{"id":6058,"date":"2014-11-12T21:00:42","date_gmt":"2014-11-12T20:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=6058"},"modified":"2014-11-12T13:03:51","modified_gmt":"2014-11-12T12:03:51","slug":"tradhtite-qe-sollen-hakmarrjen-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/11\/tradhtite-qe-sollen-hakmarrjen-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Tradhtit\u00eb q\u00eb soll\u00ebn hakmarrjen time!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Thon\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mbjell\u00ebsh do t\u00eb korr\u00ebsh dhe nuk u desh shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoja se kjo funksiononte v\u00ebrtet. Jam rritur vet\u00ebm me mamin, por nuk e kam ndjer\u00eb shum\u00eb munges\u00ebn e babait pasi ime m\u00eb m\u2019i ka plot\u00ebsuar t\u00eb gjitha. Nuk e kam ndjer\u00eb munges\u00ebn e asgj\u00ebje, m\u00eb ka llastuar. Ndryshe nga moshataret e mia, kam studiuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe universitet privat, kam IPhone, makin\u00ebn time dhe gjith\u00eb \u00e7ka do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironte t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb moshatare e imja. Ndoshta pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebto lukse b\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb, q\u00eb n\u00eb adoleshenc\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb shthurur. Edhe pse e rritur mes t\u00eb mirave, k\u00ebrkoja gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga jeta, isha gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsive t\u00eb reja. Edhe vet\u00eb mami \u00e7uditej q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb b\u00ebnte p\u00ebrshtypje mungesa e babait, por edhe ajo nuk ma vinte n\u00eb dukje munges\u00ebn e tij, p\u00ebrkundrazi\u2026<br \/>\nIsha nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i lumtur, i llastuar, me t\u00eb cilin fati ishte treguar tep\u00ebr bujar. Mami udh\u00ebton shum\u00eb dhe shpesh, m\u00eb merr me vete n\u00eb vendet q\u00eb viziton p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 14 vje\u00e7are, un\u00eb p\u00ebrjetova lidhjen time t\u00eb par\u00eb! Nuk e dija se si funksiononte, por nuk kisha frik\u00eb! Me mamin flisja p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka, madje shpeshher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb pyet e para: \u201cEra, ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb re?\u201d dhe q\u00eb aty nisnin rr\u00ebfimet e mia p\u00ebr lidhjet me djemt\u00eb. M\u00eb pas njoha djalin me t\u00eb cilin q\u00ebndrova e lidhur p\u00ebr 3 vjet. Mendoja se kisha gjetur dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb deri n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ai m\u00eb tradhtoi duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu fund historis\u00eb 3 vje\u00e7are. E p\u00ebrjetova si mos m\u00eb keq, ajo ndarje m\u00eb ndryshoi plot\u00ebsisht. Po p\u00ebrjetoja di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, isha shum\u00eb e lumtur dhe kurr\u00eb nuk e kisha menduar se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundonte n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Un\u00eb v\u00ebrtet isha tip shum\u00eb i hedhur dhe jeta q\u00eb b\u00ebja nuk ngjasonte aspak me at\u00eb t\u00eb vajzave t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebr mua nuk ishte \u00e7udi q\u00eb t\u00eb nisja nj\u00eb lidhje dashurie n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn q\u00eb e nisa un\u00eb apo t\u00eb kisha m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb histori me djemt\u00eb (me nj\u00eb frym\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb m\u00eb kishte rritur ime m\u00eb, e cila gjithashtu ishte pa komplekse), por pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebtyre, pas tradhtis\u00eb s\u00eb tij, erdhi edhe tradhtia ime. \u201cT\u00eb kam q\u00ebndruar besnike edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur nuk e ke merituar, por tani nuk mundem m\u00eb\u201d, i thash\u00eb me lot n\u00eb sy kur e pash\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb fundit. \u201cEra, mendohu mir\u00eb sepse un\u00eb po t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj t\u00eb falur\u201d, vazhdonte t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulte ai, por ishte e kot\u00eb. E kisha vendosur q\u00eb ndarja do t\u00eb ishte p\u00ebrfundimtare, edhe pse e dija q\u00eb do t\u00eb vuaja. Me ndihm\u00ebn e mamit u mundova ta kaloja at\u00eb moment t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime; ajo ka qen\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetja m\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr mua. Pa pranin\u00eb e saj nuk e di n\u00ebse do t\u2019ia dilja dot n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Dit\u00ebt kalonin dhe un\u00eb vazhdoja ta vuaja humbjen e dashuris\u00eb sime, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr, u b\u00ebra edhe m\u00eb moskok\u00eb\u00e7ar\u00ebse, m\u00eb e pandjeshme dhe e mora jet\u00ebn