M\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi mesazh t\u00eb ndaheshim
\n– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur i dashuri im m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi sms ku shkruhej: \u201cDo t\u00eb ndahemi, nuk mundem m\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb u p\u00ebrpoqa t\u2019i telefonoja, por m\u00eb pengonin disa njer\u00ebz. Theksoj se pas sms-s\u00eb, vet\u00ebm qaja. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje, se jam n\u00eb merak.
\n– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon se do t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb debat me t\u00eb dashurin, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju l\u00ebndoj\u00eb paksa. Do t\u00eb ndiheni si e braktisur, por n\u00eb fakt, pas k\u00ebsaj do t\u00eb lidheni akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Do t\u00eb jet\u00eb ai q\u00eb do t\u2019ju ngush\u00eblloj\u00eb e do t\u2019ju q\u00ebndroj\u00eb pran\u00eb. <\/p>\n
Fluturim dhe fush\u00eb me jeshilll\u00ebk
\n– Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po fluturoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb dhe shikoja rreth vetes fusha t\u00eb t\u00ebra me jeshilll\u00ebk. M\u00eb pas shikoja lisa t\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ishin mb\u00ebshtjell\u00eb gjarp\u00ebrinj. Kjo m\u00eb frik\u00ebsoi aq shum\u00eb saq\u00eb ecja me vrap n\u00ebp\u00ebr fush\u00eb, por gjithandej shikoja lisa t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe gjarp\u00ebrinj. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka?
\n– T\u00eb fluturuarit, si\u00e7 e kam th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, paraqet ndjenj\u00ebn e liris\u00eb, synimet tuaja n\u00eb jet\u00eb, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si i kap\u00ebrceni ato. Paraqet gjithashtu bot\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb brendshme shpirt\u00ebrore. Lisat e gjat\u00eb q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, simbolizojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e gjat\u00eb, stabilitetin, forc\u00ebn, toleranc\u00ebn, urt\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe properitetin. Ju jeni person i fort\u00eb, keni aft\u00ebsin\u00eb ta nd\u00ebrtoni \u00e7do gj\u00eb n\u00eb themel t\u00eb fort\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb ta jepni p\u00ebrshtypjen sikur trembeni menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Gjarp\u00ebri, sa \u00ebsht\u00eb simbol erotik, po aq edhe p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson frik\u00ebn tuaj ose di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju shqet\u00ebson dhe t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e dini vet\u00ebm ju. Ju uroj fat! <\/p>\n
Po b\u00ebja seks me dy femra
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur b\u00ebn seks me dy femra? Nuk b\u00ebj shaka, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb e kam par\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje dhe ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes. Theksoj q\u00eb \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla shikoj shum\u00eb shpesh.
\n– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur e shikoni shpesh, e ka baz\u00ebn n\u00eb hormonet tuaja. Jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb faz\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr afrimitet fizik, p\u00ebr intimitet, dashuri, ndoshta sepse n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale ndiheni pak t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb. Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb shkarkoheni disi nga ana emocionale, pse jo, edhe fizike. Nuk ndiheni i plot\u00ebsuar n\u00eb realitet, ndaj \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb se normale t\u00eb shikoni \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla. <\/p>\n
M\u00eb kishin dal\u00eb pu\u00e7rra
\n– Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova te mjeku p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb disa pu\u00e7rrave q\u00eb m\u00eb kishin dal\u00eb. N\u00eb bark sikur po m\u00eb binte l\u00ebkura dhe po m\u00eb dilte nj\u00eb l\u00ebng i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm. Doktori m\u00eb tha se ishte s\u00ebmundje vdekjeprur\u00ebse, por nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesha sepse nuk ishte e r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Un\u00eb, n\u00eb fakt, her\u00eb pas here kam probleme sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ju lutem?
\n– Sigurisht q\u00eb ka kuptim. N\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegjja, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet \u00ebndrr\u00ebs, ju transmeton nj\u00eb mesazh pozitiv. Nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb keni kaluar sepse gjendja juaj sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore po p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet dita-dit\u00ebs. Mjafton t\u00eb jeni i kujdessh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb shkoni her\u00eb pas here te mjeku p\u00ebr kontroll. R\u00ebnia e l\u00ebkur\u00ebs tregon rigjenerimin. Pra, ju do ta merrni veten, prandaj s\u2019keni pse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni. <\/p>\n
Qeni agresiv
\n– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb nj\u00eb qen agresiv q\u00eb po b\u00ebnte xhiro n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi. Pastaj, sikur m\u00eb sulmoi. N\u00eb krah kisha edhe vajz\u00ebn time t\u00eb vog\u00ebl e nj\u00eb mace. Qeni u afrua p\u00ebrs\u00ebri dhe e g\u00ebrvishti aq shum\u00eb vajz\u00ebn, sa e vrau fare. Pastaj, un\u00eb e p\u00ebrplasa qenin nga nj\u00ebra port\u00eb te tjetra sepse doja ta vrisja.
\n– E dini tashm\u00eb q\u00eb gjendeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe \u00ebndrra tregon pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb jua krijon nj\u00eb person q\u00eb her\u00eb pas here ju b\u00ebn presion dhe q\u00eb ka lidhje me vajz\u00ebn tuaj. Ju mundoheni ta mbroni vajz\u00ebn me \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mundeni, por ju duket e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb ruani gjakftoht\u00ebsin\u00eb sepse asgj\u00eb nuk zgjidhet me agresivitet. Nuk p\u00ebrjashtohet mund\u00ebsia q\u00eb qeni t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsoj\u00eb edhe instiktet tuaja t\u00eb brendshme n\u00eb lidhje me \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju rrethon. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb, besojini instiktit tuaj. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi mesazh t\u00eb ndaheshim – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur i dashuri im m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi sms ku shkruhej: \u201cDo t\u00eb ndahemi, nuk mundem m\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb u p\u00ebrpoqa t\u2019i telefonoja, por m\u00eb pengonin disa njer\u00ebz. Theksoj se pas sms-s\u00eb, vet\u00ebm qaja. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje, se jam n\u00eb merak. – Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,836],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-komunikoni-me-njeri-tjetrin-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8437"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8437\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}