– E lexoj shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb rubrik\u00eb dhe doja nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb. Jam vet\u00ebm 18 vje\u00e7 dhe jam i lidhur me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, prej nj\u00eb viti tashm\u00eb. Her\u00ebn e fundit q\u00eb b\u00ebm\u00eb dashuri, e b\u00ebm\u00eb pa mbrojtje dhe ajo ka ngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb siklet t\u00eb papar\u00eb, sepse ajo d\u00ebshiron ta mbaj\u00eb, edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm 16 vje\u00e7e. Un\u00eb e dua k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb, por nuk di si t\u00eb veproj, kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb. A t\u2019i them familjes? Nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj. Ju, \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb thoni, zoti psikolog?
\nBorana Marku, psikologe: – I nderuar 18 vje\u00e7ar, e kuptoj shqet\u00ebsimin dhe frik\u00ebn tuaj, e cila ka lidhje edhe me mosh\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb re, edhe me faktin q\u00eb nuk ndiheni t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr ardhjen e k\u00ebtij f\u00ebmije. Duhet t\u00eb dini ama se ardhja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije n\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje e mrekullueshme, por edhe nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi mjaft e madhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e tij. Un\u00eb e kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb mosha juaj shum\u00eb e re dhe mungesa e eksperiencave, nuk do t\u2019ju lejonte q\u00eb ta vler\u00ebsonit me kujdes k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb, ndaj n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, do t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloja t\u00eb bisedonit me prind\u00ebrit tuaj dhe vajza t\u00eb bisedoj\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit e saj. Ata do t\u00eb jen\u00eb p\u00ebr ju orientuesit m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe besoj se do t\u2019ju leht\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga ky siklet q\u00eb ju ka z\u00ebn\u00eb. Ju keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb bisedoni me prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb arrini n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Ndoshta mund t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjen ashp\u00ebr, ndoshta do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb krejt e kund\u00ebrta dhe do t\u2019ju mb\u00ebshtesin, por gjithsesi, vendimin do ta merrni vet\u00ebm pasi t\u00eb bisedoni me prind\u00ebrit. N\u00eb k\u00ebto momente, ata jan\u00eb orientuesit dhe k\u00ebshilluesit tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Uroj t\u00eb b\u00ebni zgjidhjen e duhur dhe t\u00eb mos d\u00ebmtoheni as ju, as e ardhmja juaj. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– E lexoj shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb rubrik\u00eb dhe doja nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb. Jam vet\u00ebm 18 vje\u00e7 dhe jam i lidhur me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, prej nj\u00eb viti tashm\u00eb. Her\u00ebn e fundit q\u00eb b\u00ebm\u00eb dashuri, e b\u00ebm\u00eb pa mbrojtje dhe ajo ka ngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb siklet t\u00eb papar\u00eb, sepse ajo d\u00ebshiron ta mbaj\u00eb, edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7680"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7680\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}