\u201cE dua at\u00eb djal\u00eb, mami dhe nuk martohem me ask\u00ebnd tjet\u00ebr!\u201d, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb fjalia q\u00eb kam d\u00ebgjuar tri her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb nga ime bij\u00eb para gjasht\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n
Si t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e sotsh\u00ebm, q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb asnj\u00eb lloj kompleksi p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur ndjenjat dhe mendimet e tyre, edhe ime bij\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguli p\u00ebr t\u2019u fejuar me djalin q\u00eb kishte zgjedhur, derisa as un\u00eb nuk pata asnj\u00eb zgjidhje tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb thoja \u201cjam dakord\u201d.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu, filluan g\u00ebzimet dhe shqet\u00ebsimet e mia me martes\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs sime. Ajo, sapo kishte mbaruar shkoll\u00ebn e mesme dhe ne prisnim q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb fitonte ndonj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdonte edhe m\u00eb tej, por s\u2019ishte e th\u00ebn\u00eb. Djali q\u00eb kishte njohur ishte me shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb mesme, por punonte si zdrukthtar me t\u00eb atin. \u00cbsht\u00eb bukurosh, t\u00eb merr n\u00eb qaf\u00eb nga pamja, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i ha hakun \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe pun\u00ebtor. Punon n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin dyqan me t\u00eb atin, duket djal\u00eb i p\u00ebrkushtuar, por si\u00e7 jan\u00eb rinia e sotshme q\u00eb sapo t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, vidhen nga puna e nga p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb. Pas k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb, u detyruam t\u00eb shpallnim fejes\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs dhe ata dilnin bashk\u00eb, dh\u00ebndrri vinte shum\u00eb shpesh te ne.<\/p>\n
Duke e njohur gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb, filloi t\u00eb na p\u00eblqente. Pastaj, edhe sikur t\u00eb mos na p\u00eblqente, duhej medoemos t\u00eb fillonim ta donim sepse na kishte marr\u00eb gjysm\u00ebn e shpirtit; vajz\u00ebn ton\u00eb. M\u00eb skeptikja kam qen\u00eb un\u00eb, im shoq e mori pak m\u00eb me t\u00eb but\u00eb, por ishte e shkruar t\u00eb b\u00ebhej. Pas dy vitesh fejes\u00eb, vajza u martua dhe ata mor\u00ebn sht\u00ebpi me qira q\u00eb t\u00eb jetonin vet\u00ebm, ta provonin se sa mund ta p\u00ebrballonin vet\u00eb. Ishte veprimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e dh\u00ebndrrit, jo vet\u00ebm e hodh\u00ebn si ide, por u gjet\u00ebn nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi af\u00ebr sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre, ua paguan p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vit qiran\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb mos e fillonin me shum\u00eb probleme jet\u00ebn e tyre familjare. Dh\u00ebndrri vazhdonte pun\u00ebn me t\u00eb atin, edhe vajza ime filloi pun\u00eb si recepsioniste n\u00eb nj\u00eb bank\u00eb. Nuk kishte ndonj\u00eb rrog\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por gjithsesi, shkonte e vinte n\u00eb pun\u00eb si njeri. Orari i pun\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy ishte i gjat\u00eb, edhe familja jon\u00eb, edhe prind\u00ebrit e dh\u00ebndrrit i ndihmonim me \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mundnim. Edhe ata ishin familje e rregullt, prind\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuar ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve e rregullave t\u00eb familjes. Ata kishin edhe tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb barra kryesore na ra neve q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdeseshim p\u00ebr ta. Ne kishim edhe vajz\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, por ajo ishte n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb e p\u00ebr momentin, nuk po na sillte ndonj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. K\u00ebshtu, un\u00eb dhe burri im krijuam nj\u00eb orar t\u00eb sakt\u00eb nga puna n\u00eb treg pastaj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e vajz\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb aty pjes\u00ebn e tyre e pastaj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb. Ai q\u00eb kishte radh\u00ebn e tregut (sepse un\u00eb dhe burri im e b\u00ebnim me radhe) dit\u00ebn q\u00eb do sillej p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbaruar pazaret lodhej, vinte i k\u00ebputur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por dihet si jan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Dimri erdhi bashk\u00eb me virozat e st\u00ebrzgjatura dhe k\u00ebshtu, burri im u s\u00ebmur me grip e m\u00eb pas i dol\u00ebn edhe nj\u00eb mal me s\u00ebmundje t\u00eb tjera. I s\u00ebmur\u00eb, filloi t\u00eb mos shkonte n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe mbetej vet\u00ebm alternativa e raporteve derisa mjek\u00ebt na e