{"id":8146,"date":"2015-03-05T13:00:50","date_gmt":"2015-03-05T12:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=8146"},"modified":"2015-03-05T13:47:43","modified_gmt":"2015-03-05T12:47:43","slug":"gjyste-vulaj-kur-i-them-vetes-shiko-si-je-bere-moj-dreq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/03\/gjyste-vulaj-kur-i-them-vetes-shiko-si-je-bere-moj-dreq\/","title":{"rendered":"Gjyste Vulaj: Kur i them vetes: \u201cShiko si je b\u00ebr\u00eb, moj dreq!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"gjyste\"<\/a>Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb femra q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk e ka vrar\u00eb mendjen t\u00eb ec\u00eb konform rregullave t\u00eb v\u00ebna nga shoq\u00ebria, p\u00ebrkundrazi, i ka p\u00ebrbuzur ato dhe \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e saj, gj\u00ebrat nuk i kan\u00eb ecur keq. Ia ka dal\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb krye, m\u00eb e k\u00ebrkuara n\u00eb koncertet brenda dhe jasht\u00eb vendit (me data t\u00eb z\u00ebna q\u00eb 6 muaj m\u00eb par\u00eb), m\u00eb e komentuara n\u00eb media sa p\u00ebr veshje-zhveshjet, t\u00eb qenit n\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht s\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn luksoze, por edhe p\u00ebr bamir\u00ebsin\u00eb, s\u00eb cil\u00ebs Gjystja i ka kushtuar gjithnj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb list\u00ebn e gj\u00ebrave p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto dhe t\u00eb tjera, k\u00ebng\u00ebtarja flet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb \u201cpa doreza\u201d, si personi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin do t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb flitet. Ndoshta kjo shpjegon dhe lidhjen e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb me fansat, q\u00eb e kan\u00eb Gjysten kaq \u201ct\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n

– Gjyste, ke kaq shum\u00eb publik, q\u00eb t\u00eb ka shum\u00eb p\u00ebr zem\u00ebr edhe pas kaq vitesh n\u00eb sken\u00eb\u2026 Mjaft t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendim fansat q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dhurata, t\u00eb d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb pusulla, lule, t\u00eb dedikojn\u00eb poezi\u2026 Si t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh e gjith\u00eb kjo?
\n– Un\u00eb i jam shum\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse publikut tim t\u00eb dashur pasi prej tij jam sot kjo Gjyste q\u00eb jam, jam n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Fansat e mi jan\u00eb rritur bashk\u00eb me mua, kan\u00eb ndjer\u00eb shpirtin tim n\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00ebt e mia, tekstet e t\u00eb cilave shpesh i shkruaj vet\u00eb, kan\u00eb gjetur veten aty e kjo pastaj sjell at\u00eb afeksionin p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin po flasim. \u00cbsht\u00eb reaksion i nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb, ata marrin dashuri e kjo dashuri m\u00eb kthehet po prap\u00eb mua, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb jepni vet\u00ebm dashuri, njer\u00ebz. \u00cbsht\u00eb e vetmja q\u00eb na bashkon, na b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, na b\u00ebn njer\u00ebz, mbi t\u00eb gjitha.
\n– Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb me koh\u00ebn… Ti, n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ke ndryshuar p\u00ebr mir\u00eb dhe n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb, p\u00ebr keq n\u00eb jet\u00eb?
\n– Un\u00eb them se njeriu n\u00eb thelb s\u2019ndryshon kurr\u00eb, por jeta na sprovon \u00e7do dit\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ndryshoj vet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ndryshoj me q\u00ebllim, dal nga binar\u00ebt q\u00eb tjetri ta kuptoj\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim, i b\u00ebhem pasqyr\u00eb. Koha na ndryshon dhe un\u00eb pajtohem me k\u00ebt\u00eb, pa marr\u00eb parasysh a kam ndryshuar p\u00ebr mir\u00eb a p\u00ebr keq. Kurr\u00eb s\u2019mundemi me qen\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me gjithk\u00ebnd.
\n– Cila faz\u00eb e jet\u00ebs t\u00eb duket e larg\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur sot?
\n– Momentet e jet\u00ebs q\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb bukura n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, kur kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb qejf si t\u00eb marr\u00eb me shoq\u00ebri, k\u00ebto raste i kujtoj me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, ndonj\u00eb rast kur kam b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb budallall\u00ebk t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, kuptohet, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur isha shum\u00eb e re. Sidomos m\u00eb b\u00ebn gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur faza e adoleshenc\u00ebs sepse b\u00ebja ato q\u00eb d\u00ebshiroja un\u00eb t\u00eb parat, nd\u00ebrsa harroja detyrat q\u00eb m\u2019i jepnin halla apo gjyshja. Kisha nj\u00eb kasetofon dhe gjith\u00eb dita m\u00eb kalonte duke d\u00ebgju muzik\u00eb e hall\u00ebn e pengonte ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kjo, se nuk e ndihmoja. Pastaj m\u00eb ndiqte me thup\u00ebr e un\u00eb i ikja me vrap. E ke parasysh, si ajo \u201ce nxuni macja miun\u201d. (Buz\u00ebqesh)
\n– N\u00eb pun\u00eb, ndihesh e rrethuar nga njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mir\u00eb apo nga inate, b\u00ebrryla dhe xhelozi?
