{"id":7165,"date":"2014-12-19T23:45:35","date_gmt":"2014-12-19T22:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=7165"},"modified":"2014-12-19T21:16:50","modified_gmt":"2014-12-19T20:16:50","slug":"te-pelqen-te-terheqesh-vemendjen-e-te-tjereve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/12\/te-pelqen-te-terheqesh-vemendjen-e-te-tjereve\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebsh v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/test.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7166\" src=\"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/test-174x300.jpg\" alt=\"test\" width=\"174\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Entuziazmohesh kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kthejn\u00eb kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb kur kalon, apo preferon t\u00eb kalosh pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re? K\u00ebrko p\u00ebrgjigjen e k\u00ebsaj dhe pyetjeve t\u00eb tjera duke b\u00ebr\u00eb testin ton\u00eb.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> T\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebsh skena t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb publik, si p\u00ebr shembull, t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh rrok t\u00eb shfrenuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb das\u00ebm?<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Sigurisht! M\u00eb p\u00eblqen kur kamarier\u00ebt shqyejn\u00eb syt\u00eb nga habia.<\/li>\n<li>Jo, aspak. Do t\u00eb m\u00eb prishej reputacioni.<\/li>\n<li>Jo, por nganj\u00ebher\u00eb kam k\u00ebrcyer edhe mbi tavolin\u00eb\u2026<\/li>\n<li><strong> P\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb q\u00eb organizohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb vil\u00eb me pishin\u00eb\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Mban nj\u00eb veshje seksi dhe p\u00ebrzihesh me t\u00eb ftuarit e tjer\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Vesh nj\u00eb pal\u00eb pantallona t\u00eb shkurtra, ulesh diku dhe nuk ngrihesh m\u00eb prej andej.<\/li>\n<li>Je e para q\u00eb hidhesh n\u00eb pishin\u00eb, veshur me bikini.<\/li>\n<li><strong> \u00cbsht\u00eb festa e lamtumir\u00ebs s\u00eb beqaris\u00eb s\u00eb shoqes t\u00ebnde m\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb dhe ti vjen me lajme t\u00eb reja: I dashuri t\u00eb ka k\u00ebrkuar t\u00eb fejoheni bashk\u00eb. Si vepron?<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Lajm\u00ebron me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb: \u201cVajza, gjejeni kush e ka radh\u00ebn tani p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar!\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Ua thua vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse t\u00eb pyesin.<\/li>\n<li>Ua thua n\u00eb vesh disa mikeshave.<\/li>\n<li><strong> P\u00ebrfundo fjalin\u00eb: \u201cSapo hyj n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb drejtohem p\u00ebr tek\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Nj\u00eb cep ku mund t\u2019i shoh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re.<\/li>\n<li>Grupi m\u00eb i madh me njer\u00ebz.<\/li>\n<li>Vendi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Ji e sinqert\u00eb: Do t\u00eb ishe nj\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebse e mir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet-shou?<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Sigurisht, ama n\u00ebse ti je protagonistja absolute.<\/li>\n<li>Mbase, n\u00ebse je pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb grupi si ai tek \u201cKafazi i art\u00eb\u201d.<\/li>\n<li>Jo, t\u00eb tmerrojn\u00eb kamerat.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Hyn n\u00eb nj\u00eb mbledhje dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb tre djem t\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesin \u201cMir\u00ebdita\u201d. Ti:<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Buz\u00ebqesh dhe vazhdon t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh e k\u00ebnaqur nga jeta.<\/li>\n<li>Skuqesh flak\u00eb. Mbase fundi \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i shkurt\u00ebr ose t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ulur dekolteja\u2026<\/li>\n<li>I p\u00ebrgjigjes edhe ti p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjes.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Shefi yt do t\u00eb organizoj\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb dhe ti del vullnetare\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebr t\u00eb dekoruar ambientin. Preferon t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh n\u00eb prapasken\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb medaljet dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjall\u00ebruar atmosfer\u00ebn me ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebrcim, etj.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebr t\u00eb servirur pijet dhe t\u00eb ngr\u00ebnat. K\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb kesh koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb muhabet me koleg\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Kur nj\u00eb shoqe p\u00eblqen xhinset e tua t\u00eb reja, ti\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Thua: \u201cFaleminderit, m\u00eb k\u00ebnaqe\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Pohon: \u201cPo, t\u00eb bukura jan\u00eb\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Pyet: \u201cV\u00ebrtet? Nuk i kam ca t\u00eb ngushta?\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong> Cila nga dy situatat t\u00eb duket m\u00eb e keqe: Q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb flisnin p\u00ebr ty, apo q\u00eb askush mos t\u00eb t\u00eb zinte me goj\u00eb.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Kjo e dyta s\u2019m\u00eb p\u00eblqen fare<\/li>\n<li>Varet. Do t\u00eb ishte shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm t\u00eb flisnin p\u00ebr mua n\u00ebse thon\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb mira.