– Jam 30 vje\u00e7, mir\u00ebpo kam disa muaj q\u00eb kam munges\u00eb t\u00eb theksuar ereksioni. Jam vizituar te shum\u00eb mjek\u00eb, por pa asnj\u00eb rezultat. M\u00eb orientoni ju lutem, ku t\u00eb drejtohem?
\n– I nderuar 30 vje\u00e7ar! Nuk e di n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb mjek\u00ebsh keni shkuar, por mungesa e ereksionit te mosha juaj, mund t\u00eb trajtohet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme. Munges\u00ebn e ereksionit mund ta keni nga shum\u00eb arsye; mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00e7rregullim organik, fizik, sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor, \u00e7rregullim psikologjik, ose mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shkak ndonj\u00eb ila\u00e7 apo medikament q\u00eb merrni. Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb medikamentet q\u00eb merren p\u00ebr nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb munges\u00eb ereksioni. Mund ta keni edhe thjesht psikologjike, p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb cilat i dini vet\u00ebm ju. Megjithat\u00eb, meq\u00eb pyesni se ku duhet t\u00eb shkoni, do t\u2019ju prisja n\u00eb klinik\u00ebn time n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb konsultoheni me androlog. N\u00ebse nuk keni mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb vini, ju them t\u00eb vizitoheni drejtp\u00ebrs\u00ebdrejti me mjekun androlog specialist, i cili merret me problemet sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore seksuale t\u00eb meshkujve dhe q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pran\u00eb zon\u00ebs ku ju banoni.
\n– Doktor, ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb fiksim q\u00eb me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn t\u00eb b\u00ebj seks treshe; un\u00eb, e dashura ime dhe nj\u00eb mashkull tjet\u00ebr. Nuk e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. I kam treguar edhe t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs sime dhe ajo m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cmeq\u00eb ke d\u00ebshir\u00eb ti dhe t\u00eb p\u00eblqen, e b\u00ebj p\u00ebr ty\u201d. Po ju, \u00e7\u2019mendoni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb timen? Nga mund t\u00eb m\u00eb ket\u00eb ardhur?
\n– D\u00ebshira juaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks treshe, do t\u00eb ket\u00eb ardhur nga pasigurit\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeni n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb psikologjike, pra, n\u00eb mendjen tuaj. Ose d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb provoni eksperienca t\u00eb reja, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb ndryshimin, ose \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht kurioziteti juaj ndaj nj\u00eb mashkulli tjet\u00ebr, ose mes jush dhe partneres tuaj mungon lidhja e fort\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore e fizike dhe d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb thyeni disi rutin\u00ebn. \u00c7do \u00e7ift ka d\u00ebshirat e veta dhe e nd\u00ebrton vet\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb jet\u00ebn seksuale. Un\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019ju gjykoj, edhe pse nuk jam pro k\u00ebtyre lloj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale. Do shtoja se nuk m\u00eb duket normale q\u00eb e dashura juaj t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen juve, sepse duket qart\u00eb q\u00eb ajo nuk e d\u00ebshiron k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, p\u00ebrderisa thot\u00eb se e b\u00ebn p\u00ebr ju. Mos e detyroni t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn tuaj ta b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, n\u00ebse nuk i p\u00eblqen. Ju, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, mund t\u00eb rrezikoni edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj dhe, n\u00ebse ndodh kjo gj\u00eb, mund t\u00eb prishet gjith\u00e7ka mes jush, si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe kund\u00ebrta. Si\u00e7 e thash\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e \u00e7do \u00e7ifti ta nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb si t\u00eb doj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tij seksuale. K\u00ebshilla ime n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm s\u00eb pari me sh\u00ebndetin tuaj fiziko-psikologjik. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Jam 30 vje\u00e7, mir\u00ebpo kam disa muaj q\u00eb kam munges\u00eb t\u00eb theksuar ereksioni. Jam vizituar te shum\u00eb mjek\u00eb, por pa asnj\u00eb rezultat. M\u00eb orientoni ju lutem, ku t\u00eb drejtohem? – I nderuar 30 vje\u00e7ar! Nuk e di n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb mjek\u00ebsh keni shkuar, por mungesa e ereksionit te mosha juaj, mund t\u00eb trajtohet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6593\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}