\n– Profesioni m\u00eb ka sprovuar n\u00eb k\u00ebto situata sidomos n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb karrier\u00ebs. Tani mund t\u00eb rastis\u00eb, ama kam kujdes se me k\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunoj. N\u00ebse dikush m\u00eb ka inat, mua asgj\u00eb s\u2019m\u00eb b\u00ebn, ve\u00e7se i shkakton dhimbje e nervozitet vetes s\u00eb vet. Logjikisht, un\u00eb nuk mund ta di se kush ka xhelozi, inat apo \u00e7far\u00ebdolloj ndjesie tjet\u00ebr ndaj meje.
\n– Cilin prej koleg\u00ebve e admiron p\u00ebr vlerat artistike?
\n– Jan\u00eb mjaft, por po ceki Danin.
\n– P\u00ebr ty, injoranca m\u00eb e madhe q\u00ebndron n\u00eb faktin q\u00eb\u2026
\n– Dikush s\u2019e kupton kurr\u00eb realitetin.
\n– Sa ndikim ka patur mami te vajza? A po rritet edhe Roza, nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e guximshme dhe moskok\u00eb\u00e7ar\u00ebse si mami Gjystja?
\n– Mami \u00ebsht\u00eb moskok\u00eb\u00e7ar\u00ebse ndaj njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb send\u00ebrgjojn\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra p\u00ebr mu, ndaj atyre q\u00eb m\u00eb shpifen. Un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb moto: \u201cD\u00ebshira e lig\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve s\u2019mundet kurr\u00eb me t\u00eb njollos, as me t\u00eb ndryshu, ia kam frik\u00ebn ve\u00e7 Zotit\u201d. Mjafton q\u00eb jam e past\u00ebr nga ato paragjykimet e ca njer\u00ebzve dhe s\u2019\u00e7aj kok\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb flasin inatcinjt\u00eb. Roza \u00ebsht\u00eb e re akoma, akoma pyet mamin dhe babin p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb, ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahje t\u00eb fort\u00eb nga ne, ka besimin ton\u00eb, lirin\u00eb, edukat\u00ebn dhe nga k\u00ebto \u00ebsht\u00eb e q\u00ebndrueshme, vajz\u00eb e ndershme, e sjellshme. Jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb shamatohem me t\u00eb se edhe ajo, si mami kur ishte n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e saj, rri gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn me kufje n\u00eb vesh.
\n– Cilat jan\u00eb ato cil\u00ebsi q\u00eb mendon se e b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse?
\n– Mendoj q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb 60 % t\u00eb bukuris\u00eb, sy t\u00eb bukur t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb ve\u00e7 p\u00ebr me pa, por edhe p\u00ebr komunikim, q\u00ebndrimi, sjelljet, m\u00ebnyra se si komunikon, paraqitet, stili n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi\u2026 Duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe vet\u00ebbesim, prandaj edhe thon\u00eb: \u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur, por t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse\u201d. (Qesh)
\n– N\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishe nj\u00eb nga protagonistet e \u201cSex and the citty\u201d, cil\u00ebn do t\u00eb zgjidhje?
\n– S\u2019di, ndoshta asnj\u00ebr\u00ebn e ndoshta t\u00eb gjitha nga pak. (Buz\u00ebqesh)
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb mendon Gjystja p\u00ebr seksin?
\n– Seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr mua nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, ndjenj\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti t\u00eb dashuruar, q\u00eb s\u2019funksionon natyrsh\u00ebm pa t\u00eb.
\n– Fjal\u00ebt e pahijshme i p\u00ebrdor m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri apo n\u00eb krevat?
\n– Kur nervozohem. (Qesh)
\n– Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e shara m\u00eb e keqe q\u00eb mund t\u00eb thuash?
\n– Nuk e tregoj. (Qesh)
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb mendon p\u00ebr ato femra t\u00eb cilave u p\u00eblqen dhuna?
\n– No coment!
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb p\u00ebr ty fjala \u201ckatundare\u201d?
