{"id":7402,"date":"2015-01-13T16:30:34","date_gmt":"2015-01-13T15:30:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=7402"},"modified":"2015-01-13T15:13:29","modified_gmt":"2015-01-13T14:13:29","slug":"si-moren-hak-me-te-vdekurin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/01\/si-moren-hak-me-te-vdekurin\/","title":{"rendered":"Si mor\u00ebn hak me t\u00eb vdekurin?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Jam nj\u00eb qytetar nga rrethinat e Fierit dhe k\u00ebrkoj nj\u00eb mendim n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet gazet\u00ebs tuaj. Dua t\u00eb denoncoj publikisht nj\u00eb gjest shum\u00eb \u00e7njer\u00ebzor, t\u00eb posht\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb pad\u00ebgjuar. N\u00eb vitin 1975, m\u00eb vdiq v\u00ebllai 33 vje\u00e7ar n\u00eb spitalin e Fierit. Neve na pllakosi dhimbja e hidh\u00ebrimi, megjithat\u00eb, jeta i ka k\u00ebto dhe koha mundohet t\u2019i tres\u00eb. N\u00eb vitet 1980-1981, varrit t\u00eb v\u00ebllait i kishin thyer gur\u00ebt. Sapo mora lajmin, shkova dhe pash\u00eb se gur\u00ebt nuk ekzistonin, bile as cifla t\u00eb tyre nuk kishte. Un\u00eb vura dy gur\u00eb natyror\u00eb dhe ika. Ata gur\u00eb nuk u c\u00ebnuan m\u00eb, por varri, pas nj\u00eb viti, b\u00ebri fira dhe un\u00eb e rregullova se, kujt i shkonte mendja q\u00eb edhe me t\u00eb vdekurin t\u00eb b\u00ebnin posht\u00ebrsira? P\u00ebr \u00e7udi, n\u00eb varr nuk gjet\u00ebm as shenj\u00eb, as eshtra. K\u00ebtu, i dashur psikolog, m\u2019u hap nj\u00eb plag\u00eb e madhe shpirt\u00ebrore. Nuk i gjenim dot arsyet. V\u00ebllai nj\u00eb her\u00eb u zu me nj\u00eb moshatar t\u00eb vetin dhe e goditi. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, b\u00ebri 3 muaj burg. Un\u00eb dyshoj, por fakte s\u2019kam&#8230; Jam n\u00eb siklet dhe ndoshta m\u00eb ndihmoni ju. Nuk m\u00eb shkonte mendja se kishte njer\u00ebz kaq t\u00eb k\u00ebqinj, shpirtzinj dhe t\u00eb pacip\u00eb q\u00eb marrin hak edhe me t\u00eb vdekurin. Si ka guxuar?! I vdekuri \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn mbikqyrjen e Zotit&#8230; Tani m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar gjumi, por un\u00eb Zotit ia kam l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkoj\u00eb ata q\u00eb luajt\u00ebn me eshtrat e njeriut tim. Me respekt, banori nga Fieri.<br \/>\nJashar Demiri, psikolog:  &#8211;  I nderuar let\u00ebrshkrues nga Fieri! Ja, na erdhi edhe kjo, nj\u00eb let\u00ebr e rrall\u00eb nga ju! Tek po lexoja, edhe un\u00eb u brengosa se si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb edhe t\u00eb vdekurin s\u2019e l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb t\u00eb prehet n\u00eb vendin e p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm. Megjithat\u00eb, fundi i letr\u00ebs suaj ishte i bukur dhe jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu, por edhe m\u00eb qet\u00ebsoi, kur ju thoni se tek i vdekuri s\u2019merret hak, se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn kujdesin e Zotit dhe se ju ia keni l\u00ebn\u00eb atij n\u00eb dor\u00eb q\u00eb ta nd\u00ebshkoj\u00eb. K\u00ebsaj i thon\u00eb: \u201cFali o Zot se nuk din\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019b\u00ebjn\u00eb!\u201d. N\u00eb jet\u00ebn time si psikolog me p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb pune 35 vje\u00e7are, kam njohur lloj-lloj njer\u00ebzish me lloj-lloj fiksimesh t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme dhe na ka ndodhur q\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb edhe t\u00eb na ken\u00eb sulmuar, neve \u201csh\u00ebrbyesve\u201d t\u00eb tyre. Ne vet\u00ebm jemi mbrojtur dhe as nuk i kemi gjykuar sepse ca t\u00eb till\u00eb, n\u00eb momente krizash, s\u2019din\u00eb \u00e7\u2019b\u00ebjn\u00eb, nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb \u201cata\u201d dhe, kur e humbin vet\u00ebdijen, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rreziksh\u00ebm se kafsh\u00ebt. Po t\u00eb ishim m\u00ebrzitur k\u00ebshtu si ju, ose do ta linim pun\u00ebn, ose do t\u00eb ishim plakur dyfish, ndaj nuk jam dakord me ankthin e pagjum\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj. Gjithsesi, denoncimin n\u00eb polici, b\u00ebjeni!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Jam nj\u00eb qytetar nga rrethinat e Fierit dhe k\u00ebrkoj nj\u00eb mendim n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet gazet\u00ebs tuaj. Dua t\u00eb denoncoj publikisht nj\u00eb gjest shum\u00eb \u00e7njer\u00ebzor, t\u00eb posht\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb pad\u00ebgjuar. N\u00eb vitin 1975, m\u00eb vdiq v\u00ebllai 33 vje\u00e7ar n\u00eb spitalin e Fierit. Neve na pllakosi dhimbja e hidh\u00ebrimi, megjithat\u00eb, jeta i ka k\u00ebto dhe koha mundohet t\u2019i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7402"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7402\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7402"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}