– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Dr. Evi! A e shton dashurin\u00eb mes nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale, pra, n\u00ebse dikush p\u00ebrjeton shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb aktit seksual? A ndikon kjo p\u00ebr t\u00eb forcuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien n\u00eb \u00e7ift ose kur ndodh e kund\u00ebrta, a zbehet dashuria mes partner\u00ebve?
\n– Sigurisht q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale e forcojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, por mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe e kund\u00ebrta, t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb mes \u00e7iftit, vet\u00ebm thjesht t\u00ebrheqje fizike. Pra, ka nj\u00eb ndryshim t\u00eb vock\u00ebl, ka lidhje rast\u00ebsore ose p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00ebrheqjeje thjesht fizike, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks dhe t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb gjith\u00ebsecili n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e vet. Ka lidhje dashurie, ku seksi e b\u00ebn akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb lidhjen mes \u00e7iftit. K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale q\u00eb arrin gjithsecili nga partner\u00ebt, sigurisht q\u00eb ndikon pozitivisht, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00ebse mes \u00e7iftit ekziston edhe ndjenja e dashuris\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7 t\u00ebrheqjes fizike, si\u00e7 tham\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr. E kund\u00ebrta do t\u00eb ndodhte n\u00ebse mes \u00e7iftit nuk ka ndjenja, por vet\u00ebm t\u00ebrheqje fizike, sepse kur nj\u00eb \u00e7ift duhen v\u00ebrtet, i japin koh\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit derisa t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb tek akti seksual dhe e gjejn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ta arrijn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb.
\n– M\u00eb ka ndodhur di\u00e7ka e \u00e7uditshme, po rrija me partnerin tim n\u00eb krevat dhe pash\u00eb q\u00eb atij i ishte forcuar organi. N\u00eb ato momente, doja t\u00eb b\u00ebja seks me t\u00eb, por pash\u00eb q\u00eb ai nuk kishte d\u00ebshir\u00eb. A ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull ereksion, por t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr seks? Si ka mund\u00ebsi?
\n– Jan\u00eb disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb femrat nuk arrijn\u00eb t\u2019i kuptojn\u00eb, ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, nuk i din\u00eb, sado q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se i din\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb kur nj\u00eb mashkull ka ereksion, ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb gati p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Ereksioni ndodh edhe pa patur d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr seks, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb disa fenomeneve fiziologjike q\u00eb i ndodhin mashkullit n\u00eb trup. Ereksioni ndodh p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb shkuarjes s\u00eb gjakut n\u00eb penis. Shumica e meshkujve, kur zgjohen n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, kan\u00eb ereksion, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb duan t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks. Ky fenomen mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb edhe nga nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb urinuar dhe p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb t\u00eb presionit n\u00eb organ. Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ereksion edhe kur po kalon nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb stresi, sepse si\u00e7 ju tham\u00eb, gjaku v\u00ebrshon te penisi dhe kjo \u00e7on n\u00eb ereksion edhe pa d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e mashkullit. Kur jemi n\u00ebn stres, en\u00ebt e gjakut ngushtohen shum\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, presioni i gjakut rritet dhe mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb edhe penisi t\u00eb ket\u00eb ereksion. N\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, partneri mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb i m\u00ebrzitur, ka qen\u00eb duke menduar ndonj\u00eb problem, ose i ka ndodhur ndonj\u00eb proces fiziologjik n\u00eb trup. Mendoj se do kishte qen\u00eb mir\u00eb ta pyesnit partnerin jo duke e faj\u00ebsuar, por p\u00ebr kuriozitet, duke qen\u00eb e ngroht\u00eb me t\u00eb.
\n– Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 17 vje\u00e7 dhe doja t\u00eb dija: Sa duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb madh\u00ebsia normale e penisit n\u00eb ereksion?
\n– Mesatarja e penisit \u00ebsht\u00eb nga 12-14 cm n\u00eb ereksion. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Dr. Evi! A e shton dashurin\u00eb mes nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale, pra, n\u00ebse dikush p\u00ebrjeton shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb aktit seksual? A ndikon kjo p\u00ebr t\u00eb forcuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien n\u00eb \u00e7ift ose kur ndodh e kund\u00ebrta, a zbehet dashuria mes partner\u00ebve? – Sigurisht q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale e forcojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, por mund t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7277"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7277\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}