– Dr. Evi, ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes dhe do t\u2019ju lutesha t\u00eb m\u00eb jepni mendimin tuaj. \u00cbsht\u00eb hera e dyt\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj, pasi vertet nuk di t\u2019i jap zgjidhje. Jam nga Jugu. Jam njohur me nj\u00eb person t\u00eb mir\u00eb prej disa muajsh dhe menduam q\u00eb n\u00ebse njohja jon\u00eb do t\u00eb ecte, t\u00eb kalonim n\u00eb fejes\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam 32 vje\u00e7e dhe i dashuri im \u00ebsht\u00eb 45 vje\u00e7. Kemi tentuar disa her\u00eb t\u00eb kryejm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, po marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia nuk realizohet. Un\u00eb nuk kam eksperienca t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme dhe i dashuri ejakulon shum\u00eb shpejt. Madh\u00ebsia e organit t\u00eb tij \u00ebsht\u00eb 2-3 cm dhe gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies, 6-7 cm, por organi i tij nuk forcohet dhe ai ejakulon shum\u00eb shpejt. Nuk e di n\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb n\u00eb fejes\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb intimitet nuk funksionon mir\u00eb asgj\u00eb. N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme shkojm\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ai, ka shum\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb mira, \u00ebsht\u00eb familjar dhe pa vese. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni n\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jone mund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb fejes\u00eb? A do t\u00eb kemi probleme m\u00eb pas? Kam d\u00ebgjuar se ka disa meshkuj q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb probleme edhe p\u00ebr pjellori…
\nDr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog: – Sigurisht, akti seksual \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb moment shum\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien midis dy personave. N\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet k\u00ebtij veprimi, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb trash\u00ebgimia, konceptimi i nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, por ky \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb moment i paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket jet\u00ebs n\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi. \u00cbsht\u00eb akti seksual ai q\u00eb ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerash do t\u00eb forcoj\u00eb lidhjen midis \u00e7iftit, do t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb partner\u00ebt t\u00eb duhen shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, t\u00eb respektojn\u00eb apo t\u00eb sakrifikojn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Nj\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale n\u00eb \u00e7ift, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur ky \u00e7ift \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e tij, do t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb pa diskutim n\u00eb nj\u00eb prishje t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj marr\u00ebveshjeje.
\n– Shikoj q\u00eb letra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar me dashuri dhe me nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. E kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment gjendjen tuaj, por un\u00eb t\u00eb them me siguri q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim se ky \u00e7rregullim i p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm do t\u00eb rregullohet. Kuptoj n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet jush se kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb me disfunksion, me nj\u00eb impotenc\u00eb seksuale (disfunksion erektil) q\u00eb n\u00eb rastet m\u00eb t\u00eb shumta \u00ebsht\u00eb me natyr\u00eb psikologjike apo organike. P\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar shkakun e k\u00ebsaj impotence, duhet nj\u00eb ekzaminim apo nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb analizash. Nga letra kuptoj q\u00eb kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb ndoshta me nj\u00eb faktor psikologjik, q\u00eb ndodh tek i fejuari juaj, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb apo t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm k\u00ebt\u00eb mosfunksionim dhe ne jemi shum\u00eb optimist\u00eb p\u00ebr riparimin dhe zgjidhjen e tij. Prandaj, do t\u2019ju thoja q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e lini t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb k\u00ebshtu ky problem; m\u00eb kontaktoni dhe ju siguroj q\u00eb mjekimi dhe rezultati pozitiv do t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb i shpejt\u00eb. Ju mir\u00ebpres! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Dr. Evi, ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes dhe do t\u2019ju lutesha t\u00eb m\u00eb jepni mendimin tuaj. \u00cbsht\u00eb hera e dyt\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj, pasi vertet nuk di t\u2019i jap zgjidhje. Jam nga Jugu. Jam njohur me nj\u00eb person t\u00eb mir\u00eb prej disa muajsh dhe menduam q\u00eb n\u00ebse njohja jon\u00eb do t\u00eb ecte, t\u00eb kalonim n\u00eb fejes\u00eb. Un\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mjeku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6304"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6304\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}