\n– K\u00ebt\u00eb fjal\u00eb e p\u00ebrdorin shum\u00eb shpesh dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb gabim! S\u2019mund t\u2019i thuash katundare nj\u00eb vajze q\u00eb lind e rritet n\u00eb qytet, sepse n\u00ebse s\u2019i punon ashensori, s\u2019di t\u00eb zbres\u00eb shkall\u00ebve pa ia zgjat dor\u00ebn mami. (Qesh) E p\u00ebrdorin njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb s\u2019din\u00eb se po fyejn\u00eb prejardhjen e vet, po fyejn\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr pun\u00ebtore, t\u00eb fort\u00eb, e cila n\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb kushteve p\u00ebr shkollim, e \u00e7on jet\u00ebn n\u00eb katund, pa marr\u00eb parasysh si nj\u00eb \u00e7obanesh\u00eb, nj\u00eb amvis\u00eb, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb, nj\u00eb gjyshe, nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr bujare etj. E p\u00ebrdorin gjoja p\u00ebr ato vajzat si dikur koh\u00ebve t\u00eb st\u00ebrgjysheve tona q\u00eb s\u2019kan\u00eb dal\u00eb jasht\u00eb katundit t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn e k\u00ebsisoj, jan\u00eb t\u00eb paemancipuara. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i thon\u00eb \u201cinjorante\u201d apo \u201cnaive\u201d dikujt q\u00eb duan ta shajn\u00eb, i thon\u00eb \u201ckatundare\u201d.
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb kujton nga \u00ebndrra e nj\u00eb nate m\u00eb par\u00eb? Beson n\u00eb dometh\u00ebnien e \u00ebndrrave?
\n– Shum\u00eb shpesh m\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb \u00ebndrrat dhe kur e shoh at\u00eb lloj \u00ebndrre, se tashm\u00eb e dalloj \u00ebndrr\u00ebn nga tjetra, e di 100% q\u00eb di\u00e7ka e keqe ka me ndodh dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019kam pas rast q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb ka tregu di\u00e7ka. Para ca koh\u00ebsh, pash\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, sikur isha n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb dhe pash\u00eb gjyshen e vjehrr\u00ebn, kur n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment nga pakujdesia ime i l\u00ebndoi syrin dhe m\u2019u duk se syri i saj pikonte nj\u00eb lloj uji dhe u shterr, mbeti pa sy. N\u00eb m\u00ebngjes ua tregova \u00ebndrr\u00ebn motr\u00ebs dhe Rozan\u00ebs, duke i porositur q\u00eb t\u2019i hapin syt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr djalin. N\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, un\u00eb kisha shfaqje dhe ato i lash\u00eb n\u00eb hotel me djalin. Kur u ktheva, Besi ishte g\u00ebrvisht mu af\u00ebr syrit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb karrige. Ndodh edhe q\u00eb shpesh e shoh t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn \u00ebnd\u00ebrr 3 her\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht \u00ebnd\u00ebrr.
\n– P\u00ebrdor m\u00eb shum\u00eb para kesh apo kart\u00eb krediti?
\n– T\u00eb dyja.
\n– Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb veshja m\u00eb e shtrenjt\u00eb q\u00eb ke n\u00eb gard\u00ebrob\u00eb?
\n– Uf, kam mjaft t\u00eb tilla, aksesor\u00ebt i kam m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb se fustanet, \u00e7antat i kam t\u00eb shtrenjta, tash i kam ble dy nga YSL. Sa p\u00ebr \u00e7mime, kujt i interesojn\u00eb modelet q\u00eb kam un\u00eb, i ka n\u00eb faqen zyrtare t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj firme.
\n– Nj\u00eb ngjarje p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrmendur n\u00eb avion, n\u00eb aeroport…
\n– \u00cbsht\u00eb e gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr ta treguar k\u00ebtu. (Qesh)
\n– Hera e fundit q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dukur vetja jo e bukur para pasqyr\u00ebs? Pse?
\n– Nga lodhja, t\u00eb rraskapiturit, pagjum\u00ebsia, i them vetes: \u201cShiko si je b\u00ebr\u00eb, moj dreq!\u201d. (Qesh)
\n– Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e ke th\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti ta ndash tani me ne?
\n– Po e l\u00ebm\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. (Buz\u00ebqesh)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb femra q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk e ka vrar\u00eb mendjen t\u00eb ec\u00eb konform rregullave t\u00eb v\u00ebna nga shoq\u00ebria, p\u00ebrkundrazi, i ka p\u00ebrbuzur ato dhe \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e saj, gj\u00ebrat nuk i kan\u00eb ecur keq. Ia ka dal\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb krye, m\u00eb e k\u00ebrkuara n\u00eb koncertet brenda dhe jasht\u00eb vendit (me data t\u00eb z\u00ebna […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":8148,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,415],"tags":[631],"class_list":["post-8146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-muzike","category-showbiz","tag-gjyste-vulaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8146"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8146\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}