– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje doktor Evi. Jam 19 vje\u00e7e, e martuar dhe burrin e kam 34 vje\u00e7. Problemi q\u00ebndron se, q\u00ebkur mbeta shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, burri nuk kryen m\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me mua. N\u00eb fillim p\u00ebrdorte shtatzanin\u00eb si pretekst, thoshte q\u00eb kishte frik\u00eb, por sot f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb 4 muajsh dhe ai vazhdon n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gjendje. Nuk kemi kontakt seksual. Ai e pranon se ka probleme sepse nuk ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr seks, por nuk pranon t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb te mjeku. \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb? Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje nga ju, faleminderit.
\nDr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog: – Jeta seksuale e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti n\u00eb momentin e shtatzanis\u00eb apo pas saj, n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste, fillon t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb \u00e7rregullimi, por zakonisht, n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet n\u00eb \u00e7ift, gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shkak p\u00ebr uljen e intensitetit seksual. N\u00ebna e re (sidomos ato q\u00eb lindin p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb), meqen\u00ebse i p\u00ebrqendron t\u00eb gjitha energjit\u00eb e saj fizike dhe psikologjike n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb rritjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, duke pasur edhe \u00e7rregullime t\u00eb gjumit nga t\u00eb qar\u00ebt apo k\u00ebrkesat q\u00eb ka f\u00ebmija, mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ulje t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs seksuale. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, burrat vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb d\u00ebshiren seksuale pa ndonj\u00eb ndryshim.
\nP\u00ebr rastin tuaj, un\u00eb mendoj se k\u00ebtu bashk\u00ebshorti juaj ka nj\u00eb problem, sjellja dhe veprimet e tij jan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u diskutuar apo konsultuar me nj\u00eb mjek. N\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet bised\u00ebs e konsult\u00ebs, mund t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb shkakun dhe arsyen e k\u00ebsaj uljeje t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb tij seksuale. Ai duhet t\u00eb ishte n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur aktin seksual jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk do ta refuzonte, por duhet t\u00eb ishte iniciatori p\u00ebr ta kryer at\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb forconte dashurin\u00eb e \u00e7iftit, do t\u00eb eleminonte stresin e dit\u00ebs, do t\u00eb krijonte ide q\u00eb jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb energjik\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rrisni nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje doktor Evi. Jam 19 vje\u00e7e, e martuar dhe burrin e kam 34 vje\u00e7. Problemi q\u00ebndron se, q\u00ebkur mbeta shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, burri nuk kryen m\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me mua. N\u00eb fillim p\u00ebrdorte shtatzanin\u00eb si pretekst, thoshte q\u00eb kishte frik\u00eb, por sot f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb 4 muajsh dhe ai vazhdon n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gjendje. Nuk kemi kontakt seksual. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mjeku","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8707","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8707"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8707\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8707"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8707"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8707"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}