{"id":8000,"date":"2015-02-24T11:31:54","date_gmt":"2015-02-24T10:31:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=8000"},"modified":"2015-02-24T11:31:54","modified_gmt":"2015-02-24T10:31:54","slug":"prinderit-nuk-ma-donin-se-ishte-nga-veriu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/02\/prinderit-nuk-ma-donin-se-ishte-nga-veriu\/","title":{"rendered":"Prind\u00ebrit nuk ma donin se ishte nga Veriu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kjo q\u00eb po ju shkruaj \u00ebsht\u00eb historia ime dhe atij njeriu q\u00eb para disa koh\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti im. E dua shum\u00eb, jam tep\u00ebr e lumtur me t\u00eb dhe dua q\u00eb e gjith\u00eb bota ta dij\u00eb se dashuria i kap\u00ebrcen paragjykimet.<br \/>\nErjonin e njoha dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb e pun\u00ebs sime n\u00eb nj\u00eb kop\u00ebsht privat. M\u00eb ra menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb sy ky djal\u00eb q\u00eb kishte v\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb kapele sportive, kishte veshur pantallona t\u00eb shkurtra dhe mbante n\u00eb dor\u00eb nj\u00eb top basketbolli. Isha futur n\u00eb oborrin e kop\u00ebshtit dhe nuk e dija se ai q\u00eb shihja aty do t\u00eb ishte shefi im. Ai m\u00eb injoroi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kohe dhe m\u00eb pas m\u00eb pyeti me nj\u00eb ton paksa arrogant:<br \/>\n\u201cTi je koordinatorja e programit?\u201d.<br \/>\nKjo shprehje dhe v\u00ebshtrimi i tij m\u00eb inatos\u00ebn. \u201cKush kujton ky se \u00ebsht\u00eb?\u201d, mendova me vete.<br \/>\nKjo ishte p\u00ebrshtypja ime e par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. M\u2019u duk nj\u00eb person t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs fizikisht, por arrogant. Gjat\u00eb asaj kohe as q\u00eb m\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb mendje se do t\u00eb lidhesha me at\u00eb djal\u00eb. Ai vinte nga Veriu i vendit, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb nga Jugu dhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e mi do t\u00eb ishte e paimagjinueshme nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e till\u00eb.<br \/>\nNd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb nuk kisha qen\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb Veri dhe nuk e kisha fare iden\u00eb se si mund t\u00eb ishin verior\u00ebt. Kisha pasur disa persona nga Veriu n\u00eb klas\u00eb gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb isha studente, por nuk kisha mundur t\u00eb lidhja shoq\u00ebri me ta dhe p\u00ebr rrjedhoj\u00eb, nuk kisha krijuar ndonj\u00eb ide p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn e tyre.<br \/>\nPor gjith\u00e7ka ndryshoi kur takova Erjonin. Gjat\u00eb asaj kohe as q\u00eb m\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb mendje t\u00eb lidhesha me ndonj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe aq m\u00eb pak me shefin tim. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs nisi t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebnte p\u00ebrshtypje thell\u00ebsia e mendimit dhe mir\u00ebkuptimi i tij, megjith\u00ebse vazhdonte t\u00eb m\u2019i ngrinte nervat m\u00ebnyra e tij arrogante e komunikimit.<br \/>\nNj\u00eb dit\u00eb n\u00eb zyr\u00eb u zum\u00eb aq keq sa i b\u00ebrtita duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb gjente nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr koordinatore. Pas disa or\u00ebsh mora prej tij nj\u00eb SMS ku m\u00eb thoshte se ne t\u00eb dy ishim shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm dhe se at\u00eb do ta merrte malli p\u00ebr mua n\u00ebse do t\u00eb largohesha.<br \/>\nAi mesazh m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb dridhesha. E lexova me qindra her\u00eb dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund ia pohova vetes se edhe mua do t\u00eb m\u00eb merrte malli p\u00ebr t\u00eb&#8230;<br \/>\nK\u00ebshtu, u riktheva n\u00eb pun\u00eb. P\u00ebr muaj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00ebm e v\u00ebshtroja vjedhurazi n\u00ebp\u00ebr mbledhje, gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb ai nuk e kishte mendjen. Hera e par\u00eb kur na u desh t\u00eb q\u00ebndronim vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit ishte ajo kur shkuam p\u00ebr nj\u00eb trajnim jasht\u00eb shtetit. