– Ju shkruani sekretet e nj\u00eb jete m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por un\u00eb mendoj se jam v\u00ebrtet pa fat. Sado t\u00eb mundohem, asgj\u00eb nuk shkon si\u00e7 dua un\u00eb…Jam pa shpresa, dhe nuk di si te veproj? Nj\u00eb lexuese.
\n– Specialist\u00ebt dhe studiuesit kan\u00eb shkruar shum\u00eb rreth k\u00ebsaj teme dhe gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb: T\u00eb mos kapemi me fatin! Sigurisht, jeta e \u00e7donj\u00ebrit prej nesh \u00ebsht\u00eb gatuar me cikle pozitive dhe negative, por duhet t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se nuk ka fat t\u00eb keq. M\u00ebnyra me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn p\u00ebrballojm\u00eb problemet e p\u00ebrditshme varet mbi t\u00eb gjitha nga karakteri i \u00e7donj\u00ebrit prej nesh. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje mendore; duhet t\u00eb bindim veten se fati varet nga ne dhe nga askush tjet\u00ebr, as nga njer\u00ebzit rreth jush, situatat, vendi apo \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb na rrethon. Nuk duhet t\u00eb humbasim koh\u00eb duke pyetur veten: “P\u00ebrse m\u00eb ndodh mua?”. P\u00ebrkundrazi, m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballur problemet \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shikojm\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Pra, ta p\u00ebrqendrojm\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen drejt zgjidhjes s\u00eb problemit. Edhe n\u00eb librat fetar\u00eb k\u00ebshtu shkruhet n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre me shprehje t\u00eb tilla si: B\u00ebje ti, pa do b\u00ebj dhe un\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. N\u00ebse mendoni pozitivisht, prekni problemin, edhe universi, Zoti apo \u00e7far\u00ebdo qoft\u00eb ajo q\u00eb besoni, do t\u00eb punoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ne.
\nKjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohemi gjysma-gjysma, duke shpresuar q\u00eb do t\u2019u shp\u00ebtojm\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive duke u rrotulluar rreth atyre gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb kemi, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos dal\u00eb nga jeta komode, sepse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, lumturia do t\u00eb ishte e p\u00ebrgjysmuar. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj si t\u00eb shmangim nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, nga frika se mund ta humbasim. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb marrim kurajon p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr rreziqet. Sfidat n\u00eb jet\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u rritur dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrballojm\u00eb rreziqet, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihemi t\u00eb lumtur sepse e dim\u00eb q\u00eb kemi dh\u00ebn\u00eb maksimumin. Sigurisht, si p\u00ebrfundim, nga gjith\u00eb kjo, di\u00e7ka e mir\u00eb do t\u00eb dal\u00eb dhe pesimizmi, pak nga pak, do t\u00eb ik\u00eb nga jeta jon\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Ju shkruani sekretet e nj\u00eb jete m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por un\u00eb mendoj se jam v\u00ebrtet pa fat. Sado t\u00eb mundohem, asgj\u00eb nuk shkon si\u00e7 dua un\u00eb…Jam pa shpresa, dhe nuk di si te veproj? Nj\u00eb lexuese. – Specialist\u00ebt dhe studiuesit kan\u00eb shkruar shum\u00eb rreth k\u00ebsaj teme dhe gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb: T\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6848\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}