Portofol me uj\u00eb
\n– Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u00eb ishte mbushur portofoli me uj\u00eb. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim, ju lutem? Faleminderit.
\n– Duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes me shpenzimet, sepse fare papritur mund t\u00eb gjendeni mes nj\u00eb krize financiare. Pra, kujdes!<\/p>\n
Na sulmuan dy qen
\n– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb q\u00eb dy qen t\u00eb zinj t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj po na sulmonin mua dhe motr\u00ebn time. Mua m\u00eb h\u00ebngr\u00ebn te dora dhe m\u2019u b\u00eb nj\u00eb gung\u00eb e madhe, e \u00e7uditshme. Mund t\u2019ju duket \u00ebnd\u00ebrr koti, por un\u00eb u shqet\u00ebsova shum\u00eb. Dua t\u00eb di, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo?
\n– \u00cbndrra tregon se do t\u2019ju paraqitet nj\u00eb penges\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim, n\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjen tuaj dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, duhet t\u00eb veproni me instikt. N\u00ebse instikti ju thot\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjeni me ashp\u00ebrsi, at\u00ebhere k\u00ebshtu duhet t\u00eb veproni, pa ju vrar\u00eb fare nd\u00ebrgjegjja. \u00cbndrra ju thot\u00eb: N\u00eb rastin konkret, instikti \u00ebsht\u00eb arma juaj m\u00eb e fort\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Gjarpri hyri n\u00eb dhom\u00eb
\n– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr i cili po tentonte t\u00eb hynte n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn time. Un\u00eb desha t\u00eb mbyllja der\u00ebn e dhom\u00ebs, por di\u00e7ka e pengonte dhe gjarp\u00ebri hyri n\u00eb dhom\u00eb. Aty, u zgjova.
\n– Gjarp\u00ebri ka shum\u00eb kuptime dhe n\u00eb rastin tuaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb simbol erotik. Ju keni shum\u00eb frik\u00eb nga bota intime. Keni d\u00ebshira, por frika ju b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb shmangni afrime t\u00eb tilla. E ndjeni q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e nevojshme, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, logjika juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe vendosni mure rreth vetes. Ama, gjarp\u00ebri ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb dhom\u00eb dhe kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju nuk mund ta shmangni p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. Intimiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs dhe nevoj\u00eb fiziologjike. Shpjegimi tjet\u00ebr ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb dhe me frik\u00ebn tuaj ndaj dikujt, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb mashkull. Arsyen e frik\u00ebs e dini vet\u00ebm ju, por gjithsesi, cilado t\u00eb jet\u00eb, do ta kap\u00ebrceni…<\/p>\n
M\u00eb goditi n\u00eb ball\u00eb
\n– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb para disa dit\u00ebve nj\u00eb \u00ebnderr. Isha duke sh\u00ebtitur n\u00eb nj\u00eb mal, por papritur m\u00eb doli para nj\u00eb person. Ky person m\u00eb vrau n\u00eb ball\u00eb me arm\u00eb dhe m\u00eb ishte mbushur fytyra me gjak, nd\u00ebrsa flok\u00ebt i kisha shum\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebra.
\n– Ky person, sigurisht, ka qen\u00eb pjes\u00eb e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs tuaj. Keni pasur nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb fort\u00eb, ama ai ju ka goditur aty ku nuk duhet dhe ju keni ndjer\u00eb dhimbje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. \u00cbndrra tregon q\u00eb pas nj\u00eb t\u00eb keqeje, q\u00ebndron gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb e mir\u00eb, ndaj m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhi ashtu, sepse gjaku n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr do t\u00eb thot\u00eb rilindje, sh\u00ebndet dhe nj\u00eb jet\u00eb e re p\u00ebr ju. E keqja tashm\u00eb ka kaluar dhe ju nuk duhet ta mbani m\u00eb kok\u00ebn pas, por t\u00eb shikoni p\u00ebrpara, sepse di\u00e7ka m\u00eb e mir\u00eb ju pret. <\/p>\n
Deshi t\u00eb m\u00eb prekte ish-i
\n– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ish-bashk\u00ebshortin tim, sikur ishte n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, shtrir\u00eb n\u00eb divan dhe aty sikur ishte edhe nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr. Ky sikur donte t\u00eb m\u00eb prekte, por un\u00eb nuk e lija. N\u00eb ato momente, u zgjova.
