Ajo quhet Fatmira Rushani dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e pes\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Fatmira jeton n\u00eb skamje dhe dita-dit\u00ebs p\u00ebrballet me mbijetes\u00ebn. Tre nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb me ast\u00ebm nga kushtet e v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs dhe dy t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, vuajn\u00eb nga s\u00ebmundja e tok\u00ebs, si\u00e7 quhet ndryshe epilepsia. M\u00eb i vogli ka nevoja emergjente p\u00ebr kurim t\u00eb specializuar pasi vuan nga nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje gjaku\u2026 Fatmira n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb lutet q\u00eb dikush ta v\u00ebr\u00eb dor\u00ebn n\u00eb zem\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb, pasi ajo vet\u00eb nuk mundet m\u00eb\u2026 Ka kaluar depresion disa her\u00eb, por k\u00ebsaj radhe laku e ka shtr\u00ebnguar aq shum\u00eb, sa trembet se mos i l\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb fatit…<\/p>\n
Arlis Alikaj: – Fatmira, cili \u00ebsht\u00eb armiku juaj m\u00eb i madh sot?
\nFatmira Rushani: – P\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloj me dram\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs sime, dua ta nis nga ajo q\u00eb na k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon dhe t\u2019ju them se pse dua nj\u00eb jetes\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. K\u00ebtu ku jetoj momentalisht, kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb… Si\u00e7 e pat\u00eb, un\u00eb jetoj buz\u00eb lumit dhe lumi po ha tok\u00ebn e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb ku un\u00eb jetoj. Bie t\u00eb fle me ankth dhe \u00e7ohem me shpres\u00eb. Jan\u00eb mbytur shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend, bile para gjasht\u00eb dit\u00ebsh, u mbyt nj\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7ar. Nuk dal dot as t\u00eb punoj, pasi sapo largohem, m\u00eb rri mendja te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.
\n– Shohim q\u00eb frigoriferi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb bosh. Keni ngr\u00ebn\u00eb sot?
\n– Jo, p\u00ebr at\u00eb Zot! Ja, p\u00ebr k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb betohem. Rri shum\u00eb her\u00eb pa buk\u00eb, ndaj edhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb anemik e me s\u00ebmundje gjaku nga kequshqyerja. Para ca jav\u00ebsh, kur ishin shirat e m\u00ebdha, u p\u00ebrmbyt\u00ebm.
\n– Jan\u00eb interesuar organet e shtetit p\u00ebr gjendjen tuaj?
\n– Po, vijn\u00eb, m\u00eb shohin e thon\u00eb: \u201cFatmira, do jesh e para n\u00eb list\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u rregulluar\u201d, por asgj\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb deri tani.
\n– Keni marr\u00eb kompensim p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmbytjen?
\n– Asnj\u00eb lloj ndihme, as kompensim, asgj\u00eb!
\n– Po shoqatat e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb gjalla p\u00ebr t\u2019ju dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb?
\n– Shoqata jo e jo, e vetmja ndihm\u00eb deri tani, kan\u00eb qen\u00eb supet e mia.
\n– A mban mend ndonj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur ke ngr\u00ebn\u00eb mir\u00eb?
\n– E vetmja dit\u00eb kur kam ngr\u00ebn\u00eb mir\u00eb, ka qen\u00eb kur kam \u00e7uar djemt\u00eb me temperatur\u00eb n\u00eb spital, nga i ftohti. Nj\u00eb vakt spitali, mbaj mend ta kem shijuar.
\n– Pra, ju nuk keni fare t\u00eb ardhura n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Si ia b\u00ebni q\u00eb jetoni? Me \u201cfrym\u00ebn e shenjt\u00eb\u201d?
\n– Marr nj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb sociale p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, por \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb pak, nj\u00eb shum\u00eb e pap\u00ebrfillshme, q\u00eb as p\u00ebr ila\u00e7e nuk m\u00eb del. Vet\u00eb, po mundohem shum\u00eb t\u00eb dal n\u00eb kemp, por nuk po ia arrij dot.
\n– Meq\u00eb jemi te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt… m\u00eb tregoni p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj\u2026
\n– Kam pes\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb prekur nga nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb. Djali i madh \u00ebsht\u00eb 18 vje\u00e7, i papun\u00eb, vajza 17 vje\u00e7e dhe astmatike, goca tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb 12 vje\u00e7e e bashk\u00eb me djalin 6 vje\u00e7, ndajn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat probleme, s\u00ebmundje toke dhe ast\u00ebm, kurse djali 8 vje\u00e7 vuan nga anemia e r\u00ebnd\u00eb.
\n– Po djali 18 vje\u00e7, nuk b\u00ebn asnj\u00eb pun\u00eb?
\n– Djali ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb kurs profesional, por askush nuk e merr n\u00eb pun\u00eb se ne jemi rom\u00eb. Pse, ne nuk kemi jet\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu? Ai u detyrua ta linte shkoll\u00ebn p\u00ebr shkakun tim, me turp mbledhim bidona dhe i shesim. Nuk ia dalim dot, kemi edhe shum\u00eb borxhe n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyqane, aq sa nuk na japin m\u00eb.
\n– Po ish-bashk\u00ebshorti \u00e7\u2019q\u00ebndrim mban? Ai nuk ju ndihmon dot, sadopak?
\n– Ai vjen, sheh kalamajt\u00eb e ik\u00ebn. As ai nuk ka \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn. Prej kushteve u divorcuam. Rri-rri e vete pi, q\u00eb ta harroj\u00eb realitetin ku jeton.
\n– Fatmira, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u2019u k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku lexuesve n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb?
\n– Kam frik\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, nuk dua ta humbas djalin e vog\u00ebl, m\u00eb duhen pompa p\u00ebr ast\u00ebm dhe kushte p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar. Bashkis\u00eb i b\u00ebj thirrje t\u00eb m\u00eb rregulloj\u00eb n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb banes\u00eb sociale, sepse nuk dua q\u00eb djali im t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebris\u00eb vdekje klinike, si at\u00ebher\u00eb kur ishte shtat\u00eb vje\u00e7. Gjithashtu, kush mundet, t\u00eb na ndihmoj\u00eb me ushqime, si ta ket\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb…
\n– Ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb mund ta kemi l\u00ebn\u00eb pa th\u00ebn\u00eb?
\n– Po, gjithashtu, i drejtohem edhe kryeministrit q\u00eb t\u00eb na largoj\u00eb prej k\u00ebtej. Jemi fukarenj e po kaloj n\u00eb depresion; spitali na \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e dyt\u00eb. K\u00ebrc\u00ebnohemi nga lumi dhe s\u00ebmundjet. Un\u00eb vet\u00eb jam me zem\u00ebr dhe e shoh q\u00eb nuk e kam t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, ama dua t\u00eb rregulloj f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi.
\n– Fatmira, t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj dhe uroj q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb pas k\u00ebtij apeli…
\n– Faleminderit \u201cIntervist\u00ebs\u201d, q\u00eb m\u00eb dha mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019gjendje jam dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shpresuar se dikush do t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb. Zoti jua b\u00ebft\u00eb drit\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00ebt tuaja!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ajo quhet Fatmira Rushani dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e pes\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Fatmira jeton n\u00eb skamje dhe dita-dit\u00ebs p\u00ebrballet me mbijetes\u00ebn. Tre nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb me ast\u00ebm nga kushtet e v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs dhe dy t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, vuajn\u00eb nga s\u00ebmundja e tok\u00ebs, si\u00e7 quhet ndryshe epilepsia. M\u00eb i vogli ka nevoja emergjente p\u00ebr kurim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8702","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8702","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8702"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8702\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}