngaq\u00eb me ju nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb lidhje, por do t\u2019i duhet ta b\u00ebj\u00eb zyrtare, duke qen\u00eb se n\u00eb mes \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllai dhe familja juaj. Nj\u00eb situat\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy ju, sepse jeni edhe t\u00eb rinj, megjithat\u00eb \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon ta mbani af\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe ta shoq\u00ebroni me biseda, si\u00e7 keni b\u00ebr\u00eb gjer tani, se mbase kjo i jep besimin e plot\u00eb atij t\u00eb shprehet dhe t\u2019ju shfaq\u00eb ndjenjat e v\u00ebrteta. Ju uroj fat. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>U fejova &#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po fejohesha me djalin me t\u00eb cilin jam lidhur, por at\u00eb nuk e shikoja dhe fejesa b\u00ebhej n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb q\u00eb kam pasur. Pash\u00eb edhe mamin, sikur kishte bler\u00eb nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb t\u00eb re dhe shikoja njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb hidhnin lek. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? &#8211; Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9075","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9075"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9075\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}