– Jemi nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebjm\u00eb dot f\u00ebmij\u00eb, spermatozoid\u00ebt na dol\u00ebn me dy bishta. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo? Ne, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien seksuale e kemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.
\n– Nj\u00eb nga parametrat e nj\u00eb spermograme \u00ebsht\u00eb studimi morfologjik i spermatozoid\u00ebve. Spermatozoidi ka shtat\u00eb patologji t\u00eb kok\u00ebs, dy patologji t\u00eb pjes\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme dhe kat\u00ebr patologji t\u00eb bishtit. Prania e spermatozoid\u00ebve me dy bishta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga patologjit\u00eb, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shkaktare kryesore e pamund\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Sidoqoft\u00eb, shoh q\u00eb informacioni juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i turbullt, ndaj ju k\u00ebshilloj nj\u00eb konsult\u00eb, p\u00ebr sqarime t\u00eb m\u00ebtejshme.
\n– P\u00ebrse burrat thon\u00eb shpesh: \u201cDua seks\u201d? Duket sikur atyre nuk u interesojn\u00eb fare ndjenjat. Kur i them t\u00eb dashurit tim: \u201cMos m\u00eb thuaj \u201cdua seks\u201d se m\u00eb ofendon\u201d, ai qesh dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb normale. Ku ndryshon fjala \u201cseks\u201d nga fjala \u201cdashuri\u201d?
\n– P\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, burrat jan\u00eb m\u00eb praktik\u00eb dhe nuk hyjn\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb thella, n\u00eb mendime apo analiza fjal\u00ebsh, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ata nuk ndjejn\u00eb. Ju jeni t\u00eb lidhur dhe domosdoshm\u00ebrisht, mes jush ka dashuri, por n\u00ebse duam t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb dallimin mes t\u00eb th\u00ebnit thjesht \u201cb\u00ebj seks\u201d nga \u201cb\u00ebj dashuri\u201d, ndryshimi \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb. N\u00ebse ju thot\u00eb nj\u00eb i panjohur \u201cdua seks\u201d, kuptohet q\u00eb ai do di\u00e7ka momentale, nuk ka ndjenja. Burrat nga natyra e k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb seksin, sepse kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb urgjente t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin impulset e tyre seksuale. Ata e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks pa hyr\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb thella shpirt\u00ebrore me femrat. K\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb sepse duan t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb burr\u00ebror\u00eb, nuk e vrasin mendjen shum\u00eb, por n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb ama, sepse edhe ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashuri. P\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kur jua thot\u00eb sepse e di q\u00eb ju e dashuroni, ai ju do dhe nuk do ta keqkuptoni.
\n– Isha e lidhur me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb 7 vjet m\u00eb t\u00eb madh se un\u00eb q\u00eb vet\u00ebm pse i thash\u00eb disa d\u00ebshira mbi seksin, ai m\u00eb paragjykoi dhe u b\u00eb disa dit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ma hap telefonin. Jam e shokuar, si mund t\u00eb m\u00eb gjykoj\u00eb kur nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb d\u00ebshirat i kisha n\u00eb lidhje me at\u00eb e jo me ndonj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr? Kemi r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb hall ne femrat; keq t\u00eb shprehemi, keq t\u00eb mos shprehemi…
\n– M\u00eb vjen v\u00ebrtet keq q\u00eb ka akoma njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb. Ai duhet t\u2019ju kishte vler\u00ebsuar akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb, sepse si\u00e7 e thoni edhe vet\u00eb, ju thjesht keni shprehur d\u00ebshira n\u00eb lidhje me at\u00eb, jeni treguar e lirshme dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka pozitive n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Ndoshta ai nuk ka qen\u00eb m\u00ebsuar q\u00eb ju m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb shpreheshit k\u00ebshtu, por do t\u2019ju thoja si juve, ashtu edhe femrave t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb mund t\u00eb takojn\u00eb tipa t\u00eb till\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen q\u00eb pak nga pak apo edhe me gjeste t\u2019i lini partnerit t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen ky apo ai veprim n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Kuptoni gjithashtu nevojat e tij, \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen dhe shprehini d\u00ebshirat me trupin e gjestet tuaja. At\u00ebhere, kur t\u00eb bindeni se nuk do t\u00eb paragjykoheni, mund edhe t\u00eb flisni hapur, por pasi ta keni njohur si natyr\u00eb. Sekreti i nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift, \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht t\u00eb qenit vetvetja dhe t\u00eb shprehurit lirsh\u00ebm. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Jemi nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebjm\u00eb dot f\u00ebmij\u00eb, spermatozoid\u00ebt na dol\u00ebn me dy bishta. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo? Ne, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien seksuale e kemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. – Nj\u00eb nga parametrat e nj\u00eb spermograme \u00ebsht\u00eb studimi morfologjik i spermatozoid\u00ebve. Spermatozoidi ka shtat\u00eb patologji t\u00eb kok\u00ebs, dy patologji t\u00eb pjes\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme dhe kat\u00ebr patologji […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6308"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6308\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}