p\u00ebrcaktuan t\u00eb qart\u00eb diagnoz\u00ebn e tij: Kancer n\u00eb m\u00ebl\u00e7i. Na than\u00eb se kishte af\u00ebrsisht edhe tre muaj jet\u00eb. Kjo ishte shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, kuptohet, derisa e pranuam n\u00eb mendjet tona se ai shum\u00eb shpejt s\u2019do t\u00eb ishte mes nesh. P\u00ebrkujdesi q\u00eb duhej n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb nuk ishte vet\u00ebm nga ana fizike, por edhe ana financiare. T\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb b\u00ebra q\u00eb burri im t\u00eb vuante sa m\u00eb pak, xhepi yn\u00eb nuk i p\u00ebrballonte. Nj\u00eb i af\u00ebrm i yni na ndihmoi sa p\u00ebr fillim dhe kur \u00ebsht\u00eb puna p\u00ebr keq, koha kalon shum\u00eb shpejt. Tre muaj kaluan dhe burri im nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb. Dhimbja p\u00ebr humbjen e tij ishte shum\u00eb e madhe, ai ishte shum\u00eb i ri dhe pastaj, sapo kishim filluar t\u2019i vinim pun\u00ebt n\u00eb vij\u00eb, vajza u martua, tjetra ishte n\u00eb fakultet, por s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb e th\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Sapo kishim filluar t\u2019i g\u00ebzoheshim qet\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore me vajzat pothuajse t\u00eb rregulluara. N\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tronditje t\u00eb familjes, njeriu q\u00eb na u gjend m\u00eb pran\u00eb ishte dh\u00ebndrri q\u00eb un\u00eb aq shum\u00eb e kam shar\u00eb para se vajza ime t\u00eb fejohej. Me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm vinte \u00e7do or\u00eb e m\u00eb ndihmonte q\u00eb ta zhvendosnim tim shoq sepse ne nuk mundeshim, por t\u00eb gjith\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjen e b\u00ebri si t\u00eb ishte babai i tij. Ia them vajz\u00ebs time nj\u00ebmij\u00eb her\u00eb se ia ka borxh k\u00ebt\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim edhe ajo prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij. Nuk ishte e th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb familja jon\u00eb t\u00eb kishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsi me at\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebndrrit. Motra e dh\u00ebndrrit u martua me djalin e v\u00ebllait tim dhe mua m\u00eb duken t\u00eb lumtur. U takuan p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb funeralin e burrit tim dhe me sa duket, aty jan\u00eb p\u00eblqyer. U g\u00ebzova kur e mora vesh lidhjen e tyre sepse tashm\u00eb kisha filluar t\u2019i njihja krushqit dhe m\u00eb p\u00eblqenin. Un\u00eb dhe vajza e vog\u00ebl q\u00eb ishte n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb jetonim bashk\u00eb tashm\u00eb e duhej ta pranonim se babi nuk ishte m\u00eb. Akoma edhe sot e k\u00ebsaj dite m\u00eb duket sikur ai l\u00ebviz n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr t\u00eb na ndihmuar.<\/p>\n
Dh\u00ebndrri e kujton vazhdimisht, m\u00eb shum\u00eb me fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb do t\u2019i ket\u00eb treguar vajza ime p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn kur un\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoja, nd\u00ebrsa i ati ishte m\u00eb i qet\u00eb. Prap\u00eb e dua dh\u00ebndrrin, edhe pse ma v\u00eb n\u00eb dukje faktin q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk kam dashur lidhjen e tij me vajz\u00ebn. Vajza tjet\u00ebr sapo \u00ebsht\u00eb fejuar, por si gjith\u00eb rinia q\u00eb jan\u00eb pa pun\u00eb, edhe ata mbet\u00ebn kafeve me t\u00eb fejuarin. Shpresoj q\u00eb edhe ata t\u00eb rregullohen dhe t\u2019i shoh t\u00eb lumtur. Nuk e di me cilin dh\u00ebnd\u00ebrr do m\u00eb duhet t\u00eb pleq\u00ebroj apo do mbetem vet\u00ebm, si\u00e7 ka dal\u00eb moda tani, q\u00eb \u00e7iftet duan t\u00eb rrin\u00eb vet\u00ebm, por gjithsesi, do jem mir\u00eb p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa vajzat e mia do t\u00eb jen\u00eb mir\u00eb. Blerta<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cE dua at\u00eb djal\u00eb, mami dhe nuk martohem me ask\u00ebnd tjet\u00ebr!\u201d, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb fjalia q\u00eb kam d\u00ebgjuar tri her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb nga ime bij\u00eb para gjasht\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh. Si t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e sotsh\u00ebm, q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb asnj\u00eb lloj kompleksi p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur ndjenjat dhe mendimet e tyre, edhe ime bij\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguli p\u00ebr t\u2019u fejuar me djalin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[282],"class_list":["post-6738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori-nga-jeta-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6738","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6738"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6738\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6738"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6738"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6738"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}