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs vrisja mendjen se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb flisnim me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe ndihesha shum\u00eb n\u00eb siklet&#8230; por, ai b\u00ebri nj\u00eb gjest q\u00eb m\u2019u duk sa f\u00ebminor, aq edhe i ngroht\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa prisnim n\u00eb aeroport, ai erdhi pran\u00eb meje dhe m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi ta vinte kok\u00ebn n\u00eb preh\u00ebrin tim. N\u00eb at\u00eb pozicion e zuri gjumi. Isha e habitur, por edhe e lumtur n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb.<br \/>\nDisa dit\u00eb m\u00eb pas u puth\u00ebm p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb mos pasur telashe, vendos\u00ebm q\u00eb ta mbanim fillimisht sekrete lidhjen ton\u00eb. Takoheshim pothuajse \u00e7do mbr\u00ebmje n\u00eb apartamentin e tij, duke qen\u00eb se ai nuk jetonte me prind\u00ebrit. Un\u00eb kisha qen\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e hapur, ndaj edhe var\u00ebsia ndaj Erjonit m\u00eb b\u00ebri paksa t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr, me t\u00eb n\u00eb krah e ndjeja se mund t\u00eb b\u00ebja gjith\u00e7ka.<br \/>\nDy muaj m\u00eb von\u00eb ai m\u00eb propozoi p\u00ebr martes\u00eb. Ai e dinte q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jon\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb vazhdonte pa v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni prind\u00ebrit. K\u00ebshtu, un\u00eb vendosa t\u2019i thosha familjes sime duke menduar se kur t\u2019u tregoja se sa shum\u00eb e doja, ata do ta pranonin lidhjen ton\u00eb, por babai im refuzoi t\u00eb flisnim p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshjte. Ai mendoi se ndoshta gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb kalonte me koh\u00ebn, por kur e pa q\u00eb nuk ishte k\u00ebshtu, m\u00eb tha se nuk m\u00eb ndalonte dot, por se nuk do t\u00eb ma jepte bekimin e tij.<br \/>\nUn\u00eb e respektoja shum\u00eb babain tim, por edhe Erjonin e doja me gjith\u00eb shpirt, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb vendosa ta vazhdoja lidhjen. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs ne ndiheshim akoma m\u00eb mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. \u00c7do dit\u00eb zbulonim gj\u00ebra t\u00eb reja e t\u00eb bukura. Familjet tona ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuara, por ne vazhduam t\u00eb dashuroheshim.<br \/>\nNdoshta ishte kjo arsyeja p\u00ebrse ata i \u201cdor\u00ebzuan arm\u00ebt\u201d. Babai im k\u00ebrkoi q\u00eb ta takomte Drinin. Kur e pa vet\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb djali ishte ai, i dha dor\u00ebn dhe i uroi mir\u00ebseardhjen n\u00eb familje. Ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nga momentet m\u00eb emocionuese t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime. Mbaj mend q\u00eb kam qar\u00eb shum\u00eb.<br \/>\nDita e dasm\u00ebs ishte madh\u00ebshtore dhe mahnit\u00ebse. Kam par\u00eb se si, pavar\u00ebsisht nga ndryshimet, dy familje po lidheshin nga ndjenja m\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb, dashuria.<br \/>\nTashm\u00eb un\u00eb jetoj me Drinin n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe presim f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, q\u00eb e presim si nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb q\u00eb na e b\u00ebri Zoti p\u00ebr v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb kemi kaluar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kjo q\u00eb po ju shkruaj \u00ebsht\u00eb historia ime dhe atij njeriu q\u00eb para disa koh\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti im. E dua shum\u00eb, jam tep\u00ebr e lumtur me t\u00eb dhe dua q\u00eb e gjith\u00eb bota ta dij\u00eb se dashuria i kap\u00ebrcen paragjykimet. Erjonin e njoha dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb e pun\u00ebs sime n\u00eb nj\u00eb kop\u00ebsht privat. 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