– Jam nj\u00eb lexues i rregullt i k\u00ebsaj rubrike dhe ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr informacionin q\u00eb na jepni. Desha t\u2019ju pyes n\u00eb lidhje me seksin. Thuhet seks oral, anal dhe vaginal, por s\u2019jam edhe aq i qart\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i kuptoj si kryhen k\u00ebto ve\u00e7 e ve\u00e7 e si veprohet praktikisht, se n\u00eb regjimin komunist, nuk njiheshim me k\u00ebto th\u00ebnie. Tani jam kureshtar (pavar\u00ebsisht nga mosha) t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj n\u00eb cilat marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie duhet domosdoshm\u00ebrisht prezervativi? P\u00ebr kaq po ju shqet\u00ebsoj. M\u00eb falni p\u00ebr paditurin\u00eb time, por si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb, i p\u00ebrkas nj\u00eb brezi dhe sistemi n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin shum\u00eb pak kishim dijeni rreth intimitetit. Ju uroj sh\u00ebndet. Poli.
\nDr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog: – Seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb veprimtari e njeriut, e domosdoshme jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr riprodhimin, por edhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jep ai n\u00eb momentin e orgazm\u00ebs. Seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb mistik dhe dominon shpeshher\u00eb n\u00eb veprimtarin\u00eb e njeriut, shton dashurin\u00eb e respektin nd\u00ebrmjet \u00e7iftit, t\u00eb largon stresin e t\u00eb b\u00ebn q\u00eb ta shikosh jet\u00ebn me nj\u00eb sy tjet\u00ebr, m\u00eb pozitiv, pra, ruan cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs. N\u00eb veprimtarin\u00eb e vet, njeriu, me kalimin e etapave historike t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, ka ndryshuar edhe n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb koncepteve t\u00eb vler\u00ebsimit t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale. N\u00eb etapa t\u00eb ndryshme historike dhe n\u00eb kultura t\u00eb ndryshme, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale nd\u00ebrmjet dy personave, ndryshon. Ndryshe ka qen\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale para 100 vjet\u00ebsh, ndryshe \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb komunitetin mysliman apo n\u00eb komunitete jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb zhvilluara, si p\u00ebr shembull n\u00eb Guinen\u00eb e Re, apo n\u00eb fiset e Amazon\u00ebs. N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e civilizuar, ku marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb liberale, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re nj\u00eb sjellje seksuale ndryshe nga \u00e7\u2019ka qen\u00eb para disa vjet\u00ebsh.
\n– N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijm\u00eb seksin oral, ku t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt ngacmojn\u00eb me goj\u00eb apo me gjuh\u00eb, organin seksual t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Do quajm\u00eb seks anal kur mashkulli b\u00ebn penetrim me penisin e tij n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb anusit, nd\u00ebrsa seksi vaginal \u00ebsht\u00eb ai historikisht i njohur dhe m\u00eb fiziologjiku p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb seksuale. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto lloje apo forma marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniesh si pozicioni nd\u00ebrmjet dy \u00e7ifteve dhe lojrat e tjera seksuale realizohen gjithmon\u00eb q\u00eb partner\u00ebt t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb seksuale dhe cil\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00eb maksimum. Kur flasim p\u00ebr seks oral dhe anal, sigurisht, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb e cila n\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk p\u00eblqehet, por edhe urrehet dhe b\u00ebhet frenuese. Kjo lloj m\u00ebnyre e t\u00eb b\u00ebrit seks, edhe n\u00eb vendet e zhvilluara si p\u00ebr shembull n\u00eb SHBA, deri n\u00eb vitin 1988, d\u00ebnohej edhe me ligj nga 100 dollar\u00eb gjob\u00eb deri n\u00eb 20 vjet burg. Me kalimin e viteve u pa nga studiuesit q\u00eb t\u00eb realizosh nj\u00eb seks t\u00eb till\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht e ndaluar, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sjellje seksuale e zgjedhur n\u00eb konsensus mes \u00e7iftit. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e puthura n\u00eb buz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, nj\u00eb lloj eksitimi i shpesht\u00eb n\u00eb vende t\u00eb ndryshme, e papraktikuar p\u00ebr shembull te kinez\u00ebt apo deri vitet e fundit te japonez\u00ebt, mund t\u00eb thuhet q\u00eb nuk ka gj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb puthesh dhe \u00e7iftet nuk l\u00ebn\u00eb vend pa u prekur dhe pa u puthur. Pra, u arrit n\u00eb konkluzionin se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb keqeje ka n\u00ebse do t\u00eb puth\u00ebsh edhe organin seksual? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb seksi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar shum\u00eb edhe n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb vitet e fundit, por seksi oral mund t\u00eb kryhet gjithmon\u00eb me marr\u00ebveshjen e \u00e7fitit. Edhe seksi anal, meqen\u00ebse pjesa e anusit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e inervuar, sjell nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale dhe shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte e praktikojn\u00eb, por duke mos qen\u00eb fiziologjike, mund t\u00eb krijohen probleme t\u00eb tilla si s\u00ebmundje t\u00eb ndryshme, fisura, \u00e7arje, dhimbje, infeksione (m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta te mashkulli) sidomos kur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet nuk b\u00ebhen me lubrifikant. Pra, si p\u00ebrfundim, k\u00ebto veprime dhe sjellje b\u00ebhen me zgjedhjen e partner\u00ebve. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Jam nj\u00eb lexues i rregullt i k\u00ebsaj rubrike dhe ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr informacionin q\u00eb na jepni. Desha t\u2019ju pyes n\u00eb lidhje me seksin. Thuhet seks oral, anal dhe vaginal, por s\u2019jam edhe aq i qart\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i kuptoj si kryhen k\u00ebto ve\u00e7 e ve\u00e7 e si veprohet praktikisht, se n\u00eb regjimin komunist, nuk njiheshim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6614","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6614","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6614"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6614\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6614"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6614"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6614"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}