m\u00eb leht\u00eb. \u201cNj\u00eb jet\u00eb ka njeriu dhe nuk ia vlen ta harxhosh duke qar\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u201d, i thoja vetes. Asnj\u00eb dit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs sime nuk i ngjante tjetr\u00ebs, asnj\u00eb dit\u00eb nuk m\u00eb gjente n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin vend. P\u00ebr mua, jeta monotone nuk ekzistonte. Nuk kaloi shum\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe njoha Florin, djalin me t\u00eb cilin u dashurova. Pran\u00eb tij e harrova shpejt lidhjen q\u00eb kisha dhe jeta ime ndryshoi 360 grad\u00eb. Flori ishte tipi im, nuk i kishte aspak problem \u00e7mendurit\u00eb e mia, madje ndodhte shpesh q\u00eb k\u00ebto t\u00eb fundit i b\u00ebnim bashk\u00eb: Q\u00ebndronim deri n\u00eb or\u00ebt e para t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit bashk\u00eb jasht\u00eb, konsumonim edhe l\u00ebnd\u00eb narkotike, deheshim dhe na dukej sikur bota ishte e jona. Kisha nisur nj\u00eb kapitull t\u00eb ri n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin po kaloja momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura, edhe fal\u00eb tipit tim moskok\u00eb\u00e7ar\u00ebs. \u201cSa dua q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb fund kurr\u00eb!\u201d, i thoja Florit, personit t\u00eb vet\u00ebm q\u00eb arrinte t\u00eb m\u00eb kuptonte edhe vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb shikim, atij q\u00eb m\u00eb kuptonte sa her\u00eb ndihesha keq, atij q\u00eb m\u00eb jepte nj\u00eb shpatull p\u00ebr t\u2019u mb\u00ebshtetur n\u00eb momentet e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija. \u201cTi je ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb dashuroj dhe nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb braktis kurr\u00eb\u201d, m\u00eb thoshte. Fjal\u00ebt e tij ma shtonin edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb besimin n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb ton\u00eb, por edhe k\u00ebsaj here, n\u00eb momentin kur po dukej sikur gj\u00ebrat po shkonin m\u00eb mir\u00eb nga sa e kisha pritur, \u00e7do gj\u00eb shkoi n\u00eb dreq!<br \/>\n\u201cMendoj se nuk duhet t\u00eb takohemi m\u00eb, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn p\u00ebr disa koh\u00eb. Kam nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb reflektoj mbi lidhjen\u201d, m\u00eb shkruante ai. E gjitha kjo m\u00eb ra si bomb\u00eb! Ai po ndahej nga un\u00eb vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb sms?! Po m\u00eb dridhej i gjith\u00eb trupi, nuk dija \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb b\u00ebja. Provova ta merrja n\u00eb telefon, por nuk u p\u00ebrgjigj. \u201cT\u00eb gjitha shpresat u shuan apo e gjith\u00eb ajo q\u00eb kisha jetuar deri tani nuk ka qen\u00eb asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?\u201d, pyesja veten me lot n\u00eb sy. \u201cPse m\u00eb ndodhin mua t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto? \u00c7far\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i meritoj gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto vuajtje?\u201d, i thoja mamit e cila mundohej t\u00eb m\u00eb qet\u00ebsonte sa mundej. \u201c\u00c7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkoshme n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh q\u00eb edhe gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ti do, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb largohen papritur, pa t\u00eb lajm\u00ebruar\u201d, m\u00eb thoshte, por un\u00eb nuk doja t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoja justifikime p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb kishte ndodhur. Asgj\u00eb nuk mund ta justifikonte ikjen e tij ashtu, pa dh\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00eb shpjegim! Kjo ndarje n\u00eb fillim m\u00eb dob\u00ebsoi shum\u00eb, por n\u00eb vazhdim m\u00eb b\u00ebri edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Tanim\u00eb isha m\u00eb parull\u00ebn: \u201cVajza e mir\u00eb, u b\u00eb e keqe\u201d dhe kjo n\u00ebnkuptonte se nuk doja t\u2019ia dija m\u00eb p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs kisha nj\u00eb gur. U betova se nuk do t\u00eb dashurohesha m\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb derisa t\u00eb merrja hak p\u00ebr braktisjet q\u00eb kisha p\u00ebsuar. U mundova shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb afrohesha me t\u00eb dashurin tim t\u00eb par\u00eb, e ula edhe krenarin\u00eb time dhe arrita q\u00eb t\u2019i afrohesha atij. Kur e takova p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, ndjeva nostalgji pasi m\u2019u rikthyen t\u00eb gjitha kujtimet q\u00eb kisha patur me t\u00eb. Dukej q\u00eb ende m\u00eb dashuronte dhe ky ishte nj\u00eb avantazh p\u00ebr mua. Ndoshta e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb ndodhte edhe me mua, por tani nuk isha m\u00eb ajo e para, ndjenjat ua kisha l\u00ebn\u00eb personave m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt sepse kjo nuk ishte n\u00eb tipin tim.