{"id":6800,"date":"2014-12-03T12:42:24","date_gmt":"2014-12-03T11:42:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=6800"},"modified":"2014-12-03T12:42:24","modified_gmt":"2014-12-03T11:42:24","slug":"jam-dashuruar-me-nje-burre-te-martuar-por-ai-tani-do-qe-te-ndahem-me-te-si-te-veproj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/12\/jam-dashuruar-me-nje-burre-te-martuar-por-ai-tani-do-qe-te-ndahem-me-te-si-te-veproj\/","title":{"rendered":"Jam dashuruar me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb martuar, por ai tani do q\u00eb t\u00eb ndahem me t\u00eb, si t\u00eb veproj?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Kam nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shprehem diku, ndaj vendosa t\u00eb ndaj historin\u00eb dhe pik\u00ebpyetjen time t\u00eb jet\u00ebs me ju, pasi kam jetuar n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe kam marr\u00eb \u00e7do her\u00eb dhe kam lexuar histori t\u00eb ndryshme. M\u00eb quajn\u00eb Ana dhe jetoj n\u00eb Zvicer, k\u00ebtu kam njohur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nga Kosova, ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb burr\u00eb pasi ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i martuar dhe ka familje. E dashuroj marr\u00ebzisht, dhe q\u00ebkur jam lidhur me at\u00eb nuk jam m\u00eb ajo vajza e hedhur, kam ndryshuar komplet, jam mbyllur shum\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete, kam shk\u00ebputur kontaktet me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, vet\u00ebm sepse nuk doja q\u00eb ta m\u00ebrzisja p\u00ebr asgj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Por k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra atij i ran\u00eb n\u00eb sy dhe mendon q\u00eb po ndikon tek un\u00eb negativisht ndaj dhe m\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ndahemi. Kjo situat\u00eb mua m\u00eb tmerron edhe pse e di q\u00eb skam asnj\u00eb prespektiv\u00eb me t\u00eb, apo t\u00eb ardhme, nuk dua q\u00eb ai t\u00eb largohet nga un\u00eb. Edhe ai m\u00eb do shum\u00eb, jam e sigurt\u00eb por ka natyr\u00eb t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb dhe sma ka shprehur pothuajse kurr\u00eb. Po torturohem brenda vetes, si mund t\u00eb thoj\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull se do ndahemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn t\u00ebnde se me mua ske t\u00eb ardhme. I lutem shum\u00eb atij q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ndodhi kjo gj\u00eb, t\u00eb mos ndahet nga un\u00eb, por ai ka filluar t\u00eb mos m\u00eb telefonoj\u00eb m\u00eb, m\u00eb takon shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb, dhe thot\u00eb se e b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsohem pa prezenc\u00ebn e tij. Ai do q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb gjej dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, nj\u00eb beqar dhe t\u00eb martohem. Por p\u00ebr mua kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur, m\u00eb duket sikur m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmbytur bota, dhe gjith\u00e7ka m\u00eb duket zi, kur mendoj se ai do t\u00eb ndahet p\u00ebrfundimisht nga un\u00eb. E dashuroj marr\u00ebzisht. Nuk di si t\u00eb veproj, nuk di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj me veten time, pasi k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra sm\u00eb falen, pasi jam 25 vje\u00e7e por spo e kontrolloj dot veten. \u00cbsht\u00eb hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb dashuroj nj\u00eb mashkull, m\u00eb duket sikur skam m\u00eb forc\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj m\u00eb&#8230; Nuk di si t\u00eb veproj?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Kam nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shprehem diku, ndaj vendosa t\u00eb ndaj historin\u00eb dhe pik\u00ebpyetjen time t\u00eb jet\u00ebs me ju, pasi kam jetuar n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe kam marr\u00eb \u00e7do her\u00eb dhe kam lexuar histori t\u00eb ndryshme. M\u00eb quajn\u00eb Ana dhe jetoj n\u00eb Zvicer, k\u00ebtu kam njohur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nga Kosova, ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb burr\u00eb pasi ai \u00ebsht\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-udhekryq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6800"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6800\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}