– I nderuar Dr. Demiri, kam humbur gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb bixhoz… parat\u00eb, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, gruan e cila m\u00eb divorcoi e mezi po e mbaj nj\u00eb pun\u00eb shteti. Lidhjet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb jan\u00eb zbehur shum\u00eb. Shok\u00ebt e ngusht\u00eb, q\u00eb dikur m\u00eb donin, m\u00eb shohin plot keqardhje e m\u00eb duket sikur thon\u00eb: \u201cJa, ky i shkreti, q\u00eb mbeti si ai kokoshi pa pupla!\u201d. Mbase kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb edhe t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb: \u201cJa, ky budallai, ky \u201ckrapi\u201d q\u00eb e \u201ch\u00ebngri\u201d t\u00eb gjall\u00eb ruleta\u201d. M\u00eb din\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb men\u00e7ur aq sa s\u2019u besohet q\u00eb t\u00eb jem un\u00eb ai. Bixhozi m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb fiksim, ankth. Kisha vendosur t\u00eb mos luaja m\u00eb kurr\u00eb, por u josha dhe vura \u201cbast\u201d t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb para ndeshjes Holland\u00eb-Rusi, tep\u00ebr i bindur se fitonte Hollanda e cila na u katandis p\u00ebrpara Rusis\u00eb, si ndonj\u00eb skuad\u00ebr fshati. Ndoshta ishte nj\u00eb \u201cgrack\u00eb\u201d. Pas \u201ccirkut\u201d q\u00eb Rusia i b\u00ebri Holland\u00ebs, un\u00eb humba nj\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb paimagjinuar parash. Tani, \u00e7do gj\u00eb m\u00eb duket e kot\u00eb e them me vete: \u201cInshallah ma merr jet\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb aksident!\u201d. Megjithat\u00eb, jam i gjall\u00eb, por s\u2019di nga t\u2019ia filloj jet\u00ebs se m\u00eb rr\u00ebnoi bixhozi, kam humbur shum\u00eb, shum\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni t\u00eb b\u00ebj?
\nJashar Demiri, psikolog: – Keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr psikoterapi me \u201cplug\u201d, pasi edhe n\u00eb popull thuhet: \u201cShpirti del, huqi nuk del\u201d. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk ka \u201chuq\u201d q\u00eb psikoterapia t\u00eb mos ia shkul\u00eb \u201crr\u00ebnj\u00ebt\u201d po qe se ti tregohesh bashk\u00ebpunues i mir\u00eb me psikologun. Po t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjem me dy poezi t\u00eb vogla, dy strofa, nj\u00eb nga G\u00ebte dhe dy nga Kiplingu. Zb\u00ebrtheji dhe dil n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e mbar\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs…
\nG\u00ebte:
\nParat\u00eb ke humbur? Di\u00e7 ke humbur…
\nDuhet t\u00eb punosh, t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb fitosh…
\nNderin ke humbur? Sa shum\u00eb ke humbur!
\nT\u00eb duhet shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar
\nT\u00eb b\u00ebsh njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebr t\u00eb besuar…
\nGuximin ke humbur? Tep\u00ebr ke humbur!
\nT\u00eb jesh i bindur, m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos kishe lindur!<\/p>\n
Kipling:
\nN\u00eb mend fitoret q\u00eb ke korrur, t\u2019i flijosh
\nSi n\u00eb kumar, n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb vetme loj\u00eb…
\nT\u00eb rrezikosh, t\u00eb humb\u00ebsh e prap\u00eb t\u2019ia fillosh
\nE humbjen kurr\u00eb t\u00eb mos e z\u00ebsh n\u00eb goj\u00eb
\nN\u00eb i detyrofsh dot muskul, nerv, puls e zem\u00ebr
\nT\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb edhe kur gjith\u00e7ka duket e kot\u00eb
\nE t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh kur s\u2019ke asgj\u00eb m\u00eb ve\u00e7 vullnetit
\nQ\u00eb ve\u00e7 nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb: \u201cQ\u00ebndro\u201d, gjithnj\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb.
\nN\u00eb mundsh t\u2019i mbush\u00ebsh ti minutat aq t\u00eb r\u00ebnda
\nMe vepra q\u00eb peshojn\u00eb, dije dhe mos ki hi\u00e7 dyshim
\nSe e jotja do t\u00eb jet\u00eb bota me \u00e7ka brenda
\nDhe burr\u00eb do t\u00eb jesh ti, o biri im!
\nBesoj se t\u00eb vlejt\u00ebn vargjet, m\u00eb kuptove. Ta fitosh apo ta humb\u00ebsh p\u00ebrfundimisht jet\u00ebn, kjo varet nga ti, n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nga ti. Asnj\u00eb avion nuk ngrihet n\u00eb fluturim, po nuk i punoi motori i vet. Mos \u201cqaj\u201d \u00e7far\u00eb iku, por eja t\u2019ia fillojm\u00eb p\u00ebr nga e mbara. Mos thuaj asnj\u00ebher\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb von\u00eb. Fati i zgjat dor\u00ebn guximtarit, por guximtarit t\u00eb men\u00e7ur, kurr\u00eb \u201cguximtar\u00ebve\u201d t\u00eb bixhozit apo aventurave. Gjykoje vet\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– I nderuar Dr. Demiri, kam humbur gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb bixhoz… parat\u00eb, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, gruan e cila m\u00eb divorcoi e mezi po e mbaj nj\u00eb pun\u00eb shteti. Lidhjet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb jan\u00eb zbehur shum\u00eb. Shok\u00ebt e ngusht\u00eb, q\u00eb dikur m\u00eb donin, m\u00eb shohin plot keqardhje e m\u00eb duket sikur thon\u00eb: \u201cJa, ky i shkreti, q\u00eb mbeti si […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7486","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7486","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7486"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7486\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7486"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7486"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7486"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}