{"id":8596,"date":"2015-03-26T11:03:02","date_gmt":"2015-03-26T10:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=8596"},"modified":"2015-03-26T11:03:02","modified_gmt":"2015-03-26T10:03:02","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-49","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/03\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-49\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Shoh t\u00eb panjohur<br \/>\n&#8211; Jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe \u00e7do nat\u00eb shoh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr burra t\u00eb njohur e t\u00eb panjohur. Shoh edhe v\u00ebllain tim ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbndrrat n\u00eb shtatzani nuk kan\u00eb ndonj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb parashikime. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni sepse \u00ebndrra juaj nuk tregon asgj\u00eb. Ju uroj shtatzani t\u00eb mbar\u00eb. <\/p>\n<p>Kisha vdekur<br \/>\n&#8211; N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb veten time t\u00eb vdekur, qaja shum\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, endesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm qaja. Doja t\u00eb flisja, por asnj\u00eb nuk m\u00eb kuptonte dhe d\u00ebgjonte.<br \/>\n&#8211; Jo gjithmon\u00eb vdekja p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson t\u00eb keqen n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, ajo p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson rilindjen shpirt\u00ebrore e psikologjike t\u00eb personit q\u00eb e shikon. Edhe \u00ebndrra juaj k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb tregon, duke qen\u00eb se e keni par\u00eb veten duke qar\u00eb. E qara n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon ngush\u00ebllim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme. \u00cbndrra \u00ebsht\u00eb pozitive.<\/p>\n<p>M\u2019u fejua motra<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr motr\u00ebn, sikur ishte fejuar dhe po prisnim miqt\u00eb e rinj. Ata erdh\u00ebn dhe i soll\u00ebn motr\u00ebs nj\u00eb valixhe plot me gj\u00ebra. Pasi ata ik\u00ebn, ne filluam t\u00eb shikonim rrobat q\u00eb i kishin sjell\u00eb. Un\u00eb thash\u00eb: \u201cTani, duhet t\u2019u tregojm\u00eb edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fejuar motra\u201d. Edhe ajo kishte par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb e kishte marr\u00eb n\u00eb telefon dhe i kishte k\u00ebrkuar t\u00eb njiheshin. Theksoj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb beqare.<br \/>\n&#8211; Duket q\u00eb e keni pik\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt motr\u00ebn tuaj dhe jeni vazhdimisht e shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr fatin e saj, duke qen\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma beqare. Ama, b\u00ebni kujdes, sepse shqet\u00ebsimi juaj i tepruar mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb trishtim m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr motr\u00ebn tuaj. Jepini zem\u00ebr se \u00e7do person e ka fatin e vet dhe ai do t\u00eb vij\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e duhur. \u00cbndrra juaj tregon q\u00eb ajo v\u00ebrtet do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb s\u00eb shpejti. I uroj fat shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. <\/p>\n<p>Bebe lakuriq<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb bebe lakuriq, sikur p\u00ebrtypi nj\u00eb fije bari, un\u00eb u tremba, por ai e nxori prap\u00eb nga goja. Kur i dhash\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb uj\u00eb me got\u00eb, m\u2019u duk sikur u mbyt. E tundja, por ai nuk u p\u00ebrmend dhe nga frika, u zgjova. Jam n\u00eb merak, ndaj pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; Bebja lakuriq q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ka lidhje me nj\u00eb projekt tuajin, q\u00eb nuk e keni planifikuar si\u00e7 duhet, nuk e keni organizuar n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb rezultat pozitiv. P\u00ebrfundimi \u00ebsht\u00eb se ju nuk do t\u00eb mund ta realizoni at\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb keni n\u00eb mendje. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shoh t\u00eb panjohur &#8211; Jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe \u00e7do nat\u00eb shoh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr burra t\u00eb njohur e t\u00eb panjohur. Shoh edhe v\u00ebllain tim ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb? &#8211; \u00cbndrrat n\u00eb shtatzani nuk kan\u00eb ndonj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb parashikime. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni sepse \u00ebndrra juaj nuk tregon asgj\u00eb. Ju uroj shtatzani [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8596","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8596"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8596\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8596"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8596"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8596"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}