{"id":7294,"date":"2015-01-05T16:00:11","date_gmt":"2015-01-05T15:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=7294"},"modified":"2015-01-05T12:38:41","modified_gmt":"2015-01-05T11:38:41","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-25","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/01\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-25\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00ebviz me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi<br \/>\n&#8211; Isha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe motra e vog\u00ebl m\u00eb tha: \u201cMa sill filan gj\u00eb\u201d, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk e mbaj mend fare \u00e7far\u00eb ishte, por di q\u00eb l\u00ebvizja n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi si e hutuar dhe nuk e gjeja at\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte motra. M\u00eb dilnin pengesa, mezi ecja, rr\u00ebzohesha dhe sikur zvarritesha. Shoh shpesh \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla, sikur mezi l\u00ebviz. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi kan\u00eb, ju lutem?<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbndrra tregon nj\u00eb lloj dob\u00ebsie; ndiheni shum\u00eb i\/e r\u00ebn\u00eb moralisht dhe psikologjikisht k\u00ebto koh\u00eb. Meqen\u00ebse shikoni shpesh \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se kjo lloj gjendjeje ju kap shpesh. Jeni person shum\u00eb i ndjesh\u00ebm dhe i brisht\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Sa g\u00ebzoheni, sa hidh\u00ebroheni, sa jeni shum\u00eb entuziast, sa ju bie entuziazmi. Shpesh ndiheni pa shpres\u00eb dhe kapeni ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb pas gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb tashm\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar. Mos vall\u00eb ndiheni i lodhur nga gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju rrethon? Kjo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb ju fton t\u00eb ndryshoni m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb t\u00eb jetuarit. Duhet t\u00eb dilni nga kjo gjendje, qoft\u00eb edhe duke k\u00ebrkuar mb\u00ebshtetjen e njer\u00ebzve tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur.<\/p>\n<p>Isha n\u00eb varreza<br \/>\n&#8211; Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha me shoqen time duke ecur mes varrezave dhe duke qeshur. P\u00ebr momentin, m\u2019u kujtua q\u00eb nuk e dija ku ishte varri i gjyshit dhe gjyshes sime. U fut\u00ebm n\u00ebp\u00ebr vijat e varreve duke lexuar e k\u00ebrkuar p\u00ebr varrin e gjyshit. Shoqja ime e dinte se ku ishte varri i gjyshit t\u00eb saj dhe ata u ndal\u00ebn tek ai varr, por nga e qeshura jon\u00eb, na u shfaq nj\u00eb plak, q\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb dukej plak dhe her\u00eb, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ri. Na u afrua shpejt. M\u00eb dukej sikur ai plak me at\u00eb kapele t\u00eb bardh\u00eb si n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e vjetra, donte t\u00eb na kapte dhe iu ktheva: \u201cXhaxhi, nuk e kemi me ty q\u00eb po qeshim\u201d, por ai gjithnj\u00eb afrohej dhe kishte nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim shum\u00eb rr\u00ebnqeth\u00ebs, me disa sy t\u00eb bukur, sa dukej si djal\u00eb i ri. Kjo shoqja ime nuk m\u00eb l\u00ebshonte krahun, se un\u00eb doja t\u00eb ikja me vrap. Aty, m\u00eb doli gjumi. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Ju faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; Nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni sepse e keni par\u00eb veten n\u00eb varreza. Kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime \u00ebndrrat me varreza, por n\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, \u00ebndrra tregon fundin e nj\u00eb t\u00eb shkuare dhe nj\u00eb rilindje t\u00eb brendshme shpirt\u00ebrore, pse jo, edhe me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb reja n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Do t\u00eb \u00e7liroheni nga e kaluara dhe do t\u00eb hidhni syt\u00eb nga e ardhmja. K\u00ebt\u00eb e tregon fakti q\u00eb keni par\u00eb nj\u00eb xhaxhi, q\u00eb m\u00eb pas ju \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb si djal\u00eb i ri. Pra, \u00ebndrra tregon fundin e zakoneve t\u00eb vjetra dhe gatishm\u00ebrin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar t\u00eb ardhmen me t\u00eb mirat e saj. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00ebviz me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi &#8211; Isha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe motra e vog\u00ebl m\u00eb tha: \u201cMa sill filan gj\u00eb\u201d, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk e mbaj mend fare \u00e7far\u00eb ishte, por di q\u00eb l\u00ebvizja n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi si e hutuar dhe nuk e gjeja at\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte motra. M\u00eb dilnin pengesa, mezi ecja, rr\u00ebzohesha dhe sikur zvarritesha. Shoh shpesh \u00ebndrra [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7294"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7294\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}