<\/li>\n<li>Do ta kishe problem n\u00ebse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr ty.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Po d\u00ebgjon nj\u00eb disk nd\u00ebrsa pret n\u00eb stacion dhe del k\u00ebnga jote e preferuar. Ti\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Mban ritmin me k\u00ebmb\u00eb dhe kok\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>K\u00ebndon k\u00ebng\u00ebn me vete.<\/li>\n<li>Fillon t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh se nuk reziston dot.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rezultatet<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00ebse ke marr\u00eb 15 pik\u00eb ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb: D\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Disa vajzave u p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kthejn\u00eb kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019i par\u00eb, bile shkojn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb tutje, duke k\u00ebrkuar q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb shqyejn\u00eb syt\u00eb kur ato kalojn\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e mir\u00eb t\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh energji n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdolloj feste, por n\u00ebse p\u00ebrpiqesh q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb n\u00eb pranin\u00eb t\u00ebnde, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj pasigurie. Kjo q\u00eb po krijon ti \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb flluck\u00eb e madhe sapuni, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb plas\u00eb nga momenti n\u00eb moment. Mundohu q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, kur t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh me miqt\u00eb, t\u00eb mos tregohesh e ekzagjeruar. Kur t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb fest\u00ebn e lamtumir\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb shoqeje mundohu ta ndihmosh me sa mundesh. K\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb mbetesh n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb admirojn\u00eb bujarin\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn t\u00ebnde p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00ebse ke marr\u00eb 7-14 pik\u00eb: Ti ia di vlerat vetes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb shohin, por jo derisa t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh qesharake dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr ty. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse shkon n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb integrohesh shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb ambientin e saj, por jo deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb sa t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh vet\u00ebm n\u00eb mes t\u00eb sall\u00ebs duke k\u00ebrcyer p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes s\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u2019i mbushur mendjen vetes se sa vlen. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb jesh protagoniste dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebnaqesh me rolin e nj\u00eb aktoreje dyt\u00ebsore. Pik\u00ebrisht kjo, mosnjohja e rolit q\u00eb do t\u00eb luash her\u00ebn e ardhshme, \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e aft\u00ebsis\u00eb t\u00ebnde p\u00ebr t\u00eb joshur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00ebse ke marr\u00eb 6 pik\u00eb ose m\u00eb pak: Mos m\u00eb shih, mos m\u00eb shih!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ti ke shum\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes, sepse mendon se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb kritikojn\u00eb ose do t\u00eb qeshin me ty. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye krijon nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7uar rreth teje, ku nj\u00eb rrezik i till\u00eb nuk ekziston dhe ulesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb karrige pa l\u00ebvizur asnj\u00eb muskul dhe pa u ngritur, nd\u00ebrsa vajzat e tjera qeshin, k\u00ebrcejn\u00eb dhe flirtojn\u00eb. Pranoje: Nuk ndjehesh pak vet\u00ebm? Q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt mos t\u00eb t\u00eb ngat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb me nj\u00eb mobilje t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, mundohu t\u00eb gjall\u00ebrohesh pak me shoqet e tua. Tregoji shoqes t\u00ebnde nj\u00eb anekdot\u00eb zbavit\u00ebse nga pushimet e tua ose fal\u00ebndero ata q\u00eb t\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje ose fjal\u00eb. Vler\u00ebsoje veten, flit mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, m\u00ebsohu me faktin q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb interesohen p\u00ebr ty dhe mundohu q\u00eb ky interes t\u00eb jet\u00eb reciprok. S\u00eb shpejti do t\u00eb jesh mbret\u00ebresha e fest\u00ebs. T\u00eb duhet vet\u00ebm t\u00eb afirmohesh pak\u00ebz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Entuziazmohesh kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kthejn\u00eb kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb kur kalon, apo preferon t\u00eb kalosh pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re? K\u00ebrko p\u00ebrgjigjen e k\u00ebsaj dhe pyetjeve t\u00eb tjera duke b\u00ebr\u00eb testin ton\u00eb. &nbsp; T\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebsh skena t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb publik, si p\u00ebr shembull, t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh rrok t\u00eb shfrenuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb das\u00ebm? Sigurisht! M\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[304],"class_list":["post-7165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test","tag-test-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7165"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7165\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}