– Kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj… Si ta kuptoj q\u00eb partneri im ka prirje homoseksualizmi ose biseksualizmi? Faleminderit.
\n– Pyetja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e nd\u00ebrlikuar… Pse e them k\u00ebt\u00eb? Sepse askush tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 jush, nuk mund ta kuptoj\u00eb n\u00ebse partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb homoseksual apo biseksual. P\u00ebrgjigjen tjet\u00ebr mund ta gjeni nga nj\u00eb psikolog, i cili duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb disa pyetje partnerit tuaj, do t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb prirjen e tij. Edhe ju mund t\u2019i b\u00ebni nj\u00eb lloj testi, pa e kuptuar ai. Provokojeni me pyetje t\u00eb tipit: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb e t\u00ebrheq te nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, po te nj\u00eb mashkull? T\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebsh marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie intime me t\u00eb dyja gjinit\u00eb?\u201d. K\u00ebto, sigurisht, b\u00ebjani n\u00eb form\u00eb shakaje sepse mund t\u00eb ofendohet dhe t\u00eb merrni p\u00ebrgjigje q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju l\u00ebndojn\u00eb. Ose shoq\u00ebrohuni sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb me t\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb duke pasur pran\u00eb edhe shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj dhe shikoni me v\u00ebmendje sjelljen e tij si ndaj meshkujve, ashtu edhe ndaj femrave. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00ebse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb me ju, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e t\u00ebrheq te ju, pra, pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb konfirmohet n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb homoseksual apo biseksual. E keni ju n\u00eb dor\u00eb ta v\u00ebrtetoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb, pa u b\u00ebr\u00eb me fiksime n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje…
\n– Jam 28 vje\u00e7e, nuk kam pasur kurr\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me nj\u00eb mashkull dhe ky q\u00eb kam \u00ebsht\u00eb burri i par\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. U b\u00ebn\u00eb gati 7 muaj q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb seks dhe un\u00eb nuk arrij asnj\u00eb lloj k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie, nd\u00ebrsa ai arrin n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur. A do t\u00eb arrij un\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb eksitohem e t\u00eb ndjej k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi si t\u00eb gjitha femrat e tjera? Theksoj q\u00eb e dua partnerin tim.
\n– R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb ju e doni partnerin tuaj, t\u00eb tjerat rregullohen me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. Nuk jeni ju e vetmja fem\u00ebr q\u00eb e vuani k\u00ebt\u00eb problem, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr mosha juaj, e cila nuk ka pasur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale, pa eksperienc\u00eb, do ta ket\u00eb pak m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb seksuale. Do t\u2019ju sugjeroja t\u00eb lexoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth temave seksuale, t\u00eb shihni edhe filma erotik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb masturboheni vet\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zbuloni pikat tuaja t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do t\u2019i zbuloni, mund t\u2019ia thoni dhe partnerit tuaj dhe t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb ta arrini edhe ju k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb seksuale, si\u00e7 e arrin ai. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb nuk keni probleme sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, t\u00eb tjerat rregullohen, vet\u00ebm ruani qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe mos u b\u00ebni me ankth kur b\u00ebni dashuri. Flisni hapur me partnerin dhe hapni edhe tema erotike; kjo gj\u00eb do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb shum\u00eb.
\n– Un\u00eb kam dy vjet pa b\u00ebr\u00eb seks. A ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ngjaj si e virgj\u00ebr tani, pas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe?
\n– Nuk mund t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e virgj\u00ebr, edhe pse keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk keni b\u00ebr\u00eb seks. Kur himeni prishet, ai nuk kthehet m\u00eb si\u00e7 ka qen\u00eb. Thjesht, organi juaj seksual mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb mbyllur pak, por ai \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb elastik, si ndaj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, ashtu edhe gjat\u00eb lindjes. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb kur t\u00eb rifilloni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale, preludi i dashuris\u00eb, pra, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet, t\u00eb jen\u00eb pak m\u00eb t\u00eb gjata se her\u00ebt e tjera, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb muskujt e vagin\u00ebs t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen dhe t\u00eb keni lubrifikimin e duhur gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj… Si ta kuptoj q\u00eb partneri im ka prirje homoseksualizmi ose biseksualizmi? Faleminderit. – Pyetja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e nd\u00ebrlikuar… Pse e them k\u00ebt\u00eb? Sepse askush tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 jush, nuk mund ta kuptoj\u00eb n\u00ebse partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb homoseksual apo biseksual. P\u00ebrgjigjen tjet\u00ebr mund ta gjeni nga nj\u00eb psikolog, i cili […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7919"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7919\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}