– Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 27 vje\u00e7e, nga Tirana. Para pak koh\u00ebsh kam kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Jam e shqet\u00ebsuar sepse nuk pata hemorragji, vet\u00ebm enjtje, pak dhimbje dhe djegie. Un\u00eb dua t\u00eb di, a \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo? P\u00ebrse ndodhi k\u00ebshtu me mua? A \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb kryhet penetrimi plot\u00ebsisht q\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb? Pres me padurim p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj se po \u00e7mendem. Ky fakt m\u00eb ka krijuar shum\u00eb probleme me t\u00eb dashurin tim. Me respekt, Mira.
\nDr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog: – \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb se normale ajo q\u00eb ju ka ndodhur, kur kryhet marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb kam shkruar edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb, megjithat\u00eb, po i p\u00ebrs\u00ebris k\u00ebto informacione. Vagina, n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e saj, ka nj\u00eb formacion t\u00eb holl\u00eb si perde q\u00eb quhet himen. Ky himen \u00ebsht\u00eb i formave t\u00eb ndryshme dhe, n\u00eb aktin e par\u00eb seksual, mund t\u00eb \u00e7ahet, gj\u00eb q\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet me ato shenja q\u00eb keni patur edhe ju. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, themi se himeni \u00ebsht\u00eb i defloruar. Megjithat\u00eb, kjo gjendje \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar mendime apo hipoteza t\u00eb ndryshme. Jo gjithmon\u00eb femrat kan\u00eb hemorragji gjat\u00eb penetrimit, por kan\u00eb vet\u00ebm ato shenja q\u00eb keni pasur edhe ju; dhimbje, enjtje dhe djegie. K\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb mund t\u2019ia b\u00ebni t\u00eb ditur edhe t\u00eb dashurit tuaj. Para shum\u00eb vitesh, n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie shum\u00eb konservative, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale ka marr\u00eb nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb besnik\u00ebrin\u00eb e \u00e7iftit n\u00eb aktin e par\u00eb seksual. Me kalimin e viteve apo n\u00eb dit\u00ebt q\u00eb ne jetojm\u00eb, r\u00ebnd\u00ebsia e deflorimit t\u00eb himenit ka filluar t\u00eb bjer\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb hapur, ku flitet shum\u00eb p\u00ebr seksin dhe pasojat q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale, p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si t\u00eb mbrohemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar k\u00ebto pasoja, problemi i deflorimit t\u00eb himenit ka r\u00ebn\u00eb. N\u00eb zonat urbane, gjat\u00eb pyet\u00ebsor\u00ebve t\u00eb realizuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb konstatuar q\u00eb 70% e meshkujve nuk i japin r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse himeni \u00ebsht\u00eb i defloruar apo i padefloruar. \u201cN\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie n\u00eb \u00e7ift \u00ebsht\u00eb e d\u00ebshiruar s\u2019ka pse t\u00eb b\u00ebhet himeni shkaktar p\u00ebr prishjen e k\u00ebsaj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje\u201d, thon\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e zonave urbane. Akoma vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb problem p\u00ebr zonat rurale, ku shum\u00eb femra e kan\u00eb problem deri n\u00eb nj\u00eb stres, deflorimin e himenit. Megjithat\u00eb, nga vet\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimi i himenit, kemi nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje jo t\u00eb pak\u00ebt t\u00eb rasteve q\u00eb akti i par\u00eb seksual nuk shkakton k\u00ebt\u00eb moment t\u00eb \u201cfamsh\u00ebm\u201d gjakderdhjeje. Sidoqoft\u00eb, i dashuri juaj nuk mund t\u2019ju akuzoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mossinqeritet, sepse ju hyni te rastet e atyre femrave q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb himen q\u00eb deflorohet pa pasur gjakderdhje. Uroj q\u00eb i dashuri juaj t\u2019ju kuptoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ket\u00eb besim n\u00eb sinqeritetin tuaj. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 27 vje\u00e7e, nga Tirana. Para pak koh\u00ebsh kam kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Jam e shqet\u00ebsuar sepse nuk pata hemorragji, vet\u00ebm enjtje, pak dhimbje dhe djegie. Un\u00eb dua t\u00eb di, a \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo? P\u00ebrse ndodhi k\u00ebshtu me mua? A \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7490","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7490"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7490\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7490"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7490"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7490"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}