– I nderuar Dr. Demiri, kam lexuar para shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh librin tuaj \u201cEdukata seksuale\u201d, mbi 300 faqe, t\u00eb cilin e kam quajtur si \u201cvaksinim\u201d p\u00ebr vete e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. Jam pedagog, dua t\u00eb jem realist dhe m\u00eb vjen mir\u00eb q\u00eb ju diskutoni lirisht p\u00ebr \u00e7do \u00e7\u00ebshtje psikologjike, pa p\u00ebrjashtuar edhe ato seksuale. Kam lexuar te Frojdi p\u00ebr d\u00ebmet q\u00eb sjell ndrydhja e instikteve dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7lirimin e tyre t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm. Si mendoni ju, a shkakton neuroz\u00eb ndrydhja e d\u00ebshirave seksuale?
\nJashar Demiri, psikolog: – Frojdi, q\u00ebkur ishte mjek i ri, \u00e7uditi mjedisin akademik t\u00eb koh\u00ebs me q\u00ebndrimin realist lidhur me ndrydhjen e instikteve. Ai mbajti nj\u00eb leksion diagnostikues mbi psikozat dhe prejardhjen e tyre e, me nj\u00eb qet\u00ebsi e natyrshm\u00ebri t\u00eb spikatur, provoi se nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e neurozave (pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha), vijn\u00eb nga ndrydhja e d\u00ebshirave seksuale. Un\u00eb nuk e kund\u00ebrshtoj k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, pasi edhe n\u00eb librin tim, q\u00eb ju e paskeni lexuar, kam shkruar edhe p\u00ebr rolin e seksit n\u00eb ekuilibrin e individit. Ai, Arkitekti (po deshe thuaj, Krijuesi) e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb me shum\u00eb men\u00e7uri. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse vejushat plaken para kohe ose s\u00ebmuren m\u00eb shpesh. Seksi i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebndet e jo vet\u00ebm k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb antistres natyral i paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm, ashtu si\u00e7 kan\u00eb vlerat e veta edhe orgazmat, lindja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr femrat etj. Gjithsesi, un\u00eb nuk jam p\u00ebr iden\u00eb e seksit pa \u201cfrena\u201d e pa rregulla, pasi \u201cturbina\u201d e seksit do t\u2019i gllab\u00ebronte njeriut tep\u00ebr energji t\u00eb cilat i duhen atij p\u00ebr mir\u00ebfunksionimin e tij si qenie biologjike e shoq\u00ebrore. Un\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj shum\u00eb edhe sublimimin, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, harxhimin e energjive p\u00ebr pun\u00eb e veprimtari t\u00eb dobishme, por pa e tepruar. Nuk jam p\u00ebr tejskaje! Njeriu nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb makin\u00eb dhe natyrshm\u00ebria e ndjenjave duhet respektuar. N\u00eb pun\u00ebn time me klientet e shumta, gjat\u00eb seancave, kam par\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e shpesht\u00eb lindja e neurozave p\u00ebr shkaqe seksuale dhe i kam sh\u00ebruar ato, bazuar edhe n\u00eb psikoanaliz\u00ebn e Frojdit dhe n\u00eb hipnoterapi. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb shum\u00eb e gjer\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019mund ta japim aq t\u00eb plot\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje gazete. Mjafton t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendim nj\u00eb shembull; nj\u00eb studiues i huaj, ka argumentuar se gjat\u00eb analiz\u00ebs s\u00eb 700 rasteve t\u00eb vet\u00ebvrasjeve, 68 % e tyre, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb 476, ishin shkaktuar nga konflikte mbi tabanin seksual. Lexojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb faqen 219 t\u00eb librit tim dhe gjykojeni edhe vet\u00eb. Presupozohet se sikur t\u00eb vet\u00ebvrar\u00ebt t\u00eb kishin k\u00ebrkuar n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur ndihm\u00ebn e psikologut, k\u00ebto drama t\u00eb r\u00ebnda do t\u00eb ishin shmangur n\u00eb mas\u00ebn mbi 80%, pra, nga 700 t\u00eb vet\u00ebvrar\u00eb, rreth 600 do t\u00eb ishin gjall\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– I nderuar Dr. Demiri, kam lexuar para shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh librin tuaj \u201cEdukata seksuale\u201d, mbi 300 faqe, t\u00eb cilin e kam quajtur si \u201cvaksinim\u201d p\u00ebr vete e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. Jam pedagog, dua t\u00eb jem realist dhe m\u00eb vjen mir\u00eb q\u00eb ju diskutoni lirisht p\u00ebr \u00e7do \u00e7\u00ebshtje psikologjike, pa p\u00ebrjashtuar edhe ato seksuale. Kam lexuar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7487","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7487","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7487"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7487\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}