Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb fare t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i deklarojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tyre njeriut q\u00eb kan\u00eb zgjedhur, por disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb shkath\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ushtrim stili dhe spontaneiteti. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb duan t\u00eb marrin deklarata dashurie, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka krejt tjet\u00ebr! Si t\u2019u jap\u00ebsh fjal\u00ebve \u00abt\u00eb dua\u00bb gjith\u00eb shijen e tyre, p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr vete zemr\u00ebn e personit tjet\u00ebr? P\u00ebr t\u2019jua leht\u00ebsuar pun\u00ebn, ne kemi zgjedhur p\u00ebr ju 5 skenar\u00eb t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm…<\/p>\n
Deklarat\u00eb dashurie dhe fantazi
\nKush nuk ka \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb ose t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb dashurie n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb eg\u00ebr dhe spontane, di\u00e7ka mes fantazis\u00eb dhe realitetit? N\u00eb kthim nga nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtitje, t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur t\u00eb dy pas port\u00ebs, me buz\u00ebt e bashkuara n\u00eb nj\u00eb puthje t\u00eb zjarrt\u00eb… Deklarimi i dashuris\u00eb me nj\u00eb intensitet t\u00eb \u00e7mendur \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e fantazive t\u00eb gjith\u00ebsecilit dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb donin ta b\u00ebnin realitet. Vendi nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, por n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i pazakont\u00eb: N\u00eb metro, ashensor, n\u00eb pist\u00ebn e skive, n\u00eb nj\u00eb koncert… Gjith\u00e7ka luhet nga efekti surpriz\u00eb dhe intensiteti i pasionit.<\/p>\n
Deklarat\u00eb me pompozitet
\nNj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi tjet\u00ebr, nj\u00eb parap\u00ebrgatitje e madhe! Si burrat, ashtu edhe grat\u00eb, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb plan p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebrat si duhet dhe p\u00ebr ta befasuar tjetrin me klas. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tip deklarate, luhet me efektin spektakolar, v\u00ebnien n\u00eb sken\u00eb. Nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb prej t\u00eb dashuruarish, rezervuar prej koh\u00ebsh, nj\u00eb restorant i paralajm\u00ebruar, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin luhet muzika e preferuar e \u00e7iftit, nj\u00eb dark\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb mbase me nj\u00eb unaz\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb got\u00ebs me shampanj\u00eb dhe ku shpresohet nj\u00eb \u00abpo\u00bb e madhe! Kemi par\u00eb n\u00eb internet edhe propozime t\u00eb filmuara, t\u00eb shoq\u00ebruara me muzik\u00eb, balerin\u00eb, ku ka qen\u00eb ftuar familja, apo shoq\u00ebria, propozime me banderola t\u00eb lidhura pas aeroplan\u00ebve, etj. Mund\u00ebsit\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pafundme!<\/p>\n
Deklarat\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme
\nMegjithat\u00eb, deklarimi i dashuris\u00eb nuk ka pse b\u00ebhet patjet\u00ebr me p\u00ebrgatitje paraprake dhe me shpenzime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Edhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, me an\u00eb t\u00eb gjesteve t\u00eb vogla e p\u00ebrkujdesjeve, mund t\u2019i tregosh tjetrit se e do, t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh dashuris\u00eb edhe sigurin\u00eb, nj\u00eb premtim p\u00ebr p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsi. Lule, nj\u00eb dark\u00eb me qirinj, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje, fjal\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebmbla, t\u00eb p\u00ebrshp\u00ebritura n\u00eb vesh, nj\u00eb banjo me uj\u00eb t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb, e shoq\u00ebruar me qirinj. Edhe m\u00eb pak krijuesit nd\u00ebr ne mund t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb ide t\u00eb realizueshme dhe pa shpenzime. Jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e vogla q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tjetrit n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme. Sigurisht, nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb pompoze \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur, por n\u00ebse ngelemi vet\u00ebm tek ajo, at\u00ebhere \u00e7ifti fillon t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet…<\/p>\n
Deklarat\u00eb me shkrim
\nShkruajini letra pas letrash, sipas m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs s\u00eb Sharl Bodlerit. Kjo korrespondenc\u00eb do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtin dhe mendjen e tjetrit. Nj\u00eb let\u00ebr dashurie \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prov\u00eb pothuajse e pashkat\u00ebrrueshme, nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi q\u00eb t\u00eb prek n\u00eb thell\u00ebsi t\u00eb shpirtit. Nuk themi ne q\u00eb fjal\u00ebt i merr era, nd\u00ebrsa gj\u00ebrat e shkruara jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb mbeten?<\/p>\n
Deklarat\u00eb me vepra
\nJeni n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhjeje, ose edhe me tutje, por e dini se personi q\u00eb keni zgjedhur \u00ebsht\u00eb ai e duhuri? Ju doni t\u2019i deklaroni atij\/asaj dashurin\u00eb tuaj pa fjal\u00eb, por me vepra? Prezantojini familjen tuaj! Ku ka gj\u00eb m\u00eb simbolike sesa ta presin n\u00eb gjirin e vatr\u00ebs q\u00eb ju ka lindur e rritur?! Nj\u00eb nism\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb se fjal\u00ebt dhe q\u00eb provon se ju e keni seriozisht me t\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb fare t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i deklarojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tyre njeriut q\u00eb kan\u00eb zgjedhur, por disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb shkath\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ushtrim stili dhe spontaneiteti. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb duan t\u00eb marrin deklarata dashurie, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka krejt tjet\u00ebr! Si t\u2019u jap\u00ebsh fjal\u00ebve \u00abt\u00eb dua\u00bb gjith\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":8081,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-shendet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8080"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8080\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}