{"id":6446,"date":"2014-11-20T13:00:45","date_gmt":"2014-11-20T12:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=6446"},"modified":"2014-11-20T12:45:40","modified_gmt":"2014-11-20T11:45:40","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-16","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/11\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-16\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eb k\u00ebrkuan p\u00ebr nuse<br \/>\n&#8211; N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb sikur erdh\u00ebn dy familje t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin p\u00ebr nuse. T\u00eb par\u00ebn e refuzova, kurse t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn e pranova, edhe pse nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqente, sepse n\u00ebna m\u00eb thoshte: \u201cPranoje k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb, se \u00ebsht\u00eb i pasur\u201d.<br \/>\n&#8211; Duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes n\u00eb k\u00ebrkesat q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni, sepse padashur mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni zgjedhjen e gabuar. V\u00ebrtet, logjika n\u00eb vendime t\u00eb tilla luan nj\u00eb rol shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, por edhe ndjenjat e zemra kan\u00eb rolin e tyre m\u00eb se t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. Do t\u00eb keni k\u00ebrkesa, ama mos hidhni nj\u00eb hap drejt nj\u00eb lidhjeje, pa qen\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete dhe n\u00ebse nuk ndjeni asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ju uroj fat!<\/p>\n<p>I binin flok\u00ebt<br \/>\n&#8211; Motra ime ka par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb e ka shqet\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb, sikur vendosi duart n\u00eb kok\u00eb dhe pa q\u00eb i ran\u00eb flok\u00ebt. Kudo q\u00eb prekte, i binte floku dhe ishte nj\u00eb sasi shum\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb binin kudo n\u00ebp\u00ebr tok\u00eb. Ndjente dhimbje dhe sikur, dikush i tha: \u201cLyeji me vaj ulliri q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb rregullohen flok\u00ebt\u201d. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim \u00ebndrra e saj? Jam e shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe pres nj\u00eb parashikim. Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbndrrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrmbajtjen e tyre flok\u00ebt, kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime. N\u00eb rastin konkret, \u00ebndrra ka lidhje me vet\u00eblver\u00ebsimin e saj dhe nj\u00eb gjendje psikologjike shpirt\u00ebrore jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Ajo ka humbur besimin n\u00eb vetvete dhe p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Po kalon periudh\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme, p\u00ebr arsye q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ajo duhet t\u2019i dij\u00eb, por kjo do t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb edhe n\u00eb gjendjen e saj fizike, sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore. Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb v\u00ebrtet humbje t\u00eb flok\u00ebve, sepse dihet q\u00eb stresi ndikon n\u00eb r\u00ebnien e tyre, ndaj k\u00ebshilla q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, \u00ebsht\u00eb me vend. Motra duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim n\u00eb lukun e saj, t\u2019i pres\u00eb flok\u00ebt dhe t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb trajtim vetes nga koka gjer te k\u00ebmb\u00ebt. K\u00ebshtu, do t\u2019i rregullohet humori dhe do t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb besim n\u00eb vetvete. <\/p>\n<p>Arrij me vones\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; Shoh shum\u00eb shpesh \u00ebndrra sikur b\u00ebhem von\u00eb p\u00ebr n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe nuk e gjej koh\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb gati. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi kan\u00eb?<br \/>\n&#8211; Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon periudh\u00eb stresuese ose jeni ju nj\u00eb person q\u00eb e stresoni shum\u00eb veten p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Ju duket sikur jeni von\u00eb p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, \u00e7do gj\u00eb e zmadhoni dhe kjo nuk ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni mir\u00eb me veten. \u00cbndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u2019i merrni gj\u00ebrat me qet\u00ebsi n\u00eb \u00e7do fush\u00eb qoft\u00eb. Si u nxitove, si u vonove, \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkruar, do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet. <\/p>\n<p>Portofol me uj\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u00eb ishte mbushur portofoli me uj\u00eb. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim, ju lutem? Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; Duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes me shpenzimet, sepse fare papritur mund t\u00eb gjendeni mes nj\u00eb krize financiare. Pra, kujdes!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eb k\u00ebrkuan p\u00ebr nuse &#8211; N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb sikur erdh\u00ebn dy familje t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin p\u00ebr nuse. T\u00eb par\u00ebn e refuzova, kurse t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn e pranova, edhe pse nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqente, sepse n\u00ebna m\u00eb thoshte: \u201cPranoje k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb, se \u00ebsht\u00eb i pasur\u201d. &#8211; Duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes n\u00eb k\u00ebrkesat q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni, sepse [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6446","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6446","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6446"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6446\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6446"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6446"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6446"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}