{"id":6036,"date":"2014-11-12T23:00:42","date_gmt":"2014-11-12T22:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=6036"},"modified":"2014-11-13T01:50:51","modified_gmt":"2014-11-13T00:50:51","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-16","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/11\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-16\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-pergjigje per seksin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; Si t\u2019i tregoj t\u00eb fejuarit tim q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen seksi me t\u00eb? Jam shum\u00eb e ndrojtur dhe ai vazhdimisht, me t\u00eb qeshur, m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cTi nuk flet, kam nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb shprehesh\u201d&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb shpreheni, p\u00ebrderisa e dashuroni dhe ju p\u00eblqen intimiteti me t\u00eb. K\u00ebtu nuk ka vend ndrojtja. Mund t\u2019ia tregoni me gjeste, me shikime, por dhe me fjal\u00eb, p\u00ebrderisa ai jua ka b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb verejtje drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Mund t\u2019i thoni q\u00eb raporti q\u00eb keni me t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i bukur dhe kjo do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb af\u00ebr jush, t\u00eb ndihet i vler\u00ebsuar e t\u2019ju doj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Thuajini q\u00eb ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni shum\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ju p\u00eblqen intimiteti me t\u00eb. K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb do ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet shum\u00eb i lumtur dhe m\u00eb i sigurt\u00eb me ju. Do t\u00eb ndihet sigurisht edhe m\u00eb i fort\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni e lumtur. S\u2019duhet t\u00eb keni ndrojtje aspak p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, flisni hapur.<br \/>\n<strong>&#8211; Partnerja ime nuk hapet shum\u00eb p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket seksit, ndoshta sepse s\u2019ka ekperienc\u00eb (un\u00eb jam mashkulli i par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb). Nuk di si t\u00eb veproj q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb m\u00eb tregoj\u00eb se si i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb seks, ku ndihet m\u00eb e eksituar etj&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; Duke qen\u00eb se ajo s\u2019ka eksperienc\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb e ka m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb shprehet, por kjo varet edhe nga natyra e vet\u00eb personit. Mendoj se duhet ta merrni ju situat\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb; shprehuni lirsh\u00ebm me t\u00eb, folini edhe n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn erotike dhe b\u00ebjani t\u00eb ditur q\u00eb kjo lloj bisede ju p\u00eblqen. Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb b\u00ebni dashuri, thuajini t\u2019jua marr\u00eb dor\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb eksploroj\u00eb trupin e saj, aty ku asaj i p\u00eblqen. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb gjuha e trupit dhe k\u00ebshtu, pak nga pak, ajo do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb e t\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb e lirshme me ju. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb t\u00eb duheni dhe t\u00eb komunikoni p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi.<br \/>\n<strong>&#8211; Nj\u00eb shoku im m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn tre-kat\u00ebr her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb seks me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn dhe se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur. Kjo m\u00eb shtyu t\u00eb mendoj se un\u00eb ndoshta kam probleme me seksin, pasi b\u00ebj 2 her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb. Ju, si e mendoni?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; Nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale e mir\u00eb, nuk varet nga sasia, por nga cil\u00ebsia. Shum\u00eb meshkujve u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb lavd\u00ebrohen, me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi duke g\u00ebnjyer sesa duke th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi sa her\u00eb b\u00ebn seks, r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia t\u00eb jet\u00eb cil\u00ebsore dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqen t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt. Ai mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks \u00e7do dit\u00eb, por ndoshta nuk ka t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi q\u00eb e keni ju, p\u00ebr shembull q\u00eb b\u00ebni seks m\u00eb rrall\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Si t\u2019i tregoj t\u00eb fejuarit tim q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen seksi me t\u00eb? Jam shum\u00eb e ndrojtur dhe ai vazhdimisht, me t\u00eb qeshur, m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cTi nuk flet, kam nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb shprehesh\u201d&#8230; &#8211; \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb shpreheni, p\u00ebrderisa e dashuroni dhe ju p\u00eblqen intimiteti me t\u00eb. K\u00ebtu nuk ka vend ndrojtja. 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