<br \/>\n\u201c\u00c7far\u00eb ka ndodhur me jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe?\u201d, ishte kurioz t\u00eb m\u00ebsonte sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb ai. Vazhdoja t\u00eb luaja rolin sikur kisha vuajtur gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs munges\u00ebn e tij dhe se askush nuk kishte arritur ta z\u00ebvend\u00ebsonte deri n\u00eb at\u00eb moment. E pash\u00eb q\u00eb kjo e fundit i p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb dhe i shtoi shpresat e mia p\u00ebr t\u2019u rikthyer me t\u00eb. \u201cJam e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndjesh at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeva edhe un\u00eb kur ti m\u00eb tradhtove\u201d, mendoja me vete teksa ai fliste. E shikoja dhe m\u00eb dukej sikur nuk kishte kaluar fare koh\u00eb e gj\u00ebrat kishin mbetur po aty ku kishin qen\u00eb mes nesh. Filluam t\u00eb takoheshim n\u00eb fillim vet\u00ebm si miq dhe gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe e kuptova se ai k\u00ebrkonte di\u00e7ka m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nga un\u00eb. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, edhe un\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja, madje ky ishte misioni im. Edhe pse ende kisha ndjenja p\u00ebr t\u00eb, nuk mund t\u2019ia lejoja vetes q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndohesha p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. Jo m\u00eb!<br \/>\nAi u dashurua p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me mua, madje k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb, p\u00ebr ta shmangur k\u00ebt\u00eb, dilja edhe me djem t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Sigurisht, ai nuk dinte asgj\u00eb dhe megjith\u00ebse kishin kauar dy muaj q\u00eb ne ishim lidhur, nuk e kishte kuptuar q\u00eb e tradhtoja. K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb ne nuk kalonim shum\u00eb koh\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin si n\u00eb fillim sepse un\u00eb u angazhova me nj\u00eb projekt televiziv i cili m\u00eb merrte pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Edhe ai kishte angazhimet e tij t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme dhe kjo ishte n\u00eb avantazhin tim. Arrita ta b\u00ebja q\u00eb t\u00eb ndahej nga e dashura dhe t\u00eb dashurohej s\u00ebrish me mua. Kjo ishte k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia ime m\u00eb e madhe, madje k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb vendosa edhe t\u00eb sillesha m\u00eb keq me t\u00eb dhe, nga kjo, ai u dashurua edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Po prisja momentin e duhur kur do t\u2019i thoja se nuk doja ta vazhdoja m\u00eb lidhjen me t\u00eb. Doja t\u00eb shihja n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn shprehje q\u00eb pa ai n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn time n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm. Duhet ta \u00e7oja hakmarrjen time n\u00eb vend. At\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb isha ajo Era e m\u00ebparshme e kryelart\u00eb. Dhe, k\u00ebshtu ndodhi! N\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj m\u00ebnyre un\u00eb po b\u00ebja nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb dyfisht\u00eb, e gjitha n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb hakmarrjes. Filluam t\u00eb udh\u00ebtonim bashk\u00eb shum\u00eb shpesh, m\u00eb blinte dhurata dhe surprizat nuk mungonin pothuajse asnj\u00eb dit\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto m\u00eb b\u00ebnin t\u00eb l\u00ebkundesha ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb dhe ta l\u00ebshoja veten duke u dashuruar s\u00ebrish me t\u00eb, por jo. Nuk mund ta b\u00ebja s\u00ebrish at\u00eb gabim! Edhe mamas\u00eb sime q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb kishte ditur gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr mua, k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb nuk i tregova asgj\u00eb sepse doja ta b\u00ebja gjith\u00e7ka e vetme, sipas m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs sime. E dija q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb ndalonte, do t\u00eb ma mbushte mendjen q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e b\u00ebja sepse e njihja ndikimin q\u00eb kishte tek un\u00eb, prandaj nuk i fola p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb.<br \/>\n\u201cMendon se ka ardhur momenti q\u00eb ne t\u00eb fejohemi?\u201d, i thash\u00eb.<br \/>\n\u201cNuk jam gati p\u00ebr fejes\u00eb\u201d, ishte p\u00ebrgjigjja q\u00eb nuk prisja ta merrja kurr\u00eb!<br \/>\n\u201cPse?\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cNuk jam gati ta marr at\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi mbi veten\u201d, ma preu shkurt.<br \/>\n\u201cPo un\u00eb mendova se m\u00eb dashuroje\u201d. K\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr pak sa nuk ia thash\u00eb me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, por e mbajta veten. Nuk po e kuptoja \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodhte me t\u00eb sepse n\u00ebse vazhdonte k\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb m\u2019i prishte t\u00eb gjitha planet.