N\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb martuar, pa dyshim, i njihni disa nga k\u00ebto probleme, por mund t\u00eb befasoheni kur t\u2019ju tregojm\u00eb se sa leht\u00eb mund t\u00eb zgjidhen ato…<\/p>\n
Problemi: Vjehrri dhe vjehrra
\nShkaku: Zakonisht, problemet lindin mes gruas dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb burrit. Specialist\u00ebt thon\u00eb se kjo ndodh ngaq\u00eb t\u00eb dyja grat\u00eb konkurrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen e burrit.
\nZgjidhja: Solidariteti \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsor p\u00ebr suksesin e nj\u00eb martese, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00e7ift duhet t\u00eb paraqiten si nj\u00eb front i bashkuar. Burri duhet t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb gruan e tij dhe mamaja duhet t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr mbar\u00ebvajtjen e \u00e7iftit.
\nProblemi: Parat\u00eb
\nShkaku: T\u00eb porsamartuarit, n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti, nuk din\u00eb si t\u00eb balancojn\u00eb lirin\u00eb dhe pushtetin q\u00eb sjellin parat\u00eb, me sigurin\u00eb dhe besimin q\u00eb ato duhet t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb.
\nZgjidhja: Planifikoni pun\u00ebn si nj\u00eb ekip. Vendosni q\u00ebllimet tuaja si \u00e7ift (sht\u00ebpi, universiteti i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, makin\u00eb, sht\u00ebpi pushimesh, pension) dhe rishikojini ato rregullisht. Hapni nj\u00eb llogari t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt bankare p\u00ebr t\u00eb menaxhuar k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra dhe depozitoni 90% t\u00eb pag\u00ebs suaj aty. Pastaj, hapni nj\u00eb llogari m\u00eb vete p\u00ebr 10% e mbetur t\u00eb pag\u00ebs. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb para personale, q\u00eb secili mund t’i shpenzoj\u00eb ashtu si d\u00ebshiron, pa i b\u00ebr\u00eb pyetje tjetrit.
\nProblemi: Pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb
\nShkaku: Sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb Universitetit t\u00eb Mi\u00e7iganit, p\u00ebr familjet amerikane, martesa i sjell gruas 7 or\u00eb pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie ekstra n\u00eb jav\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa burrit i kursen nj\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb. Problemet lindin n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pabarazi. Grat\u00eb e ndjejn\u00eb veten t\u00eb pamb\u00ebshtetura nga burri, kur ky i fundit nuk derdh plehrat dhe nuk merr pjes\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e tjera t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Burrat ndjekin modelin me t\u00eb cilin jan\u00eb rritur. N\u00ebse ata jan\u00eb rritur n\u00eb familje tradicionale, ku babai b\u00ebnte pun\u00ebt e r\u00ebnda dhe nuk b\u00ebnte gj\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ata derdhin vet\u00ebm plehrat, rregullojn\u00eb ndonj\u00eb der\u00eb t\u00eb prishur dhe mendojn\u00eb se i kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pun\u00ebt q\u00eb u takojn\u00eb.
\nZgjidhja: Tregojini burrit sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju q\u00eb ai t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie, si edhe ta mbaj\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb t\u00eb past\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb rregullt. Pastaj, thuajini se, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb burrat e ndihmojn\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorten e tyre, aq m\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqshme \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e tyre seksuale…
\nProblemi: F\u00ebmij\u00ebt
\nShkaku: Grat\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb pun\u00ebs p\u00ebr mbajtjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, ja p\u00ebrse 70% e grave jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura n\u00eb \u00e7ift, pas lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.
\nZgjidhja: P\u00ebrballuni me realitetin! Jeta pa kok\u00eb\u00e7arje q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqente m\u00eb par\u00eb, ka marr\u00eb fund. Ju nuk mund t\u00eb dilni m\u00eb t\u00eb dy nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht dhe ta kaloni gjith\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjen me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. Ju t\u00eb dy duhet t\u00eb ndani p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb ushqyerit, nd\u00ebrrimit dhe larjes, jo vet\u00ebm koh\u00ebn e loj\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljeve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj.
\nProblemi: Seksi
\nShkaku: Tre muaj pas muajit t\u00eb mjaltit pasionant, ju e kuptoni se d\u00ebshira juaj seksuale nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin sa kishit menduar. Meq\u00eb seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb kaq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u diskutuar, k\u00ebrkesat e shpeshta p\u00ebr seks mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhen bezdis\u00ebse, nd\u00ebrsa d\u00ebshirat e paplot\u00ebsuara, t\u00eb perceptohen si mosp\u00eblqime.
\nZgjidhja: Besimi \u00ebsht\u00eb loja paraprake m\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Ai t\u00eb lejon t\u00eb jesh i hapur dhe i sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr ndjenjat e d\u00ebshirat e tua, pa pasur frik\u00eb se mos dukesh qesharak, apo se e l\u00ebndon tjetrin. Flisni hapur dhe shpesh p\u00ebr nevojat tuaja emocionale dhe d\u00ebshirat seksuale. B\u00ebni nj\u00eb loj\u00eb: Secili prej jush t\u00eb shkruaj\u00eb pes\u00eb d\u00ebshira sekrete (seksuale ose jo). <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb martuar, pa dyshim, i njihni disa nga k\u00ebto probleme, por mund t\u00eb befasoheni kur t\u2019ju tregojm\u00eb se sa leht\u00eb mund t\u00eb zgjidhen ato… Problemi: Vjehrri dhe vjehrra Shkaku: Zakonisht, problemet lindin mes gruas dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb burrit. Specialist\u00ebt thon\u00eb se kjo ndodh ngaq\u00eb t\u00eb dyja grat\u00eb konkurrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen e burrit. Zgjidhja: […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8083","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8083","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8083"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8083\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}