Ja, 9 gj\u00ebra q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i dini p\u00ebr ta<\/p>\n
Kush jan\u00eb burrat e sot\u00ebm? Cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb ata me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndajm\u00eb miq\u00ebsin\u00eb, zyr\u00ebn, nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb ose gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb? A jan\u00eb ata baballar\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm nga t\u00eb m\u00ebparshmit? Kan\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb lidhen seriozisht dhe pse? Jan\u00eb besnik\u00eb, apo jo? Sa rrog\u00eb marrin ata dhe pse ajo, \u00ebsht\u00eb mesatarisht m\u00eb e lart\u00eb se rroga e grave? K\u00ebtyre dhe shum\u00eb pyetjeve t\u00eb tjera jemi munduar t\u2019u japim p\u00ebrgjigje n\u00eb shkrimin e m\u00ebposht\u00ebm. Zbuloni burrat n\u00eb 9 gj\u00ebra n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet shifrave, studimeve dhe analizave t\u00eb ekspert\u00ebve tan\u00eb. Do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni kaq shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra mbi ta!<\/p>\n
1. 78% e burrave mendojn\u00eb se besnik\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje…
\n…por 21% pohojn\u00eb se kan\u00eb pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie jasht\u00ebmartesore dhe 23% pohojn\u00eb se mund t\u2019u ndodh\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb n\u00ebse paraqitet rasti. Pra, megjith\u00ebse 78% mendojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, nuk jan\u00eb 78% ata q\u00eb e ruajn\u00eb me \u201crrept\u00ebsi\u201d. Megjithat\u00eb, le t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb matur me k\u00ebto shifra, sepse besnik\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb si masturbimi, nj\u00eb tem\u00eb tabu; e kemi m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjemi q\u00eb jemi besnik\u00eb p\u00ebr ta pasur nd\u00ebrgjegjen t\u00eb qet\u00eb… Ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dini \u00ebsht\u00eb se burri i viteve 2010 nuk tradhton m\u00eb shum\u00eb se para 10, 20 apo 30 vjet\u00ebve. Burri, me B t\u00eb madhe, gjithmon\u00eb e ka pasur t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb besnik, \u201csepse besnik\u00ebria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar n\u00eb ADN-n\u00eb ton\u00eb\u201d, thot\u00eb specialisti. Ai ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, megjith\u00ebse shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb ka krijuar nj\u00eb skem\u00eb monogame. E kuptojm\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb pse, megjith\u00ebse 78% e burrave mendojn\u00eb se besnik\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme (te grat\u00eb, kjo shif\u00ebr arrin vler\u00ebn 86% ), atyre shpejt u nd\u00ebrrohet mendja nga d\u00ebshirat ose nevojat, pasi seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja e par\u00eb pse tradhtojn\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb arsyeja pse tradhtojn\u00eb grat\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb \u201ct\u2019ia kalojn\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d.
\nNdryshe nga sa mendohet, sitet e takimeve dhe ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht ato t\u00eb takimeve jasht\u00ebmartesore nuk e favorizojn\u00eb tradhtin\u00eb. Le t\u00eb themi q\u00eb ato i p\u00ebrgjigjen nj\u00eb nevoje t\u00eb shprehur nga burrat dhe grat\u00eb q\u00eb nga koh\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb lashta.<\/p>\n
2. Madh\u00ebsia mesatare e seksit t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb ereksion \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb ulje
\nSiti britanik TheyFit ka publikuar n\u00eb qershor 2013 nj\u00eb studim mbi madh\u00ebsin\u00eb e penisit, duke konfirmuar se ajo zvog\u00eblohej me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. Reduktimi, thon\u00eb ata, \u00ebsht\u00eb 2.45 cm nd\u00ebrmjet vitit 2003-2013, duke kaluar nga 15,4 te 12,95 cm (n\u00eb ereksion) brenda dhjet\u00eb viteve! Sipas Akademis\u00eb Komb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Kirurgjis\u00eb Franceze, nj\u00eb penis mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb 12,8-14,5 cm n\u00eb ereksion.