\n– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon nj\u00eb lloj nostalgjie, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, urrejtje ndaj ish-bashk\u00ebshortit tuaj. Ju e mendoni her\u00eb pas here dhe \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla jan\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Ai tashm\u00eb ka filluar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re. Ndoshta ju nuk jeni n\u00eb dijeni, por sipas \u00ebndrr\u00ebs dikush \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb krahun e tij dhe ndoshta kjo ka q\u00ebn\u00eb dhe arsyeja q\u00eb e pand\u00ebrgjegjshmja ju ka shfaqur nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb till\u00eb. Uroj t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb person t\u00eb ri n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj dhe t\u00eb mos shihni m\u00eb \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla. <\/p>\n
Krimbi dhe milingonat e kuqe
\n– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur nga dora e majt\u00eb m\u00eb doli nj\u00eb krimb i kuq, q\u00eb ngjante si shum\u00ebk\u00ebmb\u00ebsh. Tentova ta hiqja, por u k\u00ebput n\u00eb gjys\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb pas dol\u00ebn edhe ca t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, shum\u00eb milingona t\u00eb kuqe dhe krahu dukej si grop\u00eb, si varr. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?
\n– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb ka dy kuptime: S\u00eb pari, tregon nj\u00eb gjendje fizike e dob\u00ebt gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb keni qen\u00eb duke fjetur. Ndoshta keni pasur ndonj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor, mpirje krahu, ose nuk keni fjetur mir\u00eb, ngaq\u00eb mendoni shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar dhe pengjet q\u00eb ju kan\u00eb ngelur n\u00eb jet\u00eb. M\u00eb shkruanit n\u00eb letr\u00ebn tuaj edhe p\u00ebr vdekjen e babait… M\u00eb vjen keq p\u00ebr dhimbjen q\u00eb keni provuar, por duket q\u00eb \u00ebndrra shpreh edhe pengun tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb madh, faktin q\u00eb nuk keni qen\u00eb n\u00eb varrimin e tij. Gropa q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, milingonat kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me sikletin tuaj, pengun e madh q\u00eb ju ka ngelur n\u00eb shpirt, por nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni kaq shum\u00eb, sepse \u00ebndrra paralajm\u00ebron m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj dob\u00ebsie sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore. Duke e stresuar veten kaq shum\u00eb dhe duke u m\u00ebrzitur, nuk do t\u00eb b\u00ebni gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se do ta p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsoni gjendjen tuaj shpirt\u00ebrore, e cila domosdoshm\u00ebrisht do t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb edhe n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin tuaj. Edhe babait tuaj, i cili nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fizikisht, por \u00ebsht\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht me ju, nuk do t\u2019i vinte mir\u00eb t\u2019ju shikonte n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. Jo m\u00eb kot keni par\u00eb dor\u00ebn e majt\u00eb, sepse i p\u00ebrket an\u00ebs s\u00eb zemr\u00ebs, pra, mos e mundoni zemr\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb lidhje me pengun q\u00eb ju ka ngelur. Kujtojeni babain tuaj vet\u00ebm n\u00eb momentet e bukura kur keni qen\u00eb me t\u00eb dhe harrojeni munges\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb varrim, sepse \u00e7dokujt mund t\u2019i ndodhte kjo gj\u00eb. Ju uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n
Familja e ish-bashk\u00ebshortit
\n– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr familjen e ish-bashk\u00ebshortit tim. Shoh n\u00eb \u00ebndrra sikur e gjith\u00eb familja e tij m\u00eb p\u00ebrkrah, vet\u00ebm ish-i im nuk m\u00eb afrohet, por largohet gjithmon\u00eb nga un\u00eb. Tani, un\u00eb jam martuar me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por dua t\u00eb di, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?
\n– Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju nuk jeni shk\u00ebputur psikologjikisht nga ish-bashk\u00ebshorti juaj. E mendoni dhe nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, njer\u00ebzit e tij ju mendojn\u00eb disi, duke qen\u00eb se tashm\u00eb ju n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tyre keni vazhduar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re. Pra, \u00ebndrra nuk ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se ju jep nj\u00eb mesazh q\u00eb t\u00eb shikoni p\u00ebrpara dhe t\u00eb mos mendoni aspak se \u00e7far\u00eb mendojn\u00eb ata. Tashm\u00eb, keni vazhduar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re dhe p\u00ebrkushtojuni totalisht asaj, pa menduar se \u00e7far\u00eb thot\u00eb dynjaja. K\u00ebshtu, edhe \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla, t\u00eb jeni e sigurt\u00eb se nuk do t\u00eb shihni m\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Portofol me uj\u00eb – Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u00eb ishte mbushur portofoli me uj\u00eb. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim, ju lutem? Faleminderit. – Duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes me shpenzimet, sepse fare papritur mund t\u00eb gjendeni mes nj\u00eb krize financiare. Pra, kujdes! Na sulmuan dy qen – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb q\u00eb dy qen t\u00eb zinj […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6609","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6609"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6609\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}