{"id":6998,"date":"2014-12-11T23:30:46","date_gmt":"2014-12-11T22:30:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=6998"},"modified":"2014-12-11T23:15:59","modified_gmt":"2014-12-11T22:15:59","slug":"femijet-shkaku-i-pare-i-pabesise-se-burrave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/12\/femijet-shkaku-i-pare-i-pabesise-se-burrave\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00ebmij\u00ebt, shkaku i par\u00eb i pabesis\u00eb s\u00eb burrave?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sipas nj\u00eb sondazhi t\u00eb koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, 82% e burrave t\u00eb martuar q\u00eb e kan\u00eb tradhtuar gruan e tyre, e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pasi jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Munges\u00eb pasioni, p\u00ebrkujdesjeje&#8230; jan\u00eb disa nga shenjat q\u00eb i shtyjn\u00eb burrat dhe baballar\u00ebt, t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb. Victoria Milan, nj\u00eb sit i specializuar n\u00eb takimet mes personave t\u00eb martuar, ka b\u00ebr\u00eb publik nj\u00eb sondazh t\u00eb ri t\u00eb realizuar p\u00ebr burrat dhe tradhtin\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb siti i par\u00eb i hapur p\u00ebr takime t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lloji m\u00eb 2010-n dhe k\u00ebsaj radhe, n\u00eb t\u00eb jan\u00eb shpjeguar arsyet pse burrat shtyhen t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb partneren. Sipas rezultateve t\u00eb sondazhit, t\u00eb realizuar me 5000 persona, 82% e burrave t\u00eb martuar pohojn\u00eb se kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb pasi jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb prind\u00ebr.<br \/>\nGjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij sondazhi, vullnetar\u00ebve q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb, u \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje e thjesht\u00eb: \u00abA ndikon fakti q\u00eb b\u00ebheni me f\u00ebmij\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb tradhtuar?\u00bb. P\u00ebr 30% t\u00eb t\u00eb anketuarve, problemi q\u00ebndron te seksi pas lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Ata pohojn\u00eb se, pas mb\u00ebrritjes s\u00eb bebes n\u00eb gjirin e \u00e7iftit, ata nuk kan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie aq pasionante sa m\u00eb par\u00eb me partneren. Bebeja q\u00eb zgjohet n\u00eb mes t\u00eb nat\u00ebs, pelenat q\u00eb duhen nd\u00ebrruar, biberonat q\u00eb duhen p\u00ebrgatitur&#8230; 23% e burrave t\u00eb anketuar deklarojn\u00eb se k\u00ebto nd\u00ebrpresin shpesh nj\u00eb seanc\u00eb seksi me partneren. Grat\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhen n\u00ebna, sigurisht q\u00eb do t\u00eb merren me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre kur ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb, apo kur kan\u00eb par\u00eb ndonj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb keqe. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ankohen 18% e burrave, q\u00eb pohojn\u00eb se tashm\u00eb gjith\u00eb v\u00ebmendja e bashk\u00ebshortes s\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb drejtuar nga f\u00ebmija dhe jo m\u00eb drejt tyre. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb pjesa tjet\u00ebr e burrave evokojn\u00eb probleme ekonomike, apo familjare, si burimin kryesore t\u00eb problemeve t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb \u00e7ift.<br \/>\nNd\u00ebr 5000 personat e anketuar, 78% ishin martuar p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa 22% nuk ishin n\u00eb martes\u00ebn e par\u00eb, nj\u00eb diferenc\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb i ka shtyr\u00eb autor\u00ebt e studimit t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pyetjen n\u00ebse fakti i t\u00eb qenit n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb e shtonte d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb tradhtar\u00eb.<br \/>\nSipas Sigurd Vedal, themeluesi i sitit, n\u00eb fakt, ekziston nj\u00eb lidhje. \u00abN\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, lidhjet e dyta, qofshin k\u00ebto martesa apo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb tjera, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, sepse martesa e par\u00eb i ka ndihmuar burrat t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim m\u00eb t\u00eb matur ndaj lidhjes\u00bb, ka deklaruar ai. \u00abNdodh gjithashtu m\u00eb shpesh q\u00eb problemet t\u00eb lindin kur b\u00ebhesh prind gjat\u00eb lidhjes s\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7iftit, shto k\u00ebtu faktin q\u00eb je m\u00eb i ri dhe me m\u00eb pak eksperienc\u00eb\u00bb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sipas nj\u00eb sondazhi t\u00eb koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, 82% e burrave t\u00eb martuar q\u00eb e kan\u00eb tradhtuar gruan e tyre, e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pasi jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Munges\u00eb pasioni, p\u00ebrkujdesjeje&#8230; jan\u00eb disa nga shenjat q\u00eb i shtyjn\u00eb burrat dhe baballar\u00ebt, t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb. Victoria Milan, nj\u00eb sit i specializuar n\u00eb takimet mes personave t\u00eb martuar, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":6354,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[905],"class_list":["post-6998","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-seks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6998","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6998"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6998\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6354"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6998"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6998"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6998"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}