\nDihet q\u00eb burrat jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm ndaj k\u00ebsaj teme (t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 56% e burrave n\u00ebn 35 vje\u00e7 dhe 44%, pas 50 vje\u00e7, i kushtojn\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi k\u00ebsaj). Nd\u00ebr vendet e para radhiten ekuatorian\u00ebt (17.7 cm), nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb vendet e fundit gjejm\u00eb kinez\u00ebt (10,9cm). Shkaktar\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ulje, sipas studiuesve, jan\u00eb ndotja e mjedisit dhe ndryshimet klimaterike. N\u00ebse njer\u00ebzit do t\u2019i b\u00ebnin pyetjen vetes se sa do t\u00eb ishte kjo madh\u00ebsi pas 20 apo 30 vjet\u00ebsh, pa dyshim q\u00eb do t\u00eb zgjidhnin t\u00eb shkonin n\u00eb pun\u00eb me bi\u00e7iklet\u00eb, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn p\u00ebr brezat q\u00eb do t\u00eb vijn\u00eb!<\/p>\n
3. Rroga mesatare e nj\u00eb burri \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e lart\u00eb se ajo e gruas
\nN\u00eb Franc\u00eb, rroga mesatare e nj\u00eb burri \u00ebsht\u00eb 2218 euro, pra, 25% m\u00eb shum\u00eb se para 10 vjet\u00ebve (1768 euro) dhe vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb 20% m\u00eb e lart\u00eb se rroga mesatare e grave. N\u00eb natyr\u00eb, ekziston nj\u00eb asimetri seksuale: Meshkujt jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb se grat\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mbushur me testosteron. Ky ndryshim morfologjik ka kaluar n\u00eb simbolik\u00ebn njer\u00ebzore: Burri dominon! Megjith\u00ebse ky dominim n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e sotme gjykohet si i gabuar, ne nuk arrijm\u00eb ta evitojm\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb natyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, n\u00eb \u201cprogramin ton\u00eb fillestar\u201d, thot\u00eb specialisti. Nga pik\u00ebpamja biologjike, \u00e7ifti e \u201crespekton\u201d k\u00ebt\u00eb asimetri: 95% e burrave lidhen me gra m\u00eb t\u00eb shkurtra se ata vet\u00eb dhe 81% jan\u00eb me gra m\u00eb t\u00eb reja, ose moshatare. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb ndodh edhe me parat\u00eb. Sado q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb barazin\u00eb, burrat mbeten superior\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse luftojm\u00eb t\u00eb zbusim k\u00ebto ndryshime, ato nuk mund t\u00eb zhduken kaq leht\u00eb, brenda dit\u00ebs.