<br \/>\n\u201cKe ndonj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr?\u201d, fillova t\u00eb luaja rolin e xhelozes.<br \/>\n\u201cSi mund t\u00eb kem tjet\u00ebr kur t\u00eb dashuroj vet\u00ebm ty? Duhet t\u00eb m\u00eb kuptosh se ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb hedh hapin e madh. Kur ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb, dua t\u00eb jem shum\u00eb i p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm\u201d.<br \/>\nNuk kisha \u00e7far\u00eb t\u2019i thoja sepse do t\u00eb prishja gjith\u00e7ka, ndaj e lash\u00eb me aq. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe isha pajtuar edhe me Florin dhe dilja edhe me at\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Me t\u00eb e kisha m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb rikthimin, edhe pse gjithashtu iu desh t\u00eb ndahej nga e dashura p\u00ebr t\u2019u rilidhur me mua. Jam e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb shum\u00eb prej jush pasi ta lexoni historin\u00eb time do t\u00eb m\u00eb quani t\u00eb shthurur, por n\u00ebse i shikoni gj\u00ebrat n\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimin tim, do t\u00eb m\u00eb jepni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim n\u00ebse shkon me dy, tre apo kat\u00ebr meshkuj, gabim \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebnjesh dhe t\u00eb l\u00ebndosh. Dhe, erdhi dita q\u00eb un\u00eb e shijova n\u00eb maksimum hakmarrjen time. U lash\u00eb takim q\u00eb t\u00eb dyve n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin vend dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn or\u00eb.<br \/>\n\u201cT\u00eb pres n\u00eb or\u00ebn 13.00 fiks, mos u vono\u201d, u thoja t\u00eb dyve sepse duhet t\u00eb vinin q\u00eb t\u00eb dy n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. Meq\u00eb t\u00eb dy ishin dashuruar s\u00ebrish me mua, tani ishte moment final i hakmarrjes. N\u00eb kafen ku e lash\u00eb takimin, kisha vajtur e shoq\u00ebruar me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr shok me t\u00eb cilin u putha sapo ata t\u00eb dy u shfaq\u00ebn n\u00eb der\u00ebn e lokalit. At\u00eb sken\u00eb nuk do ta harroj kurr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time, mbet\u00ebn t\u00eb shtangur n\u00eb vend! Ashtu si\u00e7 ishin, t\u00eb xhindosur, u afruan te tavolina ime. Aty u b\u00eb nj\u00eb l\u00ebmsh i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kur m\u00ebsuan edhe p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<br \/>\n\u201c\u00c7far\u00eb je ti k\u00ebshtu?\u201d, m\u00eb tha Flori. \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb loje po luan?\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cPo luaje\u2026, do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb e sakt\u00eb fjalia\u201d, i thash\u00eb. Aty u tregova se q\u00eb n\u00eb rikthimin me ta gjith\u00e7ka ishte qen\u00eb e shtirur, p\u00ebr t\u2019u hakmarr\u00eb ndaj atyre q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb vuaja. Ata nuk e donin veten teksa m\u00eb d\u00ebgjonin dhe pasi than\u00eb nj\u00eb thes me sharje, u larguan, por e dija shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb po vuanin. Po ndjeja nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb brendshme q\u00eb e arrita at\u00eb q\u00eb doja. Ju mund t\u00eb thoni q\u00eb un\u00eb jam e pashpirt, por ishin ata q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Q\u00eb prej asaj dite nuk i kam par\u00eb m\u00eb, ka kaluar nj\u00eb vit, megjithat\u00eb edhe un\u00eb i druhem ndonj\u00eb hakmarrjeje nga ana e tyre. \u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb mashtrosh dhe ta b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00eb vuaj\u00eb, por nuk duhet harruar q\u00eb, kur ajo lodhet, nuk ka m\u00eb kthim pas dhe hakmarrja \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i shijon m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Shoh vajza q\u00eb rikthehen me ish-t\u00eb dashurit apo gra me ish-bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt e tyre, por nuk e kuptojn\u00eb se ky \u00ebsht\u00eb gabimi m\u00eb i madh q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Pas nj\u00eb ndarjeje, asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj si t\u00eb lexosh dy her\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin lib\u00ebr, fundin e t\u00eb cilit e di tashm\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thon\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mbjell\u00ebsh do t\u00eb korr\u00ebsh dhe nuk u desh shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoja se kjo funksiononte v\u00ebrtet. Jam rritur vet\u00ebm me mamin, por nuk e kam ndjer\u00eb shum\u00eb munges\u00ebn e babait pasi ime m\u00eb m\u2019i ka plot\u00ebsuar t\u00eb gjitha. Nuk e kam ndjer\u00eb munges\u00ebn e asgj\u00ebje, m\u00eb ka llastuar. 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