\nAt\u00ebhere, duhet t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se nj\u00eb burr\u00eb g\u00ebnjen kur pretendon se p\u00ebr t\u00eb nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi q\u00eb partnerja t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb para se ai? Sigurisht, sepse burri ndjehet i zhvler\u00ebsuar kur ndodh kjo. Ai humbet burr\u00ebrir\u00eb, humbet nj\u00eb vler\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb sikur ju t\u2019i jepnit nj\u00eb fuoristrade dhe ai nj\u00eb Smarti: Kjo, p\u00ebr t\u00eb, nuk shkon, \u00ebsht\u00eb kund\u00ebr natyr\u00ebs! At\u00ebhere, pse k\u00ebta zot\u00ebrinj hiqen si t\u00eb p\u00ebrparuar dhe thon\u00eb se p\u00ebr ta nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi? Pa dyshim, pasi nuk duan t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb protestat dhe diskutimet feministe.<\/p>\n
4. Burrat po marrin pjes\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb
\nSipas nj\u00eb studimi evropian, grat\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie sesa burrat: 3 or\u00eb e 52 minuta (mesatarisht, gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs) kundrejt 2 or\u00eb 24 minuta t\u00eb burrave. Megjithat\u00eb, ata po e shtojn\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarrjen e tyre n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim, thon\u00eb specialist\u00ebt. Dikur, burrat hapnin shishen e ver\u00ebs n\u00eb tavolin\u00eb dhe kaq ishte puna e tyre, por q\u00ebkur kan\u00eb humbur imazhin e shefit t\u00eb familjes dhe e zgjedhin vet\u00eb partneren, ata futen edhe n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Ata nuk kan\u00eb m\u00eb rolin e thjesht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb sjell\u00eb para, por edhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb me sht\u00ebpin\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, u ka ngelur ndjesia se po ulen, po zhvler\u00ebsohen. Imazhi i tyre burr\u00ebror ka marr\u00eb nj\u00eb goditje, ata ndjehen m\u00eb pak t\u00eb q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm. Nj\u00eb studim q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb publikuar n\u00eb American Sociogical Revievv (shkurt 2013). Ai ka v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dukje se \u00e7iftet ku burrat b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie, kan\u00eb rralluar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb \u00e7iftet kur burrat merren me kopshtari, me rregullime gj\u00ebrash n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, b\u00ebjn\u00eb pun\u00eb \u201cburrash\u201d, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mira. \u00c7far\u00eb po ndodh? Q\u00ebkur kan\u00eb marr\u00eb fshes\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb, jan\u00eb burrat q\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb \u201czhburr\u00ebruar\u201d, apo grat\u00eb q\u00eb i shohin me sy tjet\u00ebr?<\/p>\n
5. Burrat e kan\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohen n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje
\nBurrat e kan\u00eb pasur gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u lidhur seriozisht. \u201cAta kan\u00eb frik\u00eb nga vendimet q\u00eb i angazhojn\u00eb\u201d. Edhe sot, k\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb! Kjo ndodh ngaq\u00eb takimet dhe flirtet jan\u00eb t\u00eb lehta p\u00ebr t\u2019u realizuar dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb pranueshme. Pra, mund t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh, t\u00eb flirtosh, t\u00eb testosh. Mentalitetet kan\u00eb ndryshuar, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb flasin hapur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb subjekt, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e kuptojn\u00eb shprehjen \u201cPo grumbulloj eksperienca para se t\u00eb lidhem p\u00ebrfundimisht\u201d, por kjo fjala e fundit u fut frik\u00ebn burrave. Pastaj, edhe grat\u00eb e kan\u00eb me nxitim. Q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, gruaja mendon p\u00ebr \u00e7iftin ideal dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb. Gruaja shpesh nxitohet t\u00eb realizoj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb imagjinon q\u00eb prej vitesh. Burri nuk e mendon k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe nuk e ka menduar kurr\u00eb. Ai mendon p\u00ebr angazhimin kur lidhja merr form\u00eb.
\nMegjithat\u00eb, mos u shqet\u00ebsoni, vjen nj\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe burrat ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb vetes k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje. Edhe kur jan\u00eb beqar\u00eb, ata mund t\u00eb vendosin nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb gruan \u201ce duhur\u201d, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb dashuri\u00e7k\u00ebs s\u00eb radh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
6. Sot, \u00e7ifti \u00ebsht\u00eb prioritet i burrave
\n\u00c7ifti p\u00ebrb\u00ebn sot, n\u00eb syt\u00eb e burrave, vler\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme (n\u00eb mas\u00ebn 54%), para familjes (31%) dhe pun\u00ebs (11%). Brenda gati nj\u00eb gjys\u00ebm shekulli, prioritetet kan\u00eb ndryshuar. Para m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 40 vjet\u00ebsh, burri ishte shef familjeje q\u00eb drejtonte \u201cgrupin e tij\u201d. Ai shkonte n\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar para dhe i sillte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi q\u00eb t\u00eb ushqente familjen. Jeta profesionale ishte par\u00ebsore. \u201cKy nocion i shefit t\u00eb familjes \u00ebsht\u00eb zhdukur n\u00eb vitet \u201870\u201d, na shpjegon specialisti. K\u00ebshtu, shoq\u00ebria ka shpikur subjektin: \u00c7do person ka z\u00ebn\u00eb vendin e vet dhe ekziston si i till\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb, u krijua \u00e7ifti, i p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb nga dy subjekte q\u00eb e kan\u00eb zgjedhur vet\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. K\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb, kur vendoset jeta n\u00eb \u00e7ift, ajo t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb prioritet, meq\u00eb hierarkia dhe modeli i dikursh\u00ebm jan\u00eb thyer tashm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
7. 27% e burrave blejn\u00eb rroba para nj\u00eb takimi
\nBurrat po b\u00ebhen si… grat\u00eb! Megjith\u00ebse jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumta grat\u00eb (33%) q\u00eb e kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb refleks (dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, q\u00eb preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb blejn\u00eb nj\u00eb pal\u00eb xhinse t\u00eb mira ose nj\u00eb produkt kozmetik para momentit t\u00eb shum\u00ebpritur), burrat harxhojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb (82 euro mesatarisht, kundrejt 40 eurove nga grat\u00eb) p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebllim. E \u00e7uditshme, apo jo? Sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb kryer nga siti i produkteve kozmetike Escentual.com dhe cituar nga Daily Mail, 46,5% e femrave britanike mendojn\u00eb se partneri i tyre p\u00ebrdor fshehurazi produktet e tyre kozmetike p\u00ebr 19,5 paund\u00eb (22.5 euro) n\u00eb muaj mesatarisht. Edhe burrat e kan\u00eb sensin e estetik\u00ebs. Ata i kushtojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi pamjes se tyre t\u00eb jashtme dhe kujdesen m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr veten. Megjith\u00ebse burrat u \u201cmarrin borxh\u201d produktet partnereve t\u00eb tyre, ata kan\u00eb filluar edhe t\u00eb blejn\u00eb. S\u00eb shpejti, nuk do t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb m\u00eb burri q\u00eb do t\u00eb nervozohet kur t\u2019i propozoj\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb bashk\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyqane?<\/p>\n
8. Burrat merren m\u00eb shum\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt
\nMarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia baba-f\u00ebmij\u00eb ka ndryshuar dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme, edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia \u00e7ift-f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Jan\u00eb shtuar familjet vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb prind dhe, p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, edhe baballar\u00ebt q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e tyre, sidomos, p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket kujdestaris\u00eb s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. I rikthehemi asaj q\u00eb tham\u00eb m\u00eb lart; sot vendos vet\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb \u00e7ift, t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh prind dhe t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb rrjedhin prej k\u00ebsaj.<\/p>\n
9. Burri nuk di akoma ta gjej\u00eb pik\u00ebn G
\nSipas nj\u00eb sondazhi t\u00eb kryer prej sitit t\u00eb takimeve Ashley Madison, burrat meritojn\u00eb not\u00ebn 8 p\u00ebr njohurit\u00eb e tyre se ku ndodhet pika G, por nj\u00eb 3, p\u00ebr aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr ta gjetur… Megjithat\u00eb, shpresa vdes e fundit dhe do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb ne do t\u00eb kemi gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb pak sekrete p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n
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Ja, 9 gj\u00ebra q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i dini p\u00ebr ta Kush jan\u00eb burrat e sot\u00ebm? Cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb ata me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndajm\u00eb miq\u00ebsin\u00eb, zyr\u00ebn, nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb ose gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb? A jan\u00eb ata baballar\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm nga t\u00eb m\u00ebparshmit? Kan\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb lidhen seriozisht dhe pse? Jan\u00eb besnik\u00eb, apo jo? Sa rrog\u00eb marrin ata […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":6517,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[905],"class_list":["post-6515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-seks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6515","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